Opinion
Celebrating Mothers’ Day
A European once
asked a visiting Nigerian friend, “Who is the bread winner in your country?” The Nigerian who was taken aback by the “nonsense question” reluctantly answered, “men of course.” The white man disagreed with him. He said going by the films, movies, and programmes he had watched on television and stories he had read from books, the true bread winners in Nigeria were women.
He narrated how all these media showed women toiling every day, some under very stringent conditions to feed their families and asserted, “all those women carrying babies on their backs, loads on their heads, some pregnant, trekking long distances from farms and markets and also making sure there is food for their families when they get home are the real bread winners my dear.”
Incidentally, not only in Nigeria do women labour to keep their families going. All over the world, mothers make innumerable sacrifices for the good of their children and husbands – sleeping very little at nights, being by their children and husbands’ side when they are sick, giving their families the best at all times and forming the children to become useful members of the society.
For working mothers, the sacrifice is more as they have to effectively combine their job demands with their motherly responsibilities.
One interesting thing is that mothers are so selfless that despite the long hours of work for the family with no vacation, they ask for nothing in return. Their families’ happiness, contentment and success are what they relish as their rewards.
That is why an occasion likes the Mothers’ Day, which comes up on Sunday, March 30, should be used to thank mothers for their sacrifices and show them how special they are. Mothers’ day celebration is an opportunity for children and society to remember and acknowledge the essence and effort that go into giving birth and rearing a new life. This is a special day for us to show due appreciation and respect to our mothers and mother figures in our lives for their influence in our lives and the entire society.
Gifting our mothers as a note of thanks for their undoubtedly devoted love is quite appreciable, but sometimes sparing time to be with them on this special day could create deeper impression.
Mothers’day will also be more meaningful to mothers in Nigeria if adequate attention is paid to the plight of women in the country. Study shows that Nigeria has one of the highest rates of domestic violence in Africa. More than two thirds of Nigerian women are believed to experience physical, sexual and psychological abuse at the hands of their husbands. “On a daily basis, Nigerian women are beaten, raped and even murdered by members of their families for supposed transactions, which can range from not having meals ready on time to visiting family members without their husbands’ permission,” reported Amnesty International.
Similarly, many mothers have been rendered motherless and widow, as a result of the persistent insecurity problems in many parts of the country which has claimed many innocent lives.
It is therefore, my opinion that to truly show that mothers in Nigeria are appreciated, those in authority should take decisive measures to stem these problems.
Mothers are also expected to use the mothers’ day celebration to actually reflect on how well they have played their roles in their families and the larger society. Some people have blamed the growing insecurity and crime rate in the country on the failure of mothers to effectively nurture their children and the children around them. The attributes of protectiveness and nurturing are in short supply in our society amongst women. What we find today are women who are not only given to self-centeredness and self-seeking, but have also passed same to those under their spheres of influence.
Since the mother is the most important person in the life of a child, it is expected of her to be positive and a moral role model, an example that the child can look up to, appreciate and honour. She teaches a child how to provide for himself as well as others, how to love his neighbor as himself by doing so herself. The question is, how many of such mothers can be found in our society today?
Calista Ezeaku
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