Opinion
Still On Nigerians’ Begging Attitude
In life, it is almost inevitable that people will need other people’s assistance at one time or another. For one reason or the other one who may not be able to meet up with his at her responsibilities and approaches friends or relatives for help. At festive periods like the just celebrated Christmas and new year and beyond, people are encouraged to share with the poor and the needy. There is nothing wrong with these. But there is something wrong with the rate at which able bodied Nigerians beg for money. At every institution, many public places, you see well-dressed men and women subtly begging for money. Recently, I visited a place for business transaction and at the gate was a well-dressed, cheerful security guard who zealously ushered me into the compound. I wanted to park my car at one end of the compound and he insisted that I should go another direction which truly was more spacious. In my mind, l was like, “what a dutiful staff”. He was not done yet. As soon as I switched off my car ignition and was about to open the door to come out, he rushed and did it, smiling from one side of his mouth to another, offering unsolicited information and a guide on my whereabouts in the facility. I sincerely thanked him, hoping all the VIP treatment will not be a subtle way of begging for gratuity.
Behold, I was wrong. As l made to step into the building, he whispered “Madam, no forget the favour way l do you oo”. I had just encountered another corporate beggar. A day before, l had a bitter encounter with one, a pump attendant, at a petrol station who called me names for refusing to part with my hard-earned money. Having inquired about the well-being of my family, admired my car and showered all unasked encomiums on me, he expected a monetary appreciation which was not forthcoming and the next thing I heard was “stingy woman”. They are everywhere. At petrol stations, banks, offices, both public and private hotels, you see a lot of people begging while on duty. At the airport, train station and in practically all-important offices in the country, “anything for the boys, your boys dey loyal oo”, seems to have become part of the official language. Of course, this shameful attitude did not start today but it has taken a more serious, disturbing dimension in recent times. Many people, particularly the security personnel, front desk officers, customer relations officers have turned their duty posts to begging offices. They would always blame the current economic downturn for their unbecoming attitude which cannot be totally true because, at least, they are working and earning salaries no matter how little. What about the millions of people who are jobless and have no means of livelihood? Have they all taken to the streets to beg?
One thinks it is a social malaise which has a lot to do with our ethical values. A lot of people in the country value money and other material things far and above integrity, self-respect and self-dignity and so, they will do anything, no matter how shameful, to acquire them. That is why a young man will spend his energy to fetch water in jerry cans or probably even buy the water, take it to a bad portion of a very busy express road like the Lokoja/Abuja road and be pouring the water on the road with a bucket, expecting the road users to throw thousands of naira at him. And he will not hesitate to throw water on any vehicle whose driver or owner fails to comply. A teacher once made an analogy of two families, one has four members and the other was a family of 11 people. Both families were given N200,000.00 each to spend for a month. According to her, half way into the month, the family of four almost exhausted their money and could hardly pull through till the end while the other family of 11 comfortably made do with the amount they had and even had some balance. What was their secret? Prioritisation and prudent management.
Therefore, it is not so much about how much we make through our salaries, begging and other means but how we manage the money. There is hardly anybody in the country today that is not feeling the economic bite and the only thing that will help everybody both the low- and high-income earners is to set their priorities right and learn how to live within their income instead of hoping on tips from some “big men and women” and doing all kinds of ridiculous thing to attract their attention and the crumb. And we forget that the so-called big men most times also have loads of financial responsibilities. If you cannot afford a N300,00 wig, go for a cheaper one you can conveniently purchase. If you cannot afford an expensive school for your kids or yourself, expensive hospitals, furniture or any other possession, why do not you go for the ones within your reach instead of putting yourself under unnecessary pressure that will lure you to begging? On the national level, we also have to consider the damaging impact of officials begging and do something about it. Obviously, taking little tips from people would make officials sleep on their responsibilities, thereby making some unscrupulous elements have their way, exposing the country to avoidable vulnerability.
It is, therefore, imperative we must begin to build a new ethos that places emphasis on self-respect and dignity of labour. As part of the country’s 60th Independence celebration, the National Ethics and Integrity Policy was launched. It contains the nation’s core values of Human Dignity, Voice and Participation, Patriotism, Personal Responsibilities, Integrity, National Unity and Professionalism. All these values and how they will be practised to make for a better country and more cordial relationship among the citizens are thoroughly spelt out. For instance, section 4.5.2.5, talking about Honour under Integrity states, “We shall at all times maintain uprightness of character, personal integrity and pride in ourselves as individuals, as one community, and as one nation. Therefore, in all spheres of life, we shall do what is demanded by our common values and laws that we hold to be true, in accordance with our national identity and in accordance with the values enshrined in our national laws and practices as one country. As Nigerians, we shall stand up to challenge those vices that impede the pursuit of our existence with uprightness. We shall celebrate those Nigerians who are upright”.
But then the big questions are, how many Nigerians are aware of this policy? What efforts are being made to educate the citizens on these core values? We have the National Orientation Agency, the Ministry of Information at various tiers of government, what are they doing to educate people about this code of conduct so that the people internalise it and it becomes a true guide for the citizens, It is not enough that time, energy and resources were spent in packaging the booklet, let adequate sensitisation be carried out, using the media, both conventional and social media and other means of communication to reach people at all nooks and crannies of the country, because many Nigerians are losing it when it comes to integrity and the time to get them back on the right track is now.
By: Calista Ezeaku
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