The upsurge in
incidences of rape in Nigeria is becoming very worrisome. A day hardly passes without news about rape cases from different parts of the country being carried out, even as many cases go unreported.
Rape used to be a matter that was hushed in whisper or rumours because it belonged to the realms of forbidden acts and was indeed uncommon. Even our folktales are full of stories of how the gods visited any man who violated a woman through rape with incurable diseases or sometimes death. Today, the story is different. Rapes cases are featuring as a recurring decimal in public and private places including even the ivory towers insulated from menacing towers. And the victims cut across all ages, old, young and even kids.
Two days ago, news had it that a nine-year-old girl was raped to death by a 14 year-old boy. According to the story, the deceased was raped over five times by the teenager, Onyi Adimabua, in the Ikorodu area of Lagos State.
The deceased’s father said his daughter opened up about the rape when she started having medical problems. “… one day, she came home and started complaining of pains around her vagina, stomach area. We rushed her to Ikorodu General Hospital. A doctor checked her and after conducting some tests on her, told us that my daughter had sustained medical complications due to forced sexual intercourse”, he said.
And of course, the poor girl could succumb to such abuse because the boy, a son of her school’s proprietor, threatened to kill her if she even told anyone.
Still last Tuesday, the police in Ogun State arrested an officer of the Ogun State Vigilance Service, Liasu Oyedele, over the alleged rape of a female National Diploma Banking and Finance Student of the Moshood Abiola Polytechnic, Abeokuta.
The 30-year old suspect was said to have accosted the student, who had gone for “group reading” in preparation for the institution’s second semester examination.
A particular horrible case was reported some months ago about the alleged raping of old women over the age of 70 years in Opi, Nsukka Local Government area of Enugu State, by young men. The shameful act went on for days, leading to a mass protest by women in the area.
To underscore the seriousness of the problem, prominent female indigenes of the state gathered hundreds of people at a prayer ground in Enugu to seek God’s mercy.
Of all rape cases, the most worrisome is the raping of innocent children by adults. Recently, news had it that a nine-year-old girl was raped by 25 years old man in Lagos State. The culprit, Adeniyi, who works within the area where the girl’s school is situated, allegedly lured her to his home after school hours  and forcibly had carnal knowledge of her. Two days ago, a 25-year-old farmer in Jigawa State was sentenced to 15 years imprisonment for raping an eight-year old girl. Research showed that between 2008 and now, the Police in Kano State have dealt with over 60 cases of child rape and over 60 related arrests.
The growing cases of rape can be considered as a consequence of parents’ neglect of their roles to their children. The 14-year-old Onyi, in the aforementioned story said he learnt about sex by watching pornographic films, even as his father lamented that, “I trained that boy in the way of the Lord and expected so much from him”. No doubt, many parents put in their best in training their children but a lot have abandoned their duties of impacting morality in their children. They are so busy with material pursuit that they don’t know the kind of company their children keep. Some even close their eyes and ears to whatever their children do or say.
A preacher once attributed the rampant incidents of the criminal act to the attitude of parents towards  sex. According to him, “some parents no longer consider sex as sacred. Sex is supposed to be a secret act but some parents, particularly those living in very tight accommodation, make public show of the act even in the watchful eyes of their children.” He cautioned that parents should know the right time and place to discuss sex or engage in the act in order not to corrupt their children emphasising that children learn faster what they see than what you tell them.
Parents should also show more interest in the affairs of their children, know the company they keep, educate the girl-child on dangers of rape and places to go so that they are not caught up in the menace.
But even with the best sex education, much change cannot be achieved if our teenage and young women continue on their reigning dress culture. A situation where they put on cloths that expose essential parts of their bodies can be very dangerous. It takes  men discipline to control  themselves and resist the temptation of an evil urge. Proper, decent, responsible advocate if one must avoid the dangers of rape.
The menace could also be curtailed if children stop parading streets and communities in the name of selling pure water, oranges, minerals and  other commodities.
As the preacher advised  parents should occupy their children with sacred tactivities,  the Bible and religious books. Some experts have blamed the rising cases of rape on lack of effective implementation of Nigerian laws against rape. Some say the entire evidential burden placed on victims make it difficult for them to pursue the part of justice, hence the law should be reviewed.
In a paper presented recently, the wife of Ondo  State Governor, Mrs. Olukemi Miniko said, the laws against the  menace should not remain only in the statue book, but be made more efficient and effective as large number of Nigerians know little about government laws on rape.
Criticising the Nigerian government for what she called a lackluster response to rape cases, the Executive Director of the Woman Advocates Research and Documentation Center said  “Nothing has  been put into action. Our laws are still not clear. The woman who wants to report rape does not have the confidence in the judicial system in Nigeria. There is a lot of imputing on the issue of rape and sexual violence in Nigeria.” She emphasised the need for immediate steps to create laws and institutions that protect women.
The legislature should act to stem the ugly incident by reviewing the laws on rape to give more protection to victims.
Federal Government, State ministries and women groups should see the issue of rape as a challenge which they must face in order to restore the dignity of women in the land. They should take up these cases and offer all necessary assistance to the victim.
For the fight against rape to be won, parents, teachers,  religious institutions, non governmental organizations, the media, governments at all levels and everybody must rise up in condemnation of the  social epidemic and take positive action to curb the menace.

Calista Ezeaku