Opinion
When Power Changes Hand
Nigerian First Lady, Aisha Buhari, last Tuesday, took the incoming first lady, Senator Oluremi Tinubu, on a tour of some strategic areas of the Aso Rock Presidential villa. The tour was intended to familiarise the incoming first lady with the official abode of her family in the next four years from May 29 when her husband, Ashiwaju Bola Tinubu, the president-elect, takes over from the incumbent President, Muhammadu Buhari As simply and ordinary as the exercise looked, it was a reminder of the transient nature of power. It called to mind the saying that power is evanescent, that no condition is permanent. History is replete with powerful leaders, some who behaved as if they had the world in their hands but had to give way through one way or the other when the time was up. Does it not seem like yesterday that Buhari assumed office as the president of Nigeria and Aisha by default became the first lady of Nigeria with the whole issue on whether she should be officially addressed as the wife of the president or the first lady with her husband opting for the latter?
Apparently, as a way of distancing himself from the abuse and overbearing tendencies of previous occupants of the “office” of First Lady as claimed by some people, and in a bid to yield to the clamour for the scrapping of the unconstitutional but conventional office, the then yet-to-be elected president said there was not going to be the office of the first lady and that his wife was going to be simply known as the wife of the president. Of course, that was not to be sustained as Aisha after going with the “wife of the president” title for a brief period had long switched to “first lady”. Today, she is warming up to vacate the office for Remi. Aware of this inherent nature of power and influence, should not leaders both political (elected or appointed), religious or in any sphere of influence learn to uphold the right concept of power which is for the good of society? Should not they remember that when the electorate and appointing authority entrust one with a mandate, it is expected to be converted to the common good, harnessed to provide leadership and stewardship that seek the good intent of the mandate of the voters?
It is not yet clear what Remi’s nomenclature would be. But one thing is sure, whether she adopts the title of first lady or prefers to be addressed as the wife of the president, she has a big role to play in ensuring that her husband delivers his mandate to Nigerians. As the mother of the nation, she is not just going to enjoy the paraphenalia of the office but to work for the benefit of Nigerians as she promised. As a 62-year old mother and grandmother, a former first lady of one of the most populous states in the country, Lagos State, there is no doubt that Mrs. Tinubu knows the importance of patience and tolerance in serving the public. Some months ago, a 24 -year old student of Federal University in Dutse, Jigawa State, Aminu Muhammad, was arrested and detained for more than two weeks after he allegedly defamed the current first lady, Aisha, on twitter. It took the wide condemnation of the arrest and alleged torture by Nigerians from different walks of life including social media users and rights campaigners for Aminu to be released after he apologised to the first lady and the authorities dropped the charges against him on “compassionate ground”.
Nigerians do not hope to hear of a similar story in the four years that Remi will wear the toga of first lady. As a mother she should have a large heart and be ready to accommodate different shades of opinion and criticisms. She will be a mother to the poor, the rich, the educated and uneducated, civilised and uncivilised Nigerians, people that reason differently. If there is one thing that the former first lady, Dame Patience Jonathan would be remembered for, it is her ability to tolerate criticisms. At a point she was the target of comedy skits but was never reported to have arrested any of them. Of course, she had her drawbacks but you cannot help but give it to her when it comes to being accommodating, tolerant and patient. Maybe, it is in the name.
We will want to see in Remi, a caring mother who will go all out to protect the interest of her children and in ensuring a better future for them. It is a thing of joy that the incoming first lady is an educationist and an author with B.Sc in Education from the University of Ife and National Certificate of Education in Botany and Zoology from Adeyemi College of Education, Ondo. It is expected that the issue of girl-child education and other education related issues will receive due attention by her husband, the president-in-waiting. Reports have it that when her husband was the governor of Lagos State between 1999 to 2007, Oluremi held the office of the first lady with astute charisma and initiated life-touching programmes, especially for children and women. One is the New Era Foundation, which is responsible for the “all-round development of young ones and promotes public awareness of environmental health and community service.” Nigerians expect the same from her when she becomes the Nation’s first lady in a couple of days.
The history of the National Assembly cannot be complete without the mention of Oluremi Tinubu, the first female senator to serve in three consecutive parliaments, who stood out as an advocate for the creation of state police to tackle insecurity in the country. It is therefore expected that she will be handy in helping the president on ways out of the decades of insecurity in the country as well as reducing cost of governance, dealing with endemic corruption in the nation, so that there will be enough money for infrastructural development and other investment ventures that will provide employment for the teeming unemployed youth and thereby stem insecurity and other forms of vices. The summary of it is that to whom much is given, much is expected. In a few days, Oluremi Tinubu will be the first lady of Nigeria. She should not see it as a life ambition realised but as an opportunity to impact on the lives of Nigerians and write her name in gold. She should aim to be remembered as a mother hen who worked for the unity of Nigerians of different tribes and religions, bearing in mind that as Aisha is warming up to leave the Aso Rock villa, she too must hand over to another first lady in the next four or eight years as the case may be. Power must continue to change hands.
As it is with the incoming first lady, so it is with the president-elect, the governors-elect, elected lawmakers on both federal and states assembly and all the people that will have the privilege of serving in the next administration at any level. They should see it as rare opportunity to contribute their quota in solving the numerous problems in the country for a better future for our children and the children yet unborn. Continuing on the trajectory of “chop I chop”, obviously will continue to impede the progress of the nation and welfare of the citizens. The questions the incoming leaders should be asking themselves now are: how prepared are they for their job? What are they bringing on board so as to make whatever position they will occupy better than they will meet them? As a famous quote by the former President of South Africa goes, “Real leaders must be ready to sacrifice all for the freedom of their people.”
By: Calista Ezeaku
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