Opinion
Must We Dress Improperly?
There is a popular adage that says: “Dress the way you want to be addressed.” Exposing the body under any guise should be a punishable offence because it is immoral and irresponsible.
Proper dressing is for everyone regardless of sex. We should pay attention to our physical appearance so that we can look good and attract attention to ourselves. Whether we like it or not, people react to the way we look more than they do to the way we are.
As I stated earlier, good or decent dressing is not only limited to the female sex, it is for both sexes. Males should consider dressing properly as well. It worries me that the recent fashion trend now is awe-striking. If care is not taken, no one will put on decent clothes again.
The dressing style that dominates our society today is the putting on of torn jeans, sagging with dirty boxers that look like bed sheets proudly put on by their users. This definitely is irresponsible and cannot be taken as proper act.
Obviously, good-looking people are most likely to be accepted than dirty-looking persons. This is irrespective of how talented they are. In today’s fashion world, women ‘dress to kill,’ according to them. They put on skimpy, too tight clothes showing their cleavages and lead many people to sin. This might be their aim after all, but they must be called to order.
Good dressing comes with commonsense which everyone should have. It is not what someone has to talk excessively before any one should know that decent dressing is good and proper. It is sad that most people don’t know that they have a God-given responsibility to take care of themselves and look good. Rather they allow the wiles of fashion to take hold of them.
How we dress or look can hinder God’s blessings from getting to us. Yes, it is true that God doesn’t look on the outward appearance, but the heart. Yet the outward look is important as well. This is because men don’t look at the heart either, but at the outward appearance.
Men judge by what they see. We should never forget that we live among men on earth. If God will use someone to bless you, you have to dress for the opportunity. An opportunity can pass you by just because of the way you look.
On the other hand, some people dress as if the world had fallen on their shoulders. They dress in a way that shows they suffer from stress, depression and the rest which ought not to be. Even if such persons have challenges or problems there can never be justifiable reasons why they should look that way and destroy the opportunities that come their way.
Indeed, we must dress for where we are going and not where we are coming from. Let us appear in clothings that cover those issues or problems we might be facing.
Most people dress in clothings that tarnish the image of their families. This is unacceptable. These people forget that as children of God, they are children of kings. It obviously brings pleasure to God and the family.If we dress well and properly.
I would like to advise both men and women on this issue. I advise women to dress in appropriate clothigns. Even if they want to expose some parts of their bodies, let them expose the right parts. Women should put on clothings that will enhance their moral standard and standing in society. They should not let the crazy fashion trend to take hold of their senses because a woman’s pride is her inward and outward appearance.
My advice to men is the same but in a different direction. They should keep their beards well-shaven. But if they want to grow it, they should trim it always and keep it neat. They have to put on mature clothes, appear neat and less rough.
We must understand that different occasions require different appearances and clothings. But most importantly, we must not forget that people look at us when we dress. And opportunities can pass us by if we are improperly dressed.
Looking good is not the same thing as looking expensive. You can shop anywhere you feel like, no matter the cost and still look good. I am not saying we should spend extravagantly because we have to look classic. Let’s put on what we can afford but let it be neat.
We have to put on clothes with dignity. Our clothes must be neat and properly ironed. Our shoes must be polished and presentable. This will make us appear like kings or queens.
Finally, putting on beautiful smiles on our faces is a part of good appearance. It makes us look younger, gives us favour and attracts healthy attention to us.
Alalibo is a student of Elechi Amadi Polytechnic
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The political atmosphere in Rivers State has been anything but calm in 2025. Yet, a rare moment of unity was witnessed on Saturday, June 28, when Governor Siminalayi Fubara and Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Chief Nyesom Wike, appeared side by side at the funeral of Elder Temple Omezurike Onuoha, Wike’s late uncle. What could have passed for a routine condolence visit evolved into a significant political statement—a symbolic show of reconciliation in a state bruised by deep political strife.
The funeral, attended by dignitaries from across the nation, was more than a moment of shared grief. It became the public reflection of a private peace accord reached earlier at the Presidential Villa in Abuja. There, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu brought together Governor Fubara, Minister Wike, the suspended Speaker of the Rivers State House of Assembly, Martin Amaewhule, and other lawmakers to chart a new path forward.
For Rivers people, that truce is a beacon of hope. But they are not content with photo opportunities and promises. What they demand now is the immediate lifting of the state of emergency declared in March 2025, and the unconditional reinstatement of Governor Fubara, Deputy Governor Dr. Ngozi Odu, and all suspended lawmakers. They insist on the restoration of their democratic mandate.
President Tinubu’s decision to suspend the entire structure of Rivers State’s elected leadership and appoint a sole administrator was a drastic response to a deepening political crisis. While it may have prevented a complete breakdown in governance, it also robbed the people of their voice. That silence must now end.
The administrator, retired naval chief Ibok-Ette Ibas, has managed a caretaker role. But Rivers State cannot thrive under unelected stewardship. Democracy must return—not partially, not symbolically, but fully. President Tinubu has to ensure that the people’s will, expressed through the ballot, is restored in word and deed.
Governor Fubara, who will complete his six-month suspension by September, was elected to serve the people of Rivers, not to be sidelined by political intrigues. His return should not be ceremonial. It should come with the full powers and authority vested in him by the constitution and the mandate of Rivers citizens.
The people’s frustration is understandable. At the heart of the political crisis was a power tussle between loyalists of Fubara and those of Wike. Institutions, particularly the State House of Assembly, became battlegrounds. Attempts were made to impeach Fubara. The situation deteriorated into a full-blown crisis, and governance was nearly brought to its knees.
But the tide must now turn. With the Senate’s approval of a record ?1.485 trillion budget for Rivers State for 2025, a new opportunity has emerged. This budget is not just a fiscal document—it is a blueprint for transformation, allocating ?1.077 trillion for capital projects alone. Yet, without the governor’s reinstatement, its execution remains in doubt.
It is Governor Fubara, and only him, who possesses the people’s mandate to execute this ambitious budget. It is time for him to return to duty with vigor, responsibility, and a renewed sense of urgency. The people expect delivery—on roads, hospitals, schools, and job creation.
Rivers civil servants, recovering from neglect and under appreciation, should also continue to be a top priority. Fubara should continue to ensure timely payment of salaries, address pension issues, and create a more effective, motivated public workforce. This is how governance becomes real in people’s lives.
The “Rivers First” mantra with which Fubara campaigned is now being tested. That slogan should become policy. It must inform every appointment, every contract, every budget decision, and every reform. It must reflect the needs and aspirations of the ordinary Rivers person—not political patrons or vested interests.
Beyond infrastructure and administration, political healing is essential. Governor Fubara and Minister Wike must go beyond temporary peace. They should actively unite their camps and followers to form one strong political family. The future of Rivers cannot be built on division.
Political appointments, both at the Federal and State levels, must reflect a spirit of fairness, tolerance, and inclusivity. The days of political vendettas and exclusive lists must end. Every ethnic group, every gender, and every generation must feel included in the new Rivers project.
Rivers is too diverse to be governed by one faction. Lasting peace can only be built on concessions, maturity, and equity. The people are watching to see if the peace deal will lead to deeper understanding or simply paper over cracks in an already fragile political arrangement.
Wike, now a national figure as Minister of the FCT, has a responsibility to rise above the local fray and support the development of Rivers State. His influence should bring federal attention and investment to the state, not political interference or division.
Likewise, Fubara should lead with restraint, humility, and a focus on service delivery. His return should not be marked by revenge or political purges but by inclusive leadership that welcomes even former adversaries into the process of rebuilding the state.
“The people are no longer interested in power struggles. They want light in their streets, drugs in their hospitals, teachers in their classrooms, and jobs for their children. The politics of ego and entitlement have to give way to governance with purpose.
The appearance of both leaders at the funeral was a glimpse of what unity could look like. That moment should now evolve into a movement-one that prioritizes Rivers State over every personal ambition. Let it be the beginning of true reconciliation and progress.
As September draws near, the Federal government should act decisively to end the state of emergency and reinstate all suspended officials. Rivers State must return to constitutional order and normal democratic processes. This is the minimum requirement of good governance.
The crisis in Rivers has dragged on for too long. The truce is a step forward, but much more is needed. Reinstating Governor Fubara, implementing the ?1.485 trillion budget, and uniting political factions are now the urgent tasks ahead. Rivers people have suffered enough. It is time to restore leadership, rebuild trust, and finally put Rivers first.
By: Amieyeofori Ibim
Amieyeofori Ibim is former Editor of The Tide Newspapers, political analyst and public affairs commentator
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