Recently, the use of women for suicide bombing has been on the increase. What is responsible for this ugly development? What is the way out of the quagmire? Our Chief correspondent, Calista Ezeaku sought answers to these questions from Port Harcourt residents. The photographer was Ken Donatus.
Mrs Wariboko Asawo – Business woman:
It is a very worrisome development. Women are known to be peace loving. Women uphold families. Using them as instruments of destruction is really a wrong act. It should be condemned. We are the ones that bring forth the next generation. So, being the same people destroying generations is very wrong.
I will attribute such development to the decay in the society and lack of proper upbringing. I think their parents didn’t do the right thing in bringing them up. And to correct this anomaly, every body has a role to play – the family, government, churches, mosques. You know if you miss an instruction from your mother, you don’t get it in school and in your worship place, where else would you want to get any good moral education from?
So, as parents, we should scold our children when they go wrong. We should teach them the ten commandments. They should learn better practices. Let them know that they shouldn’t be used as agents of destruction rather they should be agents of change. Government should cater for our youths and carryout her responsibilities to the entire citizens.

Mr Ukechi Williams – Public Servant:
It is a very sad development. But those girls should not be blamed. I believe they were forced by the Boko Haram terrorists to carry out such wicked acts. It might not be proper to blame the parents because these days a lot of children dump the sound moral upbringing given to them by their parents to go the evil way. Some of them, no matter what you do, they will not hear. They will just do what they like. I also do not want to blame the Federal government for the escalating terrorist activities in the North East as many people do because there is no way the President can be in Abuja and various states and local government, at the same time. The various arms of government, the law enforcement agents, the security personnels, community heads, chiefs, politicians and everybody in the area have to join hands to curb this menace.

Mrs Lilian Okonkwo – Journalist:
My dear, it is mind blowing that they have been able to cajole these girls to carry out such devastating operations. The recent case I heard was carried out by a girl of about 13 years. Of course only God knows what they would have told her to be able to do that. But which ever way, no matter how it is done, it is mind blowing. It is painful. It is violence against the girl child and we are saying no to it.
And I wish that in the environment where these things are happening that there are women activists who will be able to speak out, who will be able to sensitise, advocate, talk about this thing and alert the women.
How did we get to this point? I think it is the time, globalization. Of course you know that some of these things are the things they got from places like Yemen and the rest of them, most of these Anab nations. For them, they see it as trying to Islamise. But I think may be because of globalization, accessibility to TV, to internet and the rest of them, our people are learning fast and learning wrong.
Well to some extent, one can say that lack of proper upbringing plays a part in this issue but I don’t think that is the real problem because if you take a look at the environment where this thing is happening, you will know that there is religious fanaticism there. It has been rooted there. It’s just that it’s been with the boys. It’s been with the men. It is just that they now including the girls. To them that is what their religion says. May be because people are getting to know that boys are more into it, people are becoming more suspicious of the boys, they now see the girls as better alternative.

Mrs Salome Hamilton – Public Servant:
Each time I hear the story of women being used as suicide bombers I feel sad. I feel very bad because it is not right. We women, we have our pride and I don’t see any woman in her right mind, agreeing to such plan.
But let’s hope the efforts of President Goodluck Jonathan will bring a permanent solution to this problem. The Federal government is really trying its best to curb the activities of Boko Haram. But we cannot achieve the desired result through the efforts of human beings alone. It will take God actually to stop them. We need a lot of prayers.
Let me also add that most of the challenges we face as young ladies come as a result of us not being satisfied with what we have. Sometimes we just want to go extra miles to meet up. May be when those girls were offered certain amount or some promises were made to them, they succumb to it. I think everybody should be satisfied with what they have. And for mothers, they should play their motherly role very well because as they say, charity begins at home. If you train up your child in a godly way, he will follow suit. So mothers should sit up.
Government also has a lot of role to play in soloing this problem. Things are very hard in Nigerian society and our leaders, especially on top, what they think about is just themselves. But in a situation whereby things are being put in place for the masses to be comfortable, I don’t think anybody will go into what he or she is not supposed to go into. Those in government should not just consider themselves and their families. They should reach out to the masses and find ways of making life easy for the citizens, especially the youth, the poor and the jobless.

Mr Micheal Nnadi – Estate Surveyor:
We all know it is a worrisome development. These are the things we used to hear that happen in far away countries. Today, young Nigerians are blowing themselves up for no sensible reason.
But somehow, I want to blame the Federal government for these ugly incidents. I strongly believe that if the government had nipped this issue in the bud it wouldn’t have grown to this monstrous state. Incidentally, those in authority have been playing politics with the issue of terrorism and while they were doing that, Boko Haram members were busy recruiting new members.
Remember, it is said that an idle man is the devil’s workshop. So because these young ones were idle, they became veritable instruments in the hands of terrorists. So it is high time our leaders did the necessary things – good governance, employment for youths and provision for the poor.