Opinion
Reminiscing About Christmas
As the preparations for this year’s Christmas aim at the peak, I cannot help but reminisce how the celebration used to be in the good old days. As the great American author, Gretchen Rubin said, “one of the best ways to make yourself happy in the present is to recall happy times from the past”.
As a child from an average home, growing up in a semi-urban area, Christmas season was an opportunity for us to see and mingle with some of our relatives and neighbours who usually returned from the cities for Christmas. These city children would tell us stories about life in the city, the movies and cartoons they had watched and all that. We, the village champions, would in turn narrate what has been happening in our own neck of the wood. We would move from one house to another, enjoying whatever food our parents provided, sometimes returning home at night or late in the evening.
The most memorable day for us was the Boxing Day, December 26. It was a day that different age grades of the young ones unveiled their dance groups, masquerades from all the neighbouring communities converged at the township area for various displays. The wrestlers were not left behind. People trooped out from all villages to watch the various displays. You can call December 26 our carnival day and you will be totally right. It was fun and we all looked forward to it.
Coming back to the current Christmas, how many children in Nigeria today still have the opportunity of experiencing such memorable, fulfilling yuletide? How many families still take their children to their villages during Christmas celebrations? Of course we know the obvious answer. Village is today a no—no for many families. I was interrogating a 14-year old friend of my daughter yesterday and she told me that, all her life, she has been to her state capital (not her village) only once. And apparently, it was not during Christmas.
There are thousands of other children like that whose parents, due to fear of being kidnapped, armed robbery, killings and other insecurity issues and economic considerations have said goodbye to their villages for many years.
The painful thing is that the kids who are lucky to make it to their villages no longer enjoy the freedom of moving around the villages as we used to do years back. What about the villagers who usually looked forward to all the excitement of the season, but are now denied the opportunity because some young men and women have decided to make our villages and cities very hot. In the South East, for instance, these deviants have forced the people to observe their Mondays sit-at-home order for several months now, ensuring that whoever disobeys the order has a bitter story to tell.
Incidentally, this year’s Boxing Day is on Monday and we are waiting to see what will happen. Will the sit-at-home order be relaxed so that the people can go about their activities without molestation? Will the celebration of this Christmas and Boxing Day bring an end to the senseless order, going forward?
Christmas season is supposed to be a period of peace for Jesus Christ, according to the Bible, was sent into the world by God his father, to die for the sins of mankind and bring everlasting peace to the world. It is, therefore, expected that the commemoration of his birth should be a time for nations, families and individuals to make peace and live in harmony
The yuletide should not be a time to do all sorts of unspeakable things to make money. Traders, transporters, the hair dressers, tailors, all see the season as an opportunity to make quick money, hiking the prices of their goods and services. Family ties, relationships are broken over material needs for Christmas
In doing this, we miss the essence of Christmas and lose the blessings therein. Christmas will be without meaning unless we all imbibe the basic lessons drawn from Jesus’ lowly birth, in a manger, his pious life, long suffering, love for others and empathy with the weak and hopeless, all of which climaxed with a supreme sacrifice on the Cross of Calvary.
No doubt, these are the virtues that truly make Christmas a Christian epoch worthy of annual commemoration. Sometimes, one wonders what a peaceful world we will have if mankind imbibes the attributes of the exemplary life Jesus Christ lived; of being a master servant, lover of children, friend of the forsaken and dependable teacher.
Could we all see this year’s Christmas as an opportunity to reflect on the virtues Christ preached and see how adherence to them could save the fast dwindling family structure, redirect a depraved society, remold our leaders to become selfless servant/leaders and above all re-brand a greedy and insensitive political class and the governed?
Surely, the celebration will have more impact on us as individuals and a nation if we do away with greed, materialism, corruption, ethnicity, and all those vices that divide us as a nation but practice contentment, love, sacrifice, justice which Jesus Christ lived and died for.
Yes, we all may not be able to travel to our villages to celebrate Christmas as some of us did when we were younger but we all have neighbours, friends, the less privileged, poor widows and widowers in the communities where we live, we can reach out to them and put smiles on their faces through our gifts of love and other material things. Instead of doubling the prices of our goods and services, we should emulate people of other countries who slash the prices of their commodities during Christmas to make it affordable for everyone. Instead of killing one another, let us have value for human life and strive to preserve it. Only through such genuine acts of love and charity can we make this year’s Christmas a memorable one that we can reminiscence on many years to come.
By: Calista Ezeaku
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