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Christ, Medium Of Communication?

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The concept of prayer or communciation with Deity has
been miscontrued in christendom by many religious adherents. I can recall that at Mount Sinai, Prophet Moses was summoned to receive the Golden Rules in tablets of stones for the guidance of the children of Israel. In the said rules and regulations, the first two commandments read thus: “Thou shalt have no other gods before me. Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath or that is in the water under the earth. Thou shalt not bow thyself to them, nor serve them … “ Exodus 20 vs 3-6 (KJV).
Since the rebellion of Lucifer (Satan) against the government of Jehovah in heaven which brought about the holy war (Rev. 12 vs 7 -9) fought by the disloyal angels with the angels that were loyal to God’s instruction, Satan has been relentless in seducing God’s children to always go the wrong way in stark disobedience and opposition to what God says.
The first deception of the first couple in the Garden of Eden is living evidence. Satan said that it did not matter for they would not surely die which was against the explicit instructions of the Creator of the entire universe as contained in Genesis 3 vs 1-4. This singular act of deception is ravaging the  inhabitants of the earth even in christendom, hence the belief of reincarnation and immortality of the soul that do not have any scriptural background should be discarded forthwith – Ecclesiastes 9 vs 5,10. Follow the right things always and give no room for satanic influences.
The Christian religion is about the life, teachings and practices of Jesus Christ as shown amongst the Bereans who searched the Scriptures daily in order to know and understand the truth of salvation. In Acts of the Apostles, the Bereans were highly commended for their zealousness to know the truth – Acts 17 v 11. Of course, Jesus Christ, whom every professed Christian tends to follow emphatically, asserted that nobody will be free except he or she knows the truth. Invariably, this is an indication that anybody without the full knowledge and understanding of the truth as contained in the Holy Scriptures is in darkness – see John 5 v 39 and 8 v 32 respectively.
It is true that a professing Christian would in no doubt live a prayerful lifestyle in order to survive the whirls of the devil as well as being in close communication and good relationship with God as outlined in 1 st Thessalonians 5 vs 17,19 which says “pray without ceasing … quench not the Spirit.” However, throughout the synoptic gospels, there is no single chapter or verse authorising that communication or prayer with God should be channeled through any other medium, be it prophets, angels, saints of any age, loved ones like the Virgin Mary (Jesus’ mother) or whoever than to pray directly to our Heavenly Father according  to the injunction in Mathew 6 v 9 which supports the first two commandments handed down to Prophet Moses at Mount Sinai as indicated above.
The fact is that the wonderful sacrifice of Jesus at the stake with His precious blood as well as being our High Priest in the Heavenly sanctuary, it is expedient that at the end of the Christian supplication or communion with the Father, it should only be terminated or concluded through Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour to make it very authentic because He is pleading and interceding in our stead before His Father in the sanctuary pitched in Heaven and not earthly sanctuary which came to an end with the cruxifiction of Christ on the Cross of Calvary.
Jesus alone has the right and authority to scrutinize our prayers through the aid of the Holy Spirit to the throne of Grace and not through any mortal being, whether alive or dead. Jesus is God in human flesh while on earth (John 1 vs 1 & 14). He is the only medium of communication with heaven through the ministration of the Holy Spirit.
It is very curious to believe that the Mother of Jesus could be a medium of communication between mankind and God. At this juncture, one may posit: What is the role and function of our Saviour Jesus Christ in this context? In fact, the misconception of medium of appropriate communication with God is as a result of the scheming of the arch-deceiver (Satan the Devil) who is always thwarting the plans of God and does not want people to acquire the true knowledge of the word of God for appropriate and adequate enlightenment. No wonder, Prophet Hosea in his prophetic writings in Chapter 4 v 6, lamented that “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge; not necessarily that but rather they had rejected knowledge.”
Taking a retrospective view at  the sacrificial or Levitical era, there were channels of communication with God through ceremonial/sacrificial services before the first advent of the Messiah, the God-man who was born to chart a new course of doing things in His righteousness. Frankly speaking, before the Cross, the then religious leaders were focused and highly honoured as infallible as well as ex-cathedral (i.e. Vicar of Christ) on earth through whom the people would obtain repentance, forgiveness of sin by penance and prayers are channeled to. All these were handwriting of ordinances that was against Christian ethics which ended at the Cross with the sacrifice of Jesus as He lamented “It is finished.” Those ceremonial or sacrificial activities were brought to an end as you read in the book of Deuteronomy 31 v 26 and Colossians 2 v 14.
It has been advised that for proper understanding of the Scriptures, it should be compared precept by precept, line by line, to make a contrast for adequate knowledge of a particular issue because the Bible is its own interpreter, according to Isaiah 28 v 10 . During the consolation of Jesus to His beloved while He hung on the Cross of Calvary, He made a remarkable assertion as recorded by one of His erudite disciples in John 19 vs 26,27 thus: “Woman, behold thy son,” while to John, He said “Son behold thy mother.” How do you read, how do you understand.
Inasmuch as it is written “honour thy father and thy mother so that your days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee” as enshrined in the fifth commandment (Exodus 20 v 12), it does not portray or give notion of worshipping them in place of God which may tantamount to worshipping idols or having other gods before  the Almighty God.
Similarly, prayer should not be channeled to God through any other means except through Jesus only.
Apostle Paul cautioned his obedient servant (Timothy) in the Lord that time shall come when people would not endure sound doctrines, but shall follow after their own lusts and heap to themselves teachers with itching ears who will turn away their ears from the truth and rather turn unto fables or falsehood (2nd Timothy 4 vs 3, 4).
Those who erroneously pray through the Virgin Mary should desist from such practice(s) and do that which is right – 1st John 2 v 1. Jesus said “I am the way, the truth and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me (John 14 v 6). This statement was expatiated by Apostle Peter that there is no salvation in any other name beside the name of Jesus (Acts 4 v 12). Therefore, he who has ears let him/her adhere to the praying principles of the Master of all and not through any unathorised medium.

Ominyanwa is a public affairs analyst.

 

Goddey Ominyanwa

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Beyond Physical Intimacy In Relationship 

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Quote:”Love is not sustained by sharing the same bed or displaying affection in public; it is preserved by the daily investment of trust, understanding, empathy, and meaningful conversations. Two people can be physically close yet emotionally distant, because lasting relationships are built not merely on intimacy, but on the consistent nurturing of hearts that remain genuinely connected.”
In an age where relationships are often measured by appearances, social media posts, and outward displays of affection, many couples are discovering a painful truth: physical closeness does not always translate into emotional connection. Two people can share the same bed, hold hands in public, and even maintain a seemingly happy home, yet remain strangers to each other’s deepest thoughts, fears, dreams, and struggles. This reality is captured in the thought-provoking message that emotional intimacy goes far beyond physical intimacy. While physical attraction may ignite a relationship, emotional connection is what sustains it. When emotional bonds weaken, relationships begin to suffer quietly, often long before any visible signs of trouble emerge.
One of the greatest misconceptions about love is the belief that affection alone is enough to keep a relationship healthy. In reality, genuine love requires much more than romantic gestures and physical presence. It requires understanding, communication, trust, empathy, and the willingness to be vulnerable with one another. Without these elements, couples may coexist rather than truly connect. Many relationships today are experiencing a silent crisis. Couples are spending more time together physically but less time engaging meaningfully. Busy schedules, work pressures, financial challenges, digital distractions, and personal ambitions have reduced many conversations to routine exchanges about bills, children, responsibilities, and daily survival. The deeper conversations that nurture emotional intimacy are gradually disappearing.
As a result, many partners feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. They may be present in the relationship physically, but emotionally they feel isolated. This emotional distance often creates frustration, resentment, and loneliness. Ironically, a person can feel more alone in a relationship lacking emotional connection than when they are physically alone. The danger of emotional disconnection is that it rarely announces itself loudly. Unlike dramatic conflicts or public scandals, it develops gradually. It starts when couples stop sharing their feelings openly. It grows when assumptions replace communication. It deepens when one partner feels consistently ignored, dismissed, or taken for granted. Over time, the relationship loses its warmth and vitality.This explains why some marriages and relationships that appear perfect from the outside eventually collapse unexpectedly.
 Observers are often shocked because they only saw the physical togetherness, not the emotional distance that had been growing for years beneath the surface. Relationships do not usually break down overnight; they deteriorate through the accumulation of unresolved emotional gaps. Building emotional intimacy, therefore, requires deliberate effort. It is not a one-time achievement but a daily commitment. Emotional connection is built through consistent acts of attention, kindness, and understanding. It develops when partners genuinely listen to each other without judgment. It grows when people feel safe enough to express their fears, disappointments, and aspirations without fear of criticism or rejection. Trust plays a crucial role in this process. Emotional intimacy flourishes in an environment where honesty is valued and confidentiality is respected. When trust is broken, emotional walls quickly rise.
 Rebuilding those walls requires patience, sincerity, and a willingness to heal together. Another important ingredient is empathy. Every individual wants to feel understood. Sometimes partners do not necessarily need solutions to their problems; they simply need someone who listens and acknowledges their feelings. A relationship becomes stronger when both individuals strive to understand each other’s perspectives rather than merely defend their own positions. Quality time is equally important. In a world dominated by smartphones and endless digital distractions, couples must intentionally create moments of genuine interaction. Simple activities such as sharing a meal, taking a walk, discussing personal goals, or praying together can strengthen emotional bonds significantly.
These moments communicate an important message: “You matter to me.” Respect also forms the foundation of emotional closeness. Partners who consistently speak respectfully to each other, even during disagreements, create a healthier environment for intimacy to thrive. Emotional connection cannot flourish where there is constant criticism, ridicule, or contempt. Perhaps the most important lesson is that emotional intimacy is not built by grand gestures alone. It is cultivated through small, consistent actions repeated over time. A thoughtful conversation, a sincere apology, a word of encouragement, or a genuine expression of appreciation can have a profound impact on the health of a relationship. Ultimately, the strength of any relationship lies not merely in physical proximity but in emotional accessibility. The question is not whether two people occupy the same space, but whether they truly know and understand each other.
Lasting love is sustained when hearts remain connected even amid life’s challenges. As society continues to grapple with increasing relationship difficulties, couples must remember that emotional intimacy is not optional; it is essential. Physical attraction may bring people together, but emotional connection keeps them together. It is built daily through communication, trust, empathy, respect, and intentional effort. When emotional intimacy is nurtured, relationships become more resilient, fulfilling, and meaningful. And when two hearts remain genuinely connected, love does not merely survive—it flourishes
By: Sylvia ThankGod-Amadi
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Yahoo Culture And Nigeria’s Moral Fabric

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Quote “A society that celebrates wealth without questioning its source gradually breeds a generation that despises hard work, glorifies fraud, and ultimately destroys itself from within.”
Nigeria’s battle against insecurity is not limited to terrorism. Another destructive force—popularly known as “Yahoo”—has steadily eaten into the nation’s moral and social fabric. Internet fraud, which has become synonymous with “Yahoo” in local parlance, poses a grave threat to Nigeria’s image, economy, and future. The activities of internet fraudsters have tarnished the country’s reputation globally. As a result, many law-abiding Nigerians abroad or seeking legitimate opportunities overseas often face suspicion and discrimination because of the notoriety created by these criminal elements. Originally, Yahoo was merely the name of an internet search engine created in 1994 by Stanford graduates Jerry Yang and David Filo. In Nigeria, however, the term has evolved into a culture driven by greed and materialism. It has become a disturbing subculture with its own language and values.
Expressions such as “mugu fall, guy man chop” celebrate the exploitation of unsuspecting victims, portraying fraud as intelligence and deceit as success. Yahoo boys are notorious for flaunting their ill-gotten wealth. They parade expensive cars, spend lavishly, and often display arrogance towards elders and society. Their extravagant lifestyle has even been blamed for rising rents and increased cost of living in cities such as Port Harcourt. Following crackdowns in Delta and Edo states, there have been concerns over the growing presence of these elements in Rivers State. What is particularly disturbing is that many of these young men and women, some as young as teenagers, have no legitimate source of income yet live in luxury. Their actions have ruined businesses, impoverished victims, and in some cases pushed people into depression, heart attacks, and suicide.
Yet, they continue to operate openly with frightening confidence. The prevalence of Yahoo culture reflects the deep moral decay in society. Sadly, some families not only tolerate the illicit activities of their children but celebrate and pray for their success. Anyone who condemns the practice often becomes the target of abuse and ridicule. A Port Harcourt-based pastor once experienced fierce backlash from Yahoo sympathisers after speaking against the menace. Nigeria’s permissive environment has unintentionally allowed the practice to flourish. Weak institutions, compromised law enforcement, and families unwilling to question the source of sudden wealth among unemployed youths have all contributed to the problem. The virtues of patience, diligence, and integrity are steadily being replaced by greed and a desperate desire for quick riches.
Perhaps one of the greatest casualties of Yahoo culture is education. The value of years of hard work and academic excellence has been diminished. Many young people now dismiss formal education as a scam, while apprenticeship and vocational training are increasingly looked down upon. The obsession with easy money has encouraged school dropout rates and undermined the culture of honest enterprise. An even more disturbing dimension is the emergence of what many describe as “Yahoo Phase II”—a phenomenon associated with ritual practices and occult beliefs. Although stories surrounding these practices are often difficult to verify, reports of ritual killings, organ harvesting, and other horrific crimes have heightened public fears. Young people seeking wealth at all costs are said to subject themselves to bizarre and inhumane instructions from self-styled spiritualists, resulting in unimaginable tragedies.
Regardless of the myths and realities surrounding these claims, one fact remains undeniable: the pursuit of wealth without values has devastating consequences. Society is increasingly witnessing cases of substance abuse, mental instability, and mysterious deaths among youths whose lives are built on criminality and desperation. Nigeria cannot afford to remain indifferent while a generation is consumed by greed and moral bankruptcy. Combating Yahoo culture requires more than arrests and prosecutions. Families must instill values of honesty and hard work. Religious leaders, educators, and community leaders must consistently promote integrity. Government institutions must strengthen the rule of law and ensure that crime does not pay. Above all, society must stop celebrating wealth without questioning its source. No nation can attain sustainable development when fraud is admired, hard work is ridiculed, and criminality is rewarded.
 The future of Nigeria depends on raising a generation that values character above riches and integrity above material possessions. If this dangerous culture is left unchecked, the consequences will be severe. But if the nation collectively chooses the path of morality, accountability, and industry, there remains hope that the tide can be reversed and the country’s dignity restored.
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Good Health Through Socrates’  Prescription 

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Quote: “In an age of advanced medicine and endless health information, the greatest prescription may still be the oldest one: know yourself. True health begins when we understand our bodies, emotions, habits and choices.”
The 21st century has ushered in extraordinary progress in science, technology and medicine. Diseases that once claimed millions of lives can now be prevented or treated. Information is available instantly, while fitness applications, health trackers and modern healthcare facilities have become part of everyday life. Yet, despite these advances, many people continue to struggle with physical illnesses, emotional stress, anxiety, depression and lifestyle-related diseases. This contradiction raises an important question: Why are people becoming increasingly unhealthy in an age of remarkable medical advancement? Part of the answer may lie in the timeless wisdom associated with the ancient Greek philosopher Socrates: “Know thyself.” Though spoken more than two thousand years ago, these words remain profoundly relevant today. They remind us that genuine wellbeing begins with self-understanding.
Knowing oneself goes beyond knowing one’s name, occupation or social status. It involves understanding one’s body, emotions, habits, strengths, weaknesses and aspirations. It means recognizing how daily choices affect physical, mental and emotional health. In many respects, self-knowledge forms the foundation of healthy living. One of the greatest health challenges today is the tendency to ignore warning signs until serious problems emerge. Many people neglect symptoms such as persistent fatigue, poor sleep, chronic stress, unhealthy eating habits and lack of physical activity. Because they are disconnected from their bodies, they fail to recognize that their health is gradually deteriorating. A person who truly knows himself pays attention to these signals. Such an individual understands which foods nourish the body and which habits undermine health. They recognize when rest is necessary,
when stress levels become dangerous and when professional medical attention should be sought. Self-awareness encourages preventive action long before illness develops. The same principle applies to mental and emotional health. Modern life is filled with pressures. Social media often encourages unhealthy comparisons, while economic challenges, family responsibilities and workplace demands create enormous psychological burdens. Many people suffer silently because they have not learned to understand or manage their emotions. Knowing oneself means recognizing emotional triggers, vulnerabilities and sources of stress. It involves identifying feelings of anxiety, sadness, anger or frustration before they become overwhelming. Self-aware individuals are more likely to seek support, adopt healthy coping mechanisms and maintain emotional balance.
Self-knowledge also promotes discipline. Many of today’s health problems are linked to lifestyle choices. Excessive consumption of processed foods, alcohol abuse, smoking, substance misuse, physical inactivity and poor sleeping habits contribute significantly to disease burdens around the world. Most people are aware of these risks. The challenge is often not a lack of information but a lack of self-understanding. Individuals who understand their motivations, weaknesses and tendencies are better equipped to resist harmful habits and develop healthier routines. In this way, self-knowledge becomes a powerful tool for self-control. Socrates also taught that “the unexamined life is not worth living.” While philosophical in origin, this statement has practical implications for health. Examining one’s life encourages honest reflection. Are we eating wisely? Are we exercising enough?
Are we sleeping adequately? Are we managing stress effectively? Are we maintaining healthy relationships? These are not merely philosophical questions. They are essential components of a healthy lifestyle. Honest answers can reveal habits that require improvement and inspire positive change. Ironically, while technology has made health information more accessible, it has also made self-understanding more difficult. Many people spend hours following social media trends and public personalities while paying little attention to their own health. They know more about celebrities than they know about their blood pressure, sleep quality or emotional wellbeing. A healthier society will require more than modern hospitals and advanced medications. It will require citizens who actively seek to understand themselves. Preventive healthcare begins with personal awareness.
Parents, educators, religious leaders, healthcare professionals and policymakers all have important roles to play in promoting self-awareness. Young people should be taught not only academic subjects but also emotional intelligence, self-reflection, healthy lifestyle habits and personal responsibility. Ultimately, Socrates’ ancient wisdom remains as relevant today as it was centuries ago. A person who understands himself is more likely to make healthy decisions, maintain emotional stability, build resilience and seek help when necessary. The journey to good health does not begin in a hospital, pharmacy or gymnasium. It begins within. As the world continues to confront complex health challenges, perhaps the most powerful prescription requires no expensive technology or medication. It is the enduring wisdom that has stood the test of time: know yourself. In understanding ourselves, we discover one of the surest paths to healthier, happier and more meaningful lives.
By: Sylvia ThankGod-Amadi
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