Opinion
Still On Incessant Rape Cases
When the Senate on
June, 2015 passed the Sexual Offences Bill, 2015 which prescribes life imprisonment for rapists and those who have sexual intercourse with children under 11 years, many thought that would help in reducing rape cases in the country.
However, the continued reported cases of rape and reckless defilement of women, babies, adolescents, mothers and even grand mothers across the country show that the aim of that bill is still far from being realised. Just last week, Police in Lagos State arrested a 37-year-old man for allegedly raping a mentally challenged girl. The man was said to have taken advantage of the victim’s mental health and violated her right in her mother’s shop while her mother was away.
A few months ago, we heard of the case of a 40-year-old man who allegedly raped a four year old girl to death in Southern Ijaw Local Government Area of Bayelsa State. The shocking story was narrated by the state Coordinator of Child Protection Network, CPN, Mrs Mariam Kombo-Ezeh, who also revealed two other cases of child abuse, which occurred in the state including the death of a seven year old girl of complications from HIV/AIDS after being raped and infected by a man and another 13-year-old girl gang-raped in Yenagoa the state capital.
Rape used to be a matter that was hushed in whispers or rumours because it belonged to the realms of forbidden acts and was indeed uncommon. Even our folktales are full of stories of how the gods visited any man who violated a woman through rape with incurable diseases or sometimes death. Today, the story is different. Rape cases are featuring as a recurring decimal in public and private places including the ivory towers. And the victims cut across all ages, old, young, kids and even infants.
A recent report revealed that there are about 181 rape cases within six months in Lagos State. Similarly, a Non Governmental Organisation (NGO), the Centre for Environment, Human Rights and Development two years ago said no fewer than 1,200 girls were allegedly raped in Rivers State in 2012. The State Project Officer of the organisation, who was also the Chairman of Child Protection Network said 49 cases were reported to the Netwok, while 800 others were treated by “doctors without borders”, while the remaining figure was reported to other Civil Society organisations that made up the centre. The same ugly situation goes on in virtually all states of the Federation.
The rising cases of rape have been considered by some as a consequence of parents’ neglect of their roles to their children. They believe a lot of parents have abandoned their duties of impacting morality in their children. “They are so busy with material pursuit that they don’t know the kind of company their children keep. Some even close their eyes and ears to whatever their children do or say” lamented a concerned parent.
A pastor once attributed the rampant incidents of the criminal act to the attitude of parents towards sex. According to him, “some parents no longer consider sex as sacred. Sex is supposed to be a secret act but some parents, particularly those living in tight accommodations, make public show of the act even in the watchful eyes of their children.” He cautioned that parents should know the right time and place to discuss sex or engage in the act in order not to corrupt their children, emphasising that children learn faster by what they see than what they are told.
It is also advisable that parents should show more interest in the affairs of their children, know the company they keep, educate the girl-child on the dangers of rape and places to go so that they are not caught up in the menace.
Perhaps it will be wise at this point to share a whasapp message I received on child abuse. It states…one of the God-given role and an established societal duty of a parent is to protect the child from all types of harm including abuse by sexual predators… A good parent should be able to close all gaps that a potential sexual predator might use to gain access to their child. This can be achieved by restricting the use of the term “uncle” for only a child’s father’s or mother’s brothers as the term “uncle” which today is commonly used to address all male gender, makes and innocent child have a feeling of allegiance to the addressee and might make them feel that they owe it to the person to do as they are told by him.
Other advice include: Avoid as much as possible the sharing of the same room with your children if they are of different gender. Do not form a habit of allowing an older male sibling change diaper of a female child or to spend unnecessary long time alone with her and many more.
However, some have opined that even with the best sex education, much change cannot be achieved if our teenage and young women do not do away with the reigning dress culture which exposes essential parts of their bodies. It takes a lot of discipline for any man to control himself and resist the temptation of such an evil urge they believe. Proper, decent, responsible dressing is advocated if one must avoid the danger of rape.
The menace could also be curtailed if children stop parading streets and communities in the name of selling pure water, orange, minerals and other commodities.
As the pastor advised, parents should occupy their children with spiritual activities, the Bible and other religious books.
Some experts have blamed the rising cases of rape on lack of effective implementation of Nigeria laws against rape. Some say the entire evidential burden placed on victims makes it difficult for them to pursue the part of justice hence the law should be reviewed. They insist that the laws against rape should not remain only in the statue book, but be made more efficient and effective as large number of Nigerians know little about the laws on rape.
Criticizing the Nigerian government for what she called a lackluster response to rape cases recently, the Executive Director of the woman Educates Research and Documentation Centre said “nothing has been put into action. Our laws are still not clear. The woman who wants to report rape does not have the confidence in the judicial system in Nigeria. She emphasised the need for immediate steps to create laws and institutions that protect women.
Indeed, the legislature should act to stem the ugly incident by reviewing the laws on rape to give more protection to victims while the law enforcement agencies should ensure strict enforcement of the laws on rape. Efforts should also be made by state Houses of Assembly that are yet to pass the child Right Acts into law to do so expeditiously.
Most importantly, Federal Government State ministries and woman groups should see the issue of rape as a challenge which they must face in order to restore the dignity of women in our land. They should take up rape cases and offer all necessary assistance to the victim.
For the fight against rape to be won, parents teachers, religious institutions, NGOs, the media government at all levels, community leaders and everybody must rise up in condemnation of the social epidemic and take positive actions to curb the menace.
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