Opinion
Eliminating Violence Against Women
For thirteen years now,
November 25 has been set aside by the United Nations for the celebration of International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women. The event is used to focus world attention on sexual, physical and psychological violence and discrimination against women and girls. Activities marking the day are expected to be carried out in different countries from November 25 to December 10 the International Human Rights Day.
The 16 days of activism against gender-based violence usually feature workshops, seminars, lectures, road walks and other activities organised by non governmental organisations, Women Affairs Ministries, gender activists to raise public awareness of violence against women and the need to put an end to it.
Incidentally, despite all these efforts, cases of violence against women seem to be on the increase. Cases like domestic violence, sexual assault in public and at school, genital mutilation, forced marriage, trafficking, forced prostitution, sexual violence in crisis and conflict situations, wife battery are reported everyday, even as many go unreported.
The social media and national dailies are awash with stories of women and kids being raped by men old enough to be their fathers and grand fathers in different parts of the country. A recent research shows that between 2008 and last year, police in Kano State dealt with over 60 cases of child rape and over 60 related arrests.
Many women have been turned into punching bags by their husbands. Some have been maimed, others lost their jobs and dignity because they are married to husbands who violate their human rights. A story has it that a woman was recently relieved of her plum job because her husband after beating her, locked her up in a room, thereby stopping her from going to work. All her pleas to her superiors at the office the following day fell on deaf ears. She was sacked.
A participant at a seminar recently narrated how she was being sexually abused and battered regularly by her husband but could do nothing about it because her family, her husband’s family and even the police saw nothing wrong in what the man was doing.
“What really beat my imagination was how the police quickly dismissed my case and told me to go home and settle with my husband, when my neighbour took me to the police after my husband almost beat me to death”, she said.
So, the problem is that many women do not even know their rights. As the State Chairman of Nigeria Association of Women Journalist (NAWOJ), Ms Enale Kodu said in an interview, “some women think beating is a normal thing. They don’t see anything wrong in being battered, after all the men own them”.
So, to effectively eliminate violence against women and successfully promote their rights, there is need to properly educate women on their rights, because many Nigerian women, both educated and uneducated do not know their rights and do not even know when those rights are trampled upon.
The belief that “the dignity of a woman is her husband”, and so a woman must remain in marriage even when her life is in danger, should be changed.
I think it’s high time we totally embraced the provision of African Charter which promotes the intrinsic worth and dignity of the African woman.
Again, as Ms Kudo suggested, Rivers State government should tow the line of it’s Lagos State counterpart by providing a safe haven for women who are violated.
A place where these women can stay while their cases are on in courts so that they don’t run back to their husbands, as such moves have claimed the lives of many women.
Most importantly, there is need for men and women to complement each other since they are equal in dignity. Economic and political empowerment of women, eradication of poverty in the country are other important measures that will help in reducing violence against women.
Elimination of violence against women requires the contribution of all and sundry. It is not enough to sit down and lament the bad situation, or continue to engage in long speeches that hardly bear fruits.
The various women groups and NGOs should not stop at seminars and other programmes organised during the 16 days of activism. They should take further steps to ensure that whatever plan of action reached this period is implemented. This is not a period to blame government for our woes and expect government to solve all the problems. Government alone cannot do it.
Therefore, women groups, minister and commissioners of women affairs, female lawmakers, politicians, female professional bodies, NGOs, families, churches, town unions, village assemblies and voluntary organisations should get involved in the war against violation of women’s human rights. Let them fight against retrogressive culture, traditions and beliefs militating against women.
A happy mother begets a happy family and a happy family begets a happy nation. So let’s eliminate violence against women and girls, the present and future mothers so as to have happy families and indeed secured, peaceful nation.
Calista Ezeaku
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