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Female Stress Syndrome: Coping With Menstrual Disorders

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Menstruation, the be
ginning of the Ovarian formation and reproductive years of the woman is a stage that forms the active part of the woman’s lifespan. It begins at the age of 12-14 and last till about 50-55. Though a natural experience it has so far constituted a major stress syndrome particularly in recent times when medical awareness even the trado-medicine has given it an undue popularity to the extent that it has interfered with the woman’s daily life.
The first menstruation known as the menarche and the last of it, the menopause, each has its accompanied stresses. Being married or bearing children sometimes seems to increase the likelihood of the stress and has also formed a major platform of divorce in recent times.
For these problems, the Natural Remedy Encyclopedia (Sixth Edition) revealed that there are over 150 symptoms that are linked to it with the most common of them being abdominal bloating, anxiety, backache, breast swelling, acne, depression, cramps, fainting spells, fatigue, joint pain, Insomnia, nervousness, drastic mode swings, constipation, dizziness, skin eruptions, impatience, lethargy, indecisiveness, angry outbursts among others.
Hormonal imbalance however, has been a major cause of the menstrual stress syndrome which a number of women are unaware of and this is how it works. The liver regulates the hormonal balance by selectively filtering out of the blood and excreting unwanted excess hormones. One of these hornones is “estradiol,’ a type of estrogen which causes problems. If not eliminated, it can build up in the body posing the stresses.
‘Part of the issues of  hormonal imbalance is that there is too much estrogen in the body and not enough progesterone. Fluid retention is the result. This affects the circulation and impedes Oxygen and nutrient flow to the brain and female organs’.
“Unfortunately, due to sheer ignorance and possible undue and difficult experiences during these disorders, a lot of women have resorted to patronising every and any quack especially of the tra-do-herbals who have taken advantage of the situation and are established at every nook and cranny of the city and only Godknows what they are administering to these women all in the name of curing these stresses.”
Some of these disorders include Amenonhea, Dysmenorrhea, Metrorrhagia, Oligomenorrhea, Menstrual Cramps etc. Each of these can pose so ugly an experience for the woman whether a housewife, working mother, business woman or even the adolescent school girl, especially when it comes suddenly not minding that she can be outside of the home, on the street, office or on the road.
Amenorrhea, the absence of menstrual periods for a least three months in women who would otherwise be menstruating regularly is of two types; the primary Amenorrhea and Secondary Amenorrhea.
The primary  refers to menstruation that has not started by the age of 16. If the condition later stops at anytime longer than three months, then it is considered the secondary.
However, a late menstrual period that is accompanied by severe abdominal pain should receive immediate medical attention because it could be due to an ectopic pregnancy (a pregnancy that develops outside the uterus) usually in one of the fallopian tubes) while a single but heavy period that is late may be as a result of miscarriage.
Dysmenorrhea is the painful or difficult menstruation. Also of the primary and secondary type, the primary occurs in the early teens sometimes not until several years after the menstruation begins. The pain begins a few hours before or at the onset of bleeding which may last from a few hours to one to two days and generally worst at the first day. At first there is a scanty flow which increases as the pain subsides.
The secondary type may start two to three days before onset, with pain in the abdomen, small at the back and down the legs. It is a more constant pain but includes sharp cramps and continues throughout the period. This type is often linked to a pelvic disorder including inflammation, uterine malposition, tumours which needs to be eliminated for the pain to subside or entirely removed.
Menorrhagia is the menstrual periods that are heavier than normal and sometimes irregular. Some women have heavier flows than others which can lasts longer than seven days and difficult to be controlled by the simple pads.
General debility is a primary cause and this condition occurs more frequently in women with kidney or liver disease. Marital excess is still another cause. More common when approaching menopause, this condition may be as a result of uterine polyps, fibroids or cancer of the uterus. The condition is also more common in overweight women. For some, the periods could have always been heavy which may not call for concern. Yet there may be an underlying problem. If not checked, profuse menstruation can lead to difficult urination, displaced womb or leucorrhea. It can also produce iron deficiency anemia causing lightheadedness and fatique.
The Oligomenorrhea, on the other hand is an extremely scanty or insufficient menstrual flow which is inadequate to provide thorough cleansing. This disorder may be caused by stress, depression, too much exercise, chronic or severe illness or extreme weight loss. It could also be due to a disorder in the ovaries or uterus.
Another type is the menometrorrhagia. It is a menstrual cycle that has wide variations in the length of time between periods.
Although average menstrual cycle is 28 days they may occur as offen as every 24 days or as infrequently as every 34 days. After puberty, most women develop a regular cycle but, for some, they remain irregular even in the bleeding it self which normally last two to four days with the average length being five days. Wide variations are common at puberty, the first few months after childbirth and as menopause approaches.
Alongside other causes, variations can be as a result of endometriosis, a situation in which fragments of the tissue that normally lines the uterus are displaced and attached to other pelvic organs.
Whichever condition the woman may be facing, it is never a pleasant one. A disorder in menstruation often indicates the general state of a woman’s health. Usually the result of nutritional deficiencies or antointoxicatition caused by constipation, an organic malfunction; drugs, vitamin or mineral deficiency and/or chemicals and stress, these disorder have almost become part of more than 80 percent of the women of that age.
However, women whose general health and resistance  are good are less likely to have menstrual problems.
“Unfortunately too, at this time when the society is giving so much credence to the devil and its mechanisations, some women are no longer finding the experiences of menstrual problems as ordinary medical issue but also having evil undertones to the extent that some so-called churches now have as their main function currying menstrual disorders as against salvation of the souls.”
It therefore becomes pertinent that every woman pursue with diligence issues of her health and its maintenance by adopting simple health habits possibly through the following steps:
-Eating simply and lightly especially of fresh and clean fruits and vegetables
-Taking vitamins B Complex (B12,B6, Folic Acid)C, E and Iron Supplements.
Watching out for allergenic foods showing extreme medical carefulness while taking contraceptives or birth control pillsTaking herbs like garlic,  layenne, ginger and other similar herbs.
Taking hot bath including hot sits and foot bath for three to ten minutes within the periodTaking a brief rest so often with the feet elevated.
Having a good feeling of oneself all through the period believing that it is  only temporary for the period.
Ogbulu writes for News Agency of Nigeria.

 

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L-R: Minister of Women Affairs, Hajiya Zainaib Maina, Plateau State Commissioner for  Women Affairs and Social Development,  Olivia Dazyam and Permanent Secretary, Dr Habiba Lawal, at a  stakeholders meeting on  centenary country report on Nigerian women in Abuja, yesterday. Photo: NAN

L-R: Minister of Women Affairs, Hajiya Zainaib Maina, Plateau State Commissioner for Women Affairs and Social Development, Olivia Dazyam and Permanent Secretary, Dr Habiba Lawal, at a stakeholders meeting on centenary country report on Nigerian women in Abuja, yesterday.
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How to Tackle Child Rape

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Child rape is a profound human rights violation that inflicts lasting physical, emotional, and psychological scars on its victims.
Among the most vulnerable groups, girl children face a disproportionate amount of sexual abuse globally, reflecting deep-rooted societal, cultural, and systemic failures.
Despite international laws and local measures aimed at protecting children, rape and sexual violence against girl children remain a pervasive problem in many parts of the world.  The rape of girl children is alarmingly prevalent worldwide.
According to data from the World Health Organization (WHO), one in four girls experiences some form of sexual abuse before the age of 18. This abuse occurs across all socio-economic, cultural, and geographical divides. The underreporting of sexual violence against children, fueled by fear, stigma, and victim-blaming, makes it difficult to grasp the true scale of the problem.
Reports from organizations like UNICEF and Human Rights Watch highlight that in some regions, girl children are specifically targeted due to the belief that they are “pure” or “virgin,” making them more vulnerable to cultural myths that suggest intercourse with a virgin can cure diseases like HIV/AIDS. These deeply harmful beliefs exacerbate the risk for young girls, particularly in countries where educational and legal protections are weak.
A range of factors contributes to the high incidence of rape against girl children, many of which are embedded in patriarchal and misogynistic beliefs. In some cultures, girls are viewed as inferior or subservient to males, making them easy targets for exploitation. The normalization of gender-based violence in some communities means that abuse often goes unnoticed, unreported, or unpunished.
Child marriages, which remain prevalent in some parts of Africa, Asia, and the Middle East, are another contributing factor. When girls are married off as children, they are often exposed to sexual violence under the guise of marital relations. These young brides, who are typically powerless in these situations, often endure repeated sexual abuse from their significantly older husbands.
Additionally, in conflict zones, girl children are disproportionately affected by sexual violence, used as tools of war by armed groups to terrorize communities. Such exploitation results in severe trauma and long-lasting consequences for victims.
Rape and sexual abuse leave devastating effects on a girl child, both physically and mentally. Physically, young girls are not developed enough to handle sexual intercourse, leading to severe injuries, infections, and even death in extreme cases. Many victims also face long-term reproductive health issues, including infertility, sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and complications in future pregnancies.
The psychological toll is equally profound. Victims often suffer from depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and other mental health conditions. The stigma associated with sexual violence further isolates them from their families and communities, leaving them vulnerable to further exploitation or abuse.
The educational consequences are also significant. Many victims drop out of school due to the trauma, fear of facing their abusers, or the stigma attached to rape. This creates a cycle of poverty and dependence, further reducing their life chances.
Access to justice for child rape victims is often fraught with challenges. In many countries, laws around sexual violence are outdated, under-enforced, or not well understood. Law enforcement agencies frequently lack the training or resources to handle cases of child sexual abuse appropriately, leading to further victimization during investigations.
In some cases, cultural practices such as “settling” rape cases between families, or forcing victims to marry their rapists, prevent victims from receiving the justice they deserve. This not only robs the victim of agency but perpetuates a culture of impunity where perpetrators feel empowered to commit further acts of violence.
Additionally, the social stigma surrounding rape prevents many girl children from coming forward. Fear of blame, retaliation, or being ostracized by their communities often keeps victims silent, allowing abusers to continue their crimes unchecked.
Internationally, the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC) and the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) both call for an end to all forms of violence against children, including sexual abuse. Organizations such as UNICEF, Plan International, and Save the Children have been instrumental in raising awareness, supporting survivors, and lobbying for stronger laws and protections.
On a national level, many countries have taken steps to strengthen legal frameworks to protect children from sexual violence. Child protection laws, survivor-centered legal reforms, and harsher penalties for offenders have been introduced in several countries. However, effective implementation remains a challenge in many places due to corruption, weak legal systems, and deep-seated cultural barriers.
To truly address the epidemic of child rape, a multi-faceted approach is needed that tackles the root causes of the problem.
 Education and Empowerment of girl-children can go a long way in preventing rape cases in the society.  Educating girls about their rights, providing them with life skills, and empowering them to speak out against violence are crucial steps in preventing abuse. Equally important is educating boys and men about consent, respect, and gender equality to shift harmful patriarchal norms.
Girls and women need stronger legal protection to escape some the rape cases that occur regularly. Governments must prioritize the implementation of robust child protection laws, ensuring that law enforcement agents are  well-trained and sensitized to handle cases of child rape. Special courts for handling cases involving children, victim support services, and protective measures should be readily available to survivors.
If we have to curb child rape menace, community engagement must be included in the process. Engaging communities to change attitudes toward girl-children and dismantling harmful gender norms is essential. Community leaders, religious figures, and educators can play a pivotal role in shifting mindsets and promoting zero tolerance for violence against children.
Furthermore, there is the need for support for survivours of rape. Comprehensive support systems for survivors are critical for the rest of their lives. These include access to psychological counselling, medical care, legal aid, and safe spaces where victims can heal and rebuild their lives. Schools should also provide supportive environments to help victims continue their education without fear of stigma or discrimination.
 Global Advocacy and Accountability from World Health Organisation (WHO), UNICEF, and other relevant agencies should as a matter of fact continue to create more awareness  and sensitization on the need to save the girl-child.  International organizations and governments must continue to advocate for the protection of children’s rights, ensuring that perpetrators are held accountable. Monitoring mechanisms, transparency in legal proceedings, and collaboration between countries are key to fighting transnational issues like child trafficking for sexual exploitation.
It is worrisome to note in this 21st century, as the world is a global village, fully digitalized, when the girl-children should be allowed to showcase their potentials, instead they are trafficked to do jobs that will harm their lives.
Parents particularly, should have the number of children they can cater for.  They should also pay attention to the ones they have.
Moreso,  the boy-children and the men should be sensitized on the need to stop the menace.
Rape and sexual violence against girl-children is one of the gravest injustices of our time, robbing millions of their childhoods and futures. While progress has been made, there is still much work to be done to protect the most vulnerable among us. It is only through collective action, from governments, communities, families, and international organizations, that we can create a world where girl- children are safe, empowered, and free from violence.
Perpetual  Oluchi Izuegbunam
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Who Is A Classic Woman? 

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A classic woman is one  who has identified herself in terms of fashion, occupation  or the kind of business she does.
A woman can be classical in the way she entertains her audience in terms of music and movies.  You will discover that some female musicians are identified with the kind of music they sing.
A classical woman is one who always wants to appear trendy.
Generally, classical women are normally identified with the kind of things they are involved in.
There are ladies that want to be identified with wearing of shorts (short trousers) in the public. They use it to showcase their beauty. They want to be identified with such things as they see it as socialisation.
Some wear trousers that are so tight just to showcase all the curves they possess.
Consultant stylists and etiquette experts say some fashions won by some persons are inappropriate because of how and when they are won.
A classic woman is supposed to dress properly.   She should  be able to wear clothes  that will not expose hidden parts of her body. When such occurs,  then it is indecent dressing.
Ladies should be known for two things, classical and beauty.  One can be classic with minimisation.  The minimum woman should go is to look good, decent and presentable.
Some ladies like wearing short skirts but no matter  how short the skirt is,  it should look elegant. The skirt  should not be too short like the mini-skirt.
Dressing or fashion depends on the environment the persons finds herself.  The kind of clothes won to the office may be different from the one won at home. Likewise,  a dress won to a party may be different from the one won too swimming pool.
For one to look classical or decent, body shape should be taken into consideration.
Colours of a particular fashion can make one look odd or nice.  Looking model does not mean that one should go naked or dull.
Don’t wear clothes  that you need to drag from time to time in order not to expose yourself.
Eunice Choko-Kayode
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Emohua Widows Receive Items From Ogbakor Ikwerre California

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A Non-Governmental Organization, (NGO) Ogbakor Ikwerre,California, DBA, Ikwerre Community Association, California, through it’s outreach projects has donated food items to over 300 Widows in Rumuekpe and Rumuji in Emohua Local Government Area of Rivers State.
Speaking during the handover of the items to the women leaders of the communities in Emohua, yesterday, the team leader of the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California, Dr Christiana Chukumati, said that the donation is an annual event that has  been on since 2014.
According to her, the NGO is donating the items among the four local government area of Ikwerre adding that this year is for widows in Rumuekpe and Rumuji communities.
“Today is Rumuekpe and Rumuji communities, next we are going to another Ikwerre local government area also.
” The NGO has been carrying on the activities since 2014 within the
Ikwerre communities”, Dr Chukumati said.
She thanked the Royal father of Rumuekpe, His Royal Highness, Golden Amb. Christian Amadi, Eze Chigu and the Royal Highness of Rumuji and Odegu Kingdom, Ohna Christian Okachineke Elechi Newe-Eli (the xv) for receiving them in their communities.
The team leader also promised the Royal Highness that whenever the NGO has any other items for the communities, she we do well to bring it to them.
Receiving the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California in Rumuekpe, His Royal Highness Golden Christian Amadi, praised the NGO for funding his clan among the communities.
According to the Highness, my community is the only oil producing community in Emohua Local Government Area of Rivers State, adding that his community is feeding the local government area, the state and the nation.
“I thank my children over there in California for remembering the widows in my Kingdom for the food items they brought.
” I pray to God to help them to do also to other Ikwerre communities.
” I want to tell them also that Rumuekpe Kingdom is till undeveloped.
” As you can see the community is nothing to show to the people, I want to beg the Niger Delta Development Commission (NDDC) and the Rivers State government to come to our aid to develop our community. We are underdeveloped”
“God will bless my children over there in California”,  His Royal Highness Amadi prayed.
In her words, the women leader of Rumuekpe community, Comfort Njoku, said that she was happy for the gift items given to them adding that it is not easy to remember the widows.
She explained that in Rumuekpe, the widows have not seen such a gift before and  prayed that is only God that will reward them.
“I want to thank the Ogbakor Ikweree Community Association in California for giving us this items in this festival. We thank God for them and the leader of the group,  Mrs Chukumati.
” What we received today we have not seen it in our community before for widows”, Mrs Njoku stated.
Meanwhile,  in Rumuji community, His Royal Highness, Ohna Christian Okachineke Elechi, said that he lacked words to thank the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California for the gift to the widows in his communities.
According to him, today is historic in the history of Rumuji community that our children in oversea can remember us, I am very excited and happy over the items.
“I feel very very happy, it is good that our children recognize the widows in my community today.
” I did not know them before but now I  know them, I pray to God Almighty to pay them back for their effort and that they will not lack.
“I pray God to continue to bless them in whatever things they are doing”  he stated.
Earlier, the oldest woman in Rumuji community,  Nletem Josiah, who spoke in her local language interpreted by the woman leader, Agor Leah Onugbom, thanked the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California for the gift adding that her husband died many years ago that has caused her hardship.
” In my age and these people come and give me these food items,  is only God that will bless them for me.
” This Xmas I will eat and be happy so I want to thank them and that my God, God will bless them for me”,  Mama Josiah said.
By: Kiadum Edookor
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