Opinion
Celebrating Valentine’s Day
February 14, which Pope Gelasius declared St. Valentine’s Day around 498 A.D. has become a remarkable date many people across the world recharge themselves with love, God’s priceless gift to all life. It has become a special day for celebrating love, that divine quality which binds God’s creation together. In spite of it being removed from the Church’s Calendar in 1969, St Valentine’s Day is even being celebrated as festival in many countries, including Scotland, Japan, Korea, and Taiwan.
Many legends have been woven around St Valentine and the genesis of the Lovers’ Day. One affirms that St Valentine, a Roman priest, was put to death on February 14 for secretly performing marriages among young ones contrary to Emperor Claudius II’s decision that young men, his potential soldiers, should not get married. The story has it that Emperor Claudius II, who ordered that St. Valentine be killed, believed that single men were more effective and efficient as soldiers than the married ones with children. Another legend contends that there was a clergyman known as Valentine too who was also presented and killed on February 14 for preaching the love of Christ.
Love lives forever. Many years after their death, many people still remember the peace their acts of love brought to humanity.
Since the beginning of the month, the air has been filled with the fragrance of felicitations and cheers among loved ones. More than it was in the beginning of St Valentine’s Day, spouses, friends, colleagues, and others have been exchanging love notes, tokens of affection, goodwill messages, and gifts. Perhaps, this goes to further buttress the ancient belief that February is a season of love and romance not only among humans but also among animals. During the Middle Ages in France and England, it was believed that birds began their mating on February 14.
But love is not a seasonal vocation. It is God. It is life. And in the language of the spiritual leader of Eckankar, Sri Harold Klemp, “Love is a graceful thing. Love is always sharing, telling people who need to know God’s love in a way they can understand”. In his book Love the Keystone of Life, he says that the real reason for man’s existence in this world is to open himself more to the love of God.
Many people find it difficult to open themselves up to love. They may speak volumes about love, but may not seek to give it. In the book Stranger by the River, Paul Twitchell writes: “Love is not a matter of belief. It is a matter of demonstration. It is not a question of authority, but one of perception and action. .. therefore, if you desire love, try to realize that the only way to get love is by giving love. That the more you give, the more you get; and the only way in which you can give is to fill yourself with it, until you become a magnet of love”.
Love makes everything beautiful. It knows hidden paths, and will always find a way. True love has no bounds, knows no restrictions, and as the sages say, it is like its source, God-Omnipresent, Omnipotent and Omniscient. Chastity, contentment, detachment, forgiveness, trust, happiness, justice, patience, sincerity, and other virtues find their true home in the heart in which love dwells. Conversely, lust, anger, greed, attachment, vanity, evil gossip, fault finding, irritability, malice, and other negative passions dwell in a perverse mind.
If wave of love can rise in one’s heart this season of love; if one can send good news; joy, thought, and feelings to one’s loved ones on a Valentine’s Day, and if one’s love is not limited by condition on February 14, then I suppose that one has the capacity to give love endlessly.
In giving love, we may not need to look too high, searching for naira and kobo and other material things to share with our spouses, friends, siblings, parents and others. We can simply offer our shoulders to one in pains and sorrow to lean on. What about a smile, a kind word, a little helping hand, hearty greetings, goodwill messages, and other expressions of concern and care? They can uplift the heart of the receiver and give him more living out of life.
And as Maxwell Maltze said: “Let us not be too proud to accept help from others, nor too callous to give it. Let us not say “unclean” just because the form of gift may not coincide with our prejudices or our ideas of self importance”. There is so much that life has in stock for us but our prejudices, intolerance, vanity, and some personal principles restrict us, in the wrong way, from having and enjoying the gifts that are offered us on a platter of gold.
Yes, in this season of love, we are propelled to show love and give selfless service to others. But what about ourselves? Do we really love ourselves? Are we kind to ourselves? To love others, we must be kind and loving to ourselves too. In Ask the Master, Sri Harold Klemp said: “You are a special person who has a lot to give others, but you’ve got to learn to be kinder to yourself. There is no school that teaches that, of course, but you can strike an attitude of openness as to how that can come to be.
If you have quiet conversation with yourself, ask, how can I be kinder to myself? Asking will open a door. Watch for people who have a life of kindness to themselves and others. For now, don’t try to copy them-just watch?”
Love imparts strength to one’s thoughts, words, feelings, and actions. It turns sorrow to joy, weakness to strength, and darkness to light. Happy Val.
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