Opinion
Vanity As A Narcotic
Vanity, defined as “too much pride in yourself, so that you are always thinking about yourself and your appearance”, is a camouflage, a defence mechanism. Often it is intended to provide some solace and fortress to those who have found life too hard to understand. Thus vanity is a narcotic which fosters some palliative and possible solace as a camouflage to hide away something else.
We may not know or admit it, but it is true that we all have some degrees and forms of deficiencies which we try very hard to cover up, cope with or clothe in different guises. Narcotic is a substance which produces insensitivity and euphoria, as a temporary means of coping with perplexities and challenges. Life demands that we face perplexities and challenges boldly so that we can learn what lessons they are meant to convey. But we move backwards when we evade or suppress such opportunities.
Without resting on our laurels or cover up our deficiencies, life demands that we strive continuously to move forward in spite of all odds. But vanity becomes an obstruction in the battle of life whereby rising impetus in man gets diverted into ill channels which can include exhibitionism, vaulting ambition, meretriciousness, narrow-mindedness, etc. when we find people who throw their weight about, dress in glittering and flamboyant manner and talk endlessly about themselves, it is vanity standing on two legs.
This vanity plague is noticeable among people in various walks of life, of both sexes, but more predominant among the cream of society. Among the intellectuals, vanity manifests in long-winding and bombastic platitude and jargon, large enough to fill a lecture hall. To be brief and simple, is to be little, thus, knowledge and ability become synonymous with scholastic credentials and the knack to show off.
Visit places where the elite and cream of Nigerian society meet, and listen to the nature and quality of what such class of people discuss most of the time. If they are not talking about politics, the economy and business or private agonies, much of the issues which predominate conversations can be quite frivolous, if not ribald. Among the women folk the situation is not different, thus the impression anyone can get is that Nigerians are not striving to rise above mundane issues and mindset.
Even among those who claim to be religious, it is rare to find the kind of humility and open-mindedness which can recognize the possibility that we can learn from other people too. Rather, the more we talk, the better; without realizing that listening can be more dignifying and educative. Salvation appears to be an exclusive monopoly which some people already have, without anything else to learn.
With the kind of obtrusiveness and obtuseness which prevail everywhere today, a nation can rarely move forward where people’s thoughts centre on themselves. What we cultivate is a situation where there are more opportunists than men and women who work quietly and diligently for the good of the nation. Vanity and responsibility rarely go together, and we learn from Winston Churchill that responsibility is the key to greatness. Therefore, vanity can be a great obstruction to personal advancement, in many ways. Vanity goes with sanctimony.
Ranging from showing off wealth and affluence, vanity also manifests in looking down upon and running down the reputation of other people. In that case, a vain-glorious fellow often closes the door of opportunities to get help from other people when in need. When vanity is coupled with meanness, the situation becomes intolerable, because, envy, jealousy and other vices arise from such unwholesome mindset.
The narcotizing aspect of vanity is that it creates an illusion of being and knowing better than everybody else. Thus it becomes a camouflage under which an individual can hide their personal deficiencies and fears. It is a known fact of life that those who consistently utilize what little knowledge they possess, render greater services to the society, than braggarts who claim to know everything better than everyone else.
In the political arena of years gone by, we used to hear of “men of timbre and caliber” some of who turned out to be men of straw with nothing to offer except pot-belly and fat foreign bank accounts. Decline begins where indolence, vanity and opulent comfort take the place of constant and constructive exertions to build up a nation.
Vain-glorious political leaders are usually great talkers, often wearing the cloak of piety and sanctimony. Like modern-day Pharisees, glib talkers predominate in most public establishments, making statements and promises that rarely address the plight of the masses. A common companion of vanity is the love of flattery, a phenomenon which has led to the worst exploitation of African nations by foreigners, through their leaders.
Dr. Amirize is a retired lecturer from the Rivers State University, Port Harcourt.
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The political atmosphere in Rivers State has been anything but calm in 2025. Yet, a rare moment of unity was witnessed on Saturday, June 28, when Governor Siminalayi Fubara and Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Chief Nyesom Wike, appeared side by side at the funeral of Elder Temple Omezurike Onuoha, Wike’s late uncle. What could have passed for a routine condolence visit evolved into a significant political statement—a symbolic show of reconciliation in a state bruised by deep political strife.
The funeral, attended by dignitaries from across the nation, was more than a moment of shared grief. It became the public reflection of a private peace accord reached earlier at the Presidential Villa in Abuja. There, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu brought together Governor Fubara, Minister Wike, the suspended Speaker of the Rivers State House of Assembly, Martin Amaewhule, and other lawmakers to chart a new path forward.
For Rivers people, that truce is a beacon of hope. But they are not content with photo opportunities and promises. What they demand now is the immediate lifting of the state of emergency declared in March 2025, and the unconditional reinstatement of Governor Fubara, Deputy Governor Dr. Ngozi Odu, and all suspended lawmakers. They insist on the restoration of their democratic mandate.
President Tinubu’s decision to suspend the entire structure of Rivers State’s elected leadership and appoint a sole administrator was a drastic response to a deepening political crisis. While it may have prevented a complete breakdown in governance, it also robbed the people of their voice. That silence must now end.
The administrator, retired naval chief Ibok-Ette Ibas, has managed a caretaker role. But Rivers State cannot thrive under unelected stewardship. Democracy must return—not partially, not symbolically, but fully. President Tinubu has to ensure that the people’s will, expressed through the ballot, is restored in word and deed.
Governor Fubara, who will complete his six-month suspension by September, was elected to serve the people of Rivers, not to be sidelined by political intrigues. His return should not be ceremonial. It should come with the full powers and authority vested in him by the constitution and the mandate of Rivers citizens.
The people’s frustration is understandable. At the heart of the political crisis was a power tussle between loyalists of Fubara and those of Wike. Institutions, particularly the State House of Assembly, became battlegrounds. Attempts were made to impeach Fubara. The situation deteriorated into a full-blown crisis, and governance was nearly brought to its knees.
But the tide must now turn. With the Senate’s approval of a record ?1.485 trillion budget for Rivers State for 2025, a new opportunity has emerged. This budget is not just a fiscal document—it is a blueprint for transformation, allocating ?1.077 trillion for capital projects alone. Yet, without the governor’s reinstatement, its execution remains in doubt.
It is Governor Fubara, and only him, who possesses the people’s mandate to execute this ambitious budget. It is time for him to return to duty with vigor, responsibility, and a renewed sense of urgency. The people expect delivery—on roads, hospitals, schools, and job creation.
Rivers civil servants, recovering from neglect and under appreciation, should also continue to be a top priority. Fubara should continue to ensure timely payment of salaries, address pension issues, and create a more effective, motivated public workforce. This is how governance becomes real in people’s lives.
The “Rivers First” mantra with which Fubara campaigned is now being tested. That slogan should become policy. It must inform every appointment, every contract, every budget decision, and every reform. It must reflect the needs and aspirations of the ordinary Rivers person—not political patrons or vested interests.
Beyond infrastructure and administration, political healing is essential. Governor Fubara and Minister Wike must go beyond temporary peace. They should actively unite their camps and followers to form one strong political family. The future of Rivers cannot be built on division.
Political appointments, both at the Federal and State levels, must reflect a spirit of fairness, tolerance, and inclusivity. The days of political vendettas and exclusive lists must end. Every ethnic group, every gender, and every generation must feel included in the new Rivers project.
Rivers is too diverse to be governed by one faction. Lasting peace can only be built on concessions, maturity, and equity. The people are watching to see if the peace deal will lead to deeper understanding or simply paper over cracks in an already fragile political arrangement.
Wike, now a national figure as Minister of the FCT, has a responsibility to rise above the local fray and support the development of Rivers State. His influence should bring federal attention and investment to the state, not political interference or division.
Likewise, Fubara should lead with restraint, humility, and a focus on service delivery. His return should not be marked by revenge or political purges but by inclusive leadership that welcomes even former adversaries into the process of rebuilding the state.
“The people are no longer interested in power struggles. They want light in their streets, drugs in their hospitals, teachers in their classrooms, and jobs for their children. The politics of ego and entitlement have to give way to governance with purpose.
The appearance of both leaders at the funeral was a glimpse of what unity could look like. That moment should now evolve into a movement-one that prioritizes Rivers State over every personal ambition. Let it be the beginning of true reconciliation and progress.
As September draws near, the Federal government should act decisively to end the state of emergency and reinstate all suspended officials. Rivers State must return to constitutional order and normal democratic processes. This is the minimum requirement of good governance.
The crisis in Rivers has dragged on for too long. The truce is a step forward, but much more is needed. Reinstating Governor Fubara, implementing the ?1.485 trillion budget, and uniting political factions are now the urgent tasks ahead. Rivers people have suffered enough. It is time to restore leadership, rebuild trust, and finally put Rivers first.
By: Amieyeofori Ibim
Amieyeofori Ibim is former Editor of The Tide Newspapers, political analyst and public affairs commentator
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