Editorial
Women’s Day: Need For Understanding
The world celebrated the annual International
Day For Women on March 9, 2016. As usual,
it was colourful and all involving, but the theme for this year’s celebration can be troublesome for some families if the intended meaning is not properly conveyed.
In their innocent desire to contribute to the good of humanity, the United Nations approved as the theme for this year’s celebration of the International Women’s Day, “An appeal for gender parity.” This is great but what does it mean?
For the unenlightened, this could mean the final fight of the sexes. This is more so because the women folk cannot possibly ask for more than this. For the un-cultured, it can mean the wrestle for power between the sexes at all fronts, including the family. This is not the meaning.
It is true that in some countries, religion and culture have raised barriers against women and the girl-child, but the way to reverse them cannot be another extreme that is capable of destroying the human family. This, of course, will be the beginning of the end of all known civilisations.
The family is very important and sacred. It is the nucleus of every society and it is the reason the devil fights marriages. The rate of divorce across the world is worrisome, what that does to children and ultimately society is best imagined.
That is why everything must be done to prepare women to take their place in creation and to ultimately achieve the purpose for their lives. As the people that keep marriages and the home, women must submit to the authority of the man, their own husbands.
The place of the women is too important to be mixed with aimless agitations. It is the woman that makes the man complete and turns the minds of the children to their fathers. It is the woman that determines the level of morality of any society and provides the voice that tempers life.
In fact, some people think that the woman belittles herself when she asks for parity, whereas she is the determinant force. Those who know the powers of the woman cannot be fooled, the saying that “mother is supreme” has not been controverted, especially in Africa, where mothers do the seemingly impossible to raise children.
From the fore-going, it should be clear that the call for parity cannot be the call for two captains in the home. In fact, the woman should be the one to attack anyone that would dare to challenge the authority of her lord and master in her home.
The world is very vast and some cultures have not been able to see the eternal values in women. It is sad that in countries like Saudi Arabia women are still not a people. They cannot be heard or participate in politics, they cannot vote or drive cars, neither can they stroll without male relatives. Sad!
The Tide also condemns practices in some societies, including the United States of America, where women do not earn the same as men in some States. In Nigeria, women cannot still sign to procure the bail of anyone at police stations nor have any say in their father’s house, especially after marriage.
Bad as these issues may be, change is catching up on them across the globe. With patience and conscious efforts on the part of women in the socio-economic arena, every woman will earn her place as many others that have broken the glass ceiling. Every woman must be given the right she truly deserves.
The women, our mothers should be careful in their associations because evil communication still corrupts good manners. Women must note the background of the ones that try to radicalise the struggle for their gender, as some of them are carrying baggages from failed marriages and hurts from regrettable divorces.
We are happy that Nigeria recognises the sacred place of the women. The 35 percent affirmative action in favour of women has been largely respected. Although the call for parity may be an improvement on the drive to liberate the woman, it is one call where they may be driving their luck too far.
To formally address the rating of the woman in the activities of the nation, government after government has gone on to ensure that the Ministry of Women and the one on Social Welfare and Justice were in place. Some of these Ministries may become needless when ‘parity’ is invoked between the sexes.
While we think that women cannot be celebrated enough for the roles they play, nothing should be done to destroy the family. If there is anywhere, where the sexes must compete, it is in the exchange of love and service to each other and not the struggle for power and leadership.
The major scriptures are very clear on what every member of society should do. For the woman, it is to become a suitable help to the man, a sweet mother to the children and the rallying point for the family. Our country needs peaceful homes, God-fearing children and morally upright society.
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