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Shun Third-Party Interference In Marriages, 85-Year-Old Engineer Urges Couples

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An 85-year-old building engineer, Chief Paulinus Nwafor, has disclosed that couples should avoid bringing in third parties into their marriages, as well as avoid focusing on materialism if they want to live long and stay healthy.
Nwafor said that being alive to witness his children and loved ones coming together to celebrate him and his wife was more significant to them than any other material thing.
The octogenarian disclosed this while speaking to journalists at the sidelines of the celebration of the 45th wedding anniversary between himself and his wife, Lolo Nwafor, over the weekend.
The wedding anniversary, which was organised by their children, took place at Nwafor’s country home in Ezioko village, Oko, in Orumba North Local Government Area of Anambra State, and was presided over by the Bishop of Ekwulobia Catholic Dioceses, His Eminence Peter Cardinal Okpalaeke.
The Bishop of Awka Catholic Diocese, Most Rev. Paulinus Ezeokafor, a Labour Party chieftain, Valentine Ozigbo, family, friends and other well-wishers graced the occasion.
Recounting the challenges and breakthroughs they went through in their 45-year marriage, especially to train all their children, Nwafor said their staying power was not allowing third parties into their marriage and also avoiding focusing on material things while looking unto God for their supplies.
He said, “We are very excited that our children are celebrating us while we are alive, which they are doing today that is our 45th wedding anniversary. It is better to be celebrated while alive than the fanfare thrown at the demise of someone.
“I am happy seeing people coming together to make merry because of me and my wife and we are witnessing it. Our life wish is being fulfilled today and we are so happy about it. We are blessed with the gift of children and a wonderful community.
“Marriage is a thing of joy as ordained by God. For 45 years now, I and my wife have been living happily together. No marriage is without challenges and despite the challenges, we have always had breakthroughs and our staying power is because we avoided third parties and kept our focus on God for direction.
“My advice to struggling marriages is to be patient; divorce should not be the first option. They should always be prayerful and invest everything they have in giving their children the best training in the ways of God. I appreciate God for the gift of being alive to witness this day and I expressed satisfaction with what God has bestowed on me and my wife, for 45 years.”
In his message, the Bishop of Ekwulobia Catholic Dioceses, His Eminence Peter Cardinal Okpalaeke, identified parental failure, community failure and failure of the Church as the reasons marriages are crashing all over the world today.
Okpalaeke said training of children in the ways of God from infantry to the stage of getting married remains the only solution to curb what he described as a “marriage menace.”
He said, “Marriage should be a thing of joy. To the best of my knowledge, marriages are constantly crashing today because such couples have lost a sense of family.
“The crises you are seeing in marriages today is a reflection of failure; failure of the parents, failure of the community, failure of the Church and other institutions that are supposed to be a nurturing place or ground for those that would eventually get married.
“Institutions have failed. Individuals have lost a sense of family. Many of the crashed marriages today, point to the fact that the couples were not well prepared before entering into marriage life. The family and the Church somehow have failed.
“Good family provide good husband/wife, provide good Reverend Fathers and Sisters.”
Okpalaeke, while admonishing Christians to be followers of Christ, show love of Christ and live a Christ-like life, also harped on the importance of having good intentions which he noted matter a lot to God, reminding the people to always put God first in their daily activities.
Also in his appreciation, one of the sons of the celebrants and a serving Priest at the Ekwulobia Catholic Diocese, Reverend Father Emmanuel Nwafor, said the celebration had become an annual routine in their family to celebrate God’s abundant grace and mercies.
He urged the Christian faithful to imbibe the spirit of celebrating their parents while they are still alive, adding that it was their wish to celebrate their parents while alive.
He said, “It is our wish to celebrate our parents while alive. I will never forget their unending support to make sure that all their children become great in life. They are a beacon of faith and testament that serving God is indeed rewarding.”

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Don Lauds RSG, NECA On Job Fair

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The National Coordinator of Embedded Ai -EU Erasmus Project in Nigeria, Prof. Bourdillon Omijeh, has commended the Nigeria Employers’ Consultative Association (NECA) and the Rivers State Government for their strategic partnership in organizing the Job Fair 2026.

The Job Fair with theme: “Addressing Youth Employability for Prosperity,” took place at Obi International Conference Center, Port Harcourt, last week.

Speaking as Special Guest, Professor Omijeh stated that result-oriented human capital development and trainings focused on relevant skills is the most effective solution to reducing the high rate of graduate unemployment in Rivers State.

He noted that Nigeria is firmly in the era of the Fourth Industrial Revolution (4IR), driven by technologies such as Artificial Intelligence, Robotics, Machine Learning, Big Data Analytics, Internet of Things, Virtual and Augmented Reality, and 5G.

According to him, these emerging technologies offer enormous employment and entrepreneurial opportunities across critical sectors, including agriculture, power, Telecommunication, oil and gas, healthcare, and security.

He emphasized the growing shift from job seeking to job creation, explaining that youths equipped with 4IR skills can become innovators, solution providers, and founders of startups and new industries.

Professor Omijeh further stated that Nigeria is richly endowed with talented youths capable of competing globally when properly empowered with the right skills, support, and enabling environment.

He called for sustained collaboration between government, the private sector, and educational institutions to build a future-ready workforce and drive inclusive economic growth in Rivers State.

To the over 4000 teeming youths present, Professor Omijeh said, according to Bill Gate, that “Being born poor is not a fault, but remaining poor in a world of opportunity and skills is a responsibility that must be consciously addressed.

“Don’t allow your current circumstances define your destiny. There’s a seed of greatness in you. Sieze any and every opportunity to develop yourself and acquire the requisite skills.

He passionately urged the Rivers State Government to intentionally invest and fund result-oriented training programmes through the strategic Ministry of Employment Generation and Economic Empowerment and Ministry of Youth Development to increase employability and reduce the rate of graduate unemployment in Rivers State.

He thanked the Governor of Rivers State, Sir Siminalayi Fubara, and the Honorable Commissioner for Employment Generation and Economic Empowerment, Dr. Chisom K. Gbali, for this laudable initiative with NECA.

Professor Bourdillon Omijeh is the National Coordinator of the Embedded Artificial Intelligence (EAI) -EU Erasmus Project in Nigeria; Immediate Past Director of Centre for Information and Telecommunication Engineering Uniport, NCC-Chair Occupant on ICT Uniport; TensorFlow four (4) times award winner on Capacity building on Ai & ML -(2021-2024), CEO-Bourdillon Omijeh Foundation.

As a Professional Mentor, he has facilitated the training of thousands of youths on 4IR- Skills with relevant certifications and evidential engagements.
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Explore Opportunities, Become Employers, Fubara Urges Rivers Youths

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Rivers State Governor, Siminalayi Fubara, has urged youths in the state to take advantage of the vast opportunities available to become employers of labour and contribute meaningfully to growth and development.

Fubara said global trends increasingly favour entrepreneurship and innovation, stressing that youths in Rivers State must not be left behind in harnessing such opportunities.

Represented by the Secretary to the State Government, Dr Benibo Anabraba, the governor stated this while declaring open the 2026 Job Fair organised by the Rivers State Government in partnership with the Nigeria Employers’ Consultative Association in Port Harcourt, yesterday.

Speaking on the theme, “Addressing Youth Employability for Prosperity,” the governor acknowledged the responsibility of government to create jobs for its teeming youth population but noted that it was unrealistic to absorb all job seekers into the civil service.

“As a government, we recognise our duty to provide employment opportunities for our teeming youths. However, we also understand that not all youths can be accommodated within the civil service.

“This underscores the need to encourage entrepreneurship across diverse sectors and to partner with other stakeholders, including the youths themselves, so they can transition from being job seekers to employers of labour,” he said.

Fubara further urged participants to continually sharpen their skills and explore opportunities within their immediate environment and the global space through digital platforms.

He reaffirmed his administration’s commitment to sustaining peace and providing an enabling environment for youths to develop their potential and thrive.

In a goodwill message, the Commissioner for Employment Generation and Economic Empowerment, Dr Chisom Gbali, said the job fair was designed to equip youths with contemporary skills, innovation and mentorship needed to transform them from unemployable to resourceful individuals.

Gbali disclosed that the ministry had rolled out various training and capacity-building programmes in areas such as ICT and artificial intelligence, oil and gas, maritime, and the blue economy.

Delivering the keynote address, the Head of the Department of Human Resources Management, Rivers State University, Dr Chris Biriowu, advised participants to remain informed about evolving sources of employability.

He said the labour market was dynamic and shaped by industry-specific demands, technological advancement, management practices and other emerging factors.

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King Jaja Impacted Beyond Rivers -Deputy Gov

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Rivers State Deputy Governor, Professor Ngozi Odu, has poured accolades on late Amayanabo of Opobo, HRM Dandeson Douglas Jaja V, saying his footprints went beyond the State.

Speaking during a condolence visit to the wife of the late king, Prof. Odu said the late monarch contributed meaningfully beyond the shores of Rivers State.

“He contributed not only to Opobo, not only to Rivers State, but to Nigeria as a nation. We all know the various positions he held until his passing. For us as a Commission, we are really going to miss him greatly, especially at this time when his guidance was most needed,” she stressed.

She described the late king as a distinguished traditional ruler whose life and service contributed immensely to the development of Rivers State and Nigeria at large.

The deputy governor, who also serves as Chairman of the Rivers State Boundary Commission, noted that until his demise, King Jaja was an Ex-Officio member of the Commission, representing Rivers South East Senatorial District.

According to her, the late monarch actively participated in several meetings of the Commission and played an important advisory role.

“He actually participated with us in a couple of meetings. It was with great shock that we received the news of his passing. We saw daddy as someone who was very strong, healthy and athletic,” Prof. Odu said.

Prof. Odu explained that the Commission relied heavily on the wisdom of traditional rulers like the late monarch to ensure that its responsibilities were carried out properly and conscientiously.

She assured the family of the Commission’s continued support, saying they will remain close to the family throughout the burial arrangements and beyond.

Addressing the widow, Queen Prudence Dandeson Douglas Jaja, Prof. Odu said the visit was to commiserate with her and encourage her during the period of mourning.

“Please accept our condolences. Please be strong and put your hope in God. The God who watches over widows will never abandon you,” the deputy governor prayed.

“We cannot question God. What has happened has happened. All we can do is to pull ourselves together. That is why we are here  to pray that the Holy Spirit will strengthen you, that God will turn your sadness into joy and clothe you with a garment of beauty,” she added.

Responding, Queen Jaja described her late husband as a gentle, humble man who was deeply committed to the progress of Rivers State, and Nigeria at large.

She expressed gratitude to the deputy governor and other members of the Boundary Commission for identifying with the family in their moment of grief.

“We are praying that his soul will rest in perfect peace. I thank you very much for coming to console me at this trying moment. Seeing you here has given me comfort. God bless each and every one of you,” she said.

She also offered prayers for the delegation, wishing them a long life and good health.

Highlight of the visit was the presentation Letter of Condolence from the Rivers State Boundary Commission to Queen Jaja.

 

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