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IWD: Curbing Sexual Harassment In Schools

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The World celebrated an other International Women’s Day (IWD) recently and it has been usual for the past couple of years when global attention was focused on women. Women’s rights and issues have dominated the news, especially within the context of world reckoning on sexual misconduct against women not just in educational institutions but in almost all the industries.
But even as we mark this new vista in tackling sexual harassment against women and the possibility of the world becoming more sensitive to the cries and agonies of victims, there is still more to be done especially with regard to closest spaces such as educational institutions where massive sexual harassment goes on without attention with figures showing that women’s dignity and education are critically threatened by recurring sexual misconduct across the schools.
Within a span of few months, a university teacher was convicted of sexually harassing a post graduate female student by demanding many rounds of sex and using such incidence in exchange for good grades at the famous Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, Osun State.
Afterwards, sentenced to prison terms at the University of Lagos was another senior lecturer and a minister of the Gospel of Jesus Christ of a renowned Church and was suspended after he was exposed in a 13- minute video, documentary released by the BBC Africa Eye, where he was making advances towards an undercover reporter who disguised as a student seeking for admission into the school.
Similarly, at the university of Abuja, a lecturer was recently dismissed after the report of a panel set up to investigate allegations revealed that the lecturer and a professor for that matter, had really demanded sex from a female undergraduate in exchange for good scores.
Sadly, it would have seemed as if no lesson has been learnt with all these exposures as female students continue to be subjected to horrendous sexual predations by the lecturers and all those who hold power within the educational institutions and other industries, knowing fully well that there is nothing in place to actually check them as those exposed are only unfortunate to have suffered such accidental exposure.
The case is that no female is immune from the threat of sexual misconduct and molestation in the schools as lecturers operate with impunity defiling these young students and sending many of them into depression and a life time of mental agony.
To be certain, over the past years we have been regaled with tales of big time sexual assault scandals from the Nigerian campuses to have felt that these are common place incidents.
Yet, we know that these headlines only scratch at the extent and depth of the crisis as it is notoriously tough to gather data on the prevalence of sexual misconduct in Nigerian schools with most assaults underreported or unreported. However, the most common estimate is that about one in six female students of tertiary institutions remained the victim of a sexual assault during her years of studies, an estimate backed up by survey from the Justice Department’s Office on Violence Against Women.
And showing that the crisis of sexual harassment in higher institutions is essentially a female problem, estimates on male victims of sexual assault are more variable, but they range from about one in twenty students, telling us that while anybody could experience that it is clear from the data that the female student on the campuses experience these negative behaviours at disproportionately higher rate than the males.
The implications of this is that we must start to see and approach the issues of sexual assault in schools as part of the larger exploitation problem of the females in the society.
We must put in place the environment in schools that would empower the female students and others within the system who set great store by what is right to be able to monitor and report every case of sexual misconduct.
The key therefore is to work towards the emergence of an environment in which the female students know that the system is out to protect and defend them against predators. When they have this support, it would not be difficult for them to stand against unwanted sexual advances from the male. Building and having in place such kind of environment could be made part of the requirements for accreditation of higher institutions by the various accrediting bodies.
This way, we would be integrating the healthy functioning of the female students into the running of the institutions and this will go a long way in showing that the society values it is female members and wants them to be free from sexual assault as well as putting in place a positive environment for the female students knowing the place of by-standers, victims and alleged perpetrators within the complex web of the school environment. Competent responses by security personnel, administrators, other students and staff will involve treating all parties with respect and due process, holding perpetrators accountable and ensuring that students who have been victimised, have the safety and support they need to stay in school in order to finish their studies.
In this context, all higher institutions in the country must be required as a matter of fact to work towards a culture of zero tolerance for sexual harassment with each institution being rated on the extent to which it is sticking to and publicising it is efforts in that regard.
As we join in the extended celebration of women as part of the International Women’s Day (IWD) 2022, we must use the opportunity to reflect on how far we are from achieving gender equality in an atmosphere of rampant sexual harassment of women, especially on the campuses. As women march to the National Assembly to register their presence, they should be able to send firm and clear message that all kinds of sexual misconduct and assault are not desirable and acceptable in the society and citadels of learning. That will be one way of showing that stakeholders are ready to rid the institutions and the entire society of the gross menace of sexual harassment that has become a veritable threat to girl child education and the worthy presence of women in Nigeria.
Hence, we ought to aggressively curb the excesses of sexual misconduct plaguing the nation’s Ivory Towers.
It should be included in the Nigerian constitution that severe punishment awaits any offender when it comes to sexual harassment in schools whether on male or female citizen.
When any offender is punished, it will serve as deterrent to others who may be nursing such action.

By:  Theresa Frederick

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Who Is A Classic Woman? 

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A classic woman is one  who has identified herself in terms of fashion, occupation  or the kind of business she does.
A woman can be classical in the way she entertains her audience in terms of music and movies.  You will discover that some female musicians are identified with the kind of music they sing.
A classical woman is one who always wants to appear trendy.
Generally, classical women are normally identified with the kind of things they are involved in.
There are ladies that want to be identified with wearing of shorts (short trousers) in the public. They use it to showcase their beauty. They want to be identified with such things as they see it as socialisation.
Some wear trousers that are so tight just to showcase all the curves they possess.
Consultant stylists and etiquette experts say some fashions won by some persons are inappropriate because of how and when they are won.
A classic woman is supposed to dress properly.   She should  be able to wear clothes  that will not expose hidden parts of her body. When such occurs,  then it is indecent dressing.
Ladies should be known for two things, classical and beauty.  One can be classic with minimisation.  The minimum woman should go is to look good, decent and presentable.
Some ladies like wearing short skirts but no matter  how short the skirt is,  it should look elegant. The skirt  should not be too short like the mini-skirt.
Dressing or fashion depends on the environment the persons finds herself.  The kind of clothes won to the office may be different from the one won at home. Likewise,  a dress won to a party may be different from the one won too swimming pool.
For one to look classical or decent, body shape should be taken into consideration.
Colours of a particular fashion can make one look odd or nice.  Looking model does not mean that one should go naked or dull.
Don’t wear clothes  that you need to drag from time to time in order not to expose yourself.
Eunice Choko-Kayode
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Emohua Widows Receive Items From Ogbakor Ikwerre California

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A Non-Governmental Organization, (NGO) Ogbakor Ikwerre,California, DBA, Ikwerre Community Association, California, through it’s outreach projects has donated food items to over 300 Widows in Rumuekpe and Rumuji in Emohua Local Government Area of Rivers State.
Speaking during the handover of the items to the women leaders of the communities in Emohua, yesterday, the team leader of the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California, Dr Christiana Chukumati, said that the donation is an annual event that has  been on since 2014.
According to her, the NGO is donating the items among the four local government area of Ikwerre adding that this year is for widows in Rumuekpe and Rumuji communities.
“Today is Rumuekpe and Rumuji communities, next we are going to another Ikwerre local government area also.
” The NGO has been carrying on the activities since 2014 within the
Ikwerre communities”, Dr Chukumati said.
She thanked the Royal father of Rumuekpe, His Royal Highness, Golden Amb. Christian Amadi, Eze Chigu and the Royal Highness of Rumuji and Odegu Kingdom, Ohna Christian Okachineke Elechi Newe-Eli (the xv) for receiving them in their communities.
The team leader also promised the Royal Highness that whenever the NGO has any other items for the communities, she we do well to bring it to them.
Receiving the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California in Rumuekpe, His Royal Highness Golden Christian Amadi, praised the NGO for funding his clan among the communities.
According to the Highness, my community is the only oil producing community in Emohua Local Government Area of Rivers State, adding that his community is feeding the local government area, the state and the nation.
“I thank my children over there in California for remembering the widows in my Kingdom for the food items they brought.
” I pray to God to help them to do also to other Ikwerre communities.
” I want to tell them also that Rumuekpe Kingdom is till undeveloped.
” As you can see the community is nothing to show to the people, I want to beg the Niger Delta Development Commission (NDDC) and the Rivers State government to come to our aid to develop our community. We are underdeveloped”
“God will bless my children over there in California”,  His Royal Highness Amadi prayed.
In her words, the women leader of Rumuekpe community, Comfort Njoku, said that she was happy for the gift items given to them adding that it is not easy to remember the widows.
She explained that in Rumuekpe, the widows have not seen such a gift before and  prayed that is only God that will reward them.
“I want to thank the Ogbakor Ikweree Community Association in California for giving us this items in this festival. We thank God for them and the leader of the group,  Mrs Chukumati.
” What we received today we have not seen it in our community before for widows”, Mrs Njoku stated.
Meanwhile,  in Rumuji community, His Royal Highness, Ohna Christian Okachineke Elechi, said that he lacked words to thank the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California for the gift to the widows in his communities.
According to him, today is historic in the history of Rumuji community that our children in oversea can remember us, I am very excited and happy over the items.
“I feel very very happy, it is good that our children recognize the widows in my community today.
” I did not know them before but now I  know them, I pray to God Almighty to pay them back for their effort and that they will not lack.
“I pray God to continue to bless them in whatever things they are doing”  he stated.
Earlier, the oldest woman in Rumuji community,  Nletem Josiah, who spoke in her local language interpreted by the woman leader, Agor Leah Onugbom, thanked the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California for the gift adding that her husband died many years ago that has caused her hardship.
” In my age and these people come and give me these food items,  is only God that will bless them for me.
” This Xmas I will eat and be happy so I want to thank them and that my God, God will bless them for me”,  Mama Josiah said.
By: Kiadum Edookor
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When Rivers Women Pray

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Port Harcourt, the Rivers State capital went agog when women from all the local government areas of Rivers State came together for a prayer conference themed: “Women Converge 2025”.
The programme in it’s second series, which held at the Alfred Diette Spiff Civic Centre was put together by the Rivers Women Unite For Sim, a foundation that is nurtured by the women of Rivers State for prayers to God for the peaceful and smooth running of the state.
 Like a delegate conference, the  Civic centre was filled to the brim with women dressed in white attires.  They sang, danced and prayed to God for sustenance of peace in Rivers State while reaffirming their support for Governor Sim Fubara and his wife, Lady Valerie.
Women Converge With the sub-theme, “Women In An Evolving World”, explains the actions and strategies that the women use in fitting and succeeding in the digital and technical era that is very competitive.
During political rallies and campaigns, with their drummers, beautifully dressed, showcase their dancing steps to entertain audience.
In everything one does in the earthly world, prayers is key. Prayer, they say conquers. Women have been conquering many odds with prayers, and God answers whenever they pour out their minds concerning issues.
Of course, due to their nature, women have always been in the forefront of championing prayers, garnering supports for those in authority, taking care of their families as well as coping with their job careers.
Since the inception of the current administration, women have been relentless in ensuring that peace reigns in the Rivers state through prayers so 2025 edition of the Women Converge which is the second edition recorded huge success.
Speaking at the ceremony, the wife of the Rivers State Governor, Lady Valerie Fubara, commended Rivers women whose continuous prayers have impacted on the state and appreciated the support by the women to the Governor, Sir Siminalayi Fubara.
She described Rivers women as wonderful for the support both in prayers and solidarity to her family.
She described Women Converge 2025 as another milestone in an effort to shape the society for good and support for the sustenance of peace and development in Rivers State.
According to her, let me enjoin our women to remain prayerful because God is ever ready to answer our prayers. In all that we do, we must not forget the hand of God and seek him for direction and help.  You have always been steadfast and I urge you not to relent and together we will move our society forward.
Describing the theme, “Women Converge 2025, Women In An Evolving World”, as apt, she said it is a reflection of the very essence of actions and strategies that women adapt in navigating the new world order.
She said that despite the complexities of managing the home front and the constraints of economic realities, women had demonstrated formidable strength and resilience to confront the odds of life.
In her words, “This event underscores the resilience of our women to succeed no matter the odds, especially with absolute faith in God and determination for greater accomplishments”.
“Whether in the industry, business, agriculture, public service or even in politics, they have always shown strong determination to adapt and to accomplish like others”, she maintained.
A guest speaker at the event, the founder and medical director of  Save A Live medical centre, Dr. Okoye, told women to always take wise decisions in things concerning maternal and infant mortality.
The medical expert reiterated that women should not misunderstand the biblical idea of “you will deliver like the Hebrew women”.
He advised women to take  instructions from medical experts concerning pregnancy and child birth as those will go a long way in saving their lives and advised the women not to patronize quacks.
In a goodwill message, the former Commissioner for Environment, Prof. Roseline Konya,  expressed hope that the peace women have been praying for is already yielding positive result.
The President of Port Harcourt Chambers of Commerce, Industry, Mines and Agriculture, PHACCIMA, Dr. Chinyere Nwoga, spoke on the sustenance of peace in Rivers State as that will move the state to greater height.
Also speaking at the
Women Converge, Pastor Ene Secondus, enjoined women to continue to pray for peace and it’s sustenance in Rivers State.
One of the guest speakers, Pastor Eno Jerry Eze, during the intercessory prayers said women are the foundation of the society and explained that development of any society depends on the strength of womanhood.
The wife of the former Deputy Governor of Rivers State, Dr Christie Toby, a daughter of Rivers State, Ann Kio Briggs also graced the occasion.
Apart from the prayer session,  women from different local government areas showcased different kinds of food items in their various canopies and stands.
The Okrikans and in fact the Riverine extraction, in a food exhibition displayed fishes, crayfish, oporo (prawn), periwinkle( isam).
The women from Etche and Omuma decorated their tables with agricultural products like Garri, fufu, vegetables (okashi ala), plantain, bananas etc.
The Ekpeyes and Ogbas were not left out as they displayed their own food crops like fish, garri, fufu and the likes.
Women from Ikwerre and Emohua local government areas came with their food stuffs.
By: Eunice Choko-kayode
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