Opinion
A Suitable World For Women
Calista Ezeaku
Activities marking this year’s International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women will next Monday, December 10, come to an end. The event which began on that November 25, being Inter national Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women will end on International Human Rights Day (Dec 10), The 16 days of action is set aside by the United Nation for countries to call for the elimination of all forms of violence against women.
This year’s event with the theme, “From Peace in the Home to Peace in the World, Lets End Violence Against Women,” highlights the role that global militarism and distribution of weapons continue play to in perpetuating violence against women, and the need for peace in homes, the bedrock of any society.
Expectedly, many women groups non governmental organizations, Women Affairs Ministry and gender activists in Nigeria and other countries of the world have organized workshops, seminars, lectures, road walks, and other activities to sensitize people on the need to end violence against women.
One of such is a one-day seminar organized by Women Against Injustice and Violence, a Port Harcourt-based, NGO. The objective of the conference was to bring together key professionals working with women in Nigeria to examine the various forms of challenges in protecting the rights of women in Nigeria and work out specific short-term and long-term strategies for tackling them in line with workable international legal framework and political directions.
Interestingly, a common strand running through most of the papers delivered and contributions from the floor was that to effectively eliminate violence against women and successfully promote their rights, there is need to properly educate women on their rights and invigorate the dying family institution. In her paper, Dr Mariam Iheukwu, a University don noted that many Nigerian women, both educated and uneducated do not know their rights and do not even know when those rights are trampled upon.
She condemned a situation where a woman who is being battered regularly by her husband is forced to remain in marriage because “the dignity of a woman is her husband,” She called for a total embrace of the provision of African Charter which promotes the intrinsic worth and dignity of the African woman.
Other speakers made several useful suggestions. They called on men and women to complement each other since they are equal in dignity and solicited economic and political empowerment of women, eradication of poverty in the country and many more.
Cases of violence against women have becomes an every day occurrence, Some weeks ago, members of Women Initiative for Transparency and Social Justice, a women group, drew the attention of the public to unjust treatment meted on one Mrs. Amarachi Nwafor from Umuebule, in Etche Lo and her five children by her husband’s relations.
According to the leader of the group, Dr. Jennifer Spiff, following a chieftaincy tussle between Amarachi’s husband, Mr. Chibunna Nwafor, and Njoku’s family also from Umiebule, the Nwafor’s family house, vehicles and other valuable properly were set ablaze by the Njoku’s, and the head of the family arrested and kept in police custody, courtesy of the Njoku’s. This rendered Mrs. Nwafor, her new born baby and four other little children homeless.
“Can you imagine, with her husband held by the police, the nursing mother, her new born baby and four other children, have become displaced and impoverished in their own community?, wondered Dr. Spiff.
Similarly, a participant at the seminar narrated how she was being sexually abused and battered by her husband but could do anything about it. Because her family, her husband’s family and even the police saw nothing wrong in what the man was doing. “What really beat my imagination was how the police quickly dismissed my case and told me to go home and settle with my husband, when my neighbor took me to the police after my husband almost beat me to death, she said.
From the foregoing, the pertinent question remains: Who will bell the cat? What do we do. It is not enough to just sit down and lament the bad situation. We need action. The various women groups, NGOs should not stop at seminars and other programmes organized during this 16 days of activism. They should take further steps to ensure that whatever plan of action is reached this period is implemented. This is not a period to blame government for our woes and expect government to solve all the problems. Government alone can not do it.
Therefore, women groups, Ministers of women affairs, female lawmakers and politicians, NGOs, families, churches, town unions, village assemblies and voluntary organizations should get involved in the war against violation of women’s human rights. Let them fight against retroqressive culture, traditions and beliefs militating against women.
Our country Nigeria is now in dire need of peace and security. This can only be achieved when there is peace in the families, the bedrock of every society and to make sure those rights are not trampled upon and women who do not face all kinds of violence every day mainly because of their gender. A happy mother begets a happy family and a happy family begets a happy nation.
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