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Harbour Road Girls Class 83: Celebrating 40 Years Of Uncommon Bond

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3 years ago

July 28, 2023

Forty years in the life of an individual or institution is a remarkable feat that attracts attention, either on a note of celebration or villainy. For Class ’83 of former Government Girls Secondary School, Harbour Road, Port Harcourt it was a moment of celebration. The old classmates came together to solidify their unbroken union and camaraderie of forty years in a grand and unique style.
For four days, the old girls gathered together, not in their dormitories of old in the school, but in a cosy environment of Kristov’s House, a hospitality outfit in Government Reserved Area (GRA), Phase Three, Port Harcourt, from where they relived experiences and shared moments of joy and ecstasy.
The four-day reunion commenced on Thursday, July 6 2023, with joyous arrival of the old girls, who came in from within and outside Rivers State. The joy was more electric when those from the Diaspora arrived to the warm embrace of those who had never met each other in the last forty years.
The arrival was commemorated with fun, music, especially the dance hall rhythms of the late 1970s and 80s. It was spiced up with enough barbeque and assorted drinks. As each member arrived the hotel, she was greeted with shouts of joy, and the nickname she bore while in school.
It was a gathering of alumni with shared identity and fate anchored on a common bond and fellowship dating back to their formative years at the then Government Girls Secondary School, Harbour Road, Port Harcourt, now Methodist Girls High School(MGHS).
The event was reflective, momentous and enthralling as some of the old students were meeting themselves once again 40 years after graduation.
The programme was spanned to accommodate the line- up of events, which included mentorship training for the students of the school, health, wellness and entrepreneurship talks for members, award presentations, dinner night and special thanksgiving service.
Apart from sharing the fun of yesteryears through the nostalgic reunion, the central theme of the programme was to draw attention to the development of the education system, and address the festering rot in the system.
Thus, Day Two of the reunion featured the “Back to School” programme, aimed at inspiring the students and also giving back to the school through various donations.
These included paper presentation by popular Nollywood actress and an old girl of the school, Hilda Dokubo, who spoke on “Mentoring the Girl Child and Current Realities”, Mrs Ivy Ayanaba Etokakpan, a media expert who spoke on “Benefits of Social Media/Online Marketing”, and Mrs Adiki George, a health practitioner and member of the Set who spoke on, “Self Examination and Discussing with Parents/Mentors”.
Highlight of the Day Two event was the presentation of two Posthumous Honours Awards to Mrs Elfrida Eneni Abrakasa (1978-79) and Dr (Mrs) Boma Iyagba(1979/81),former distinguished principals of the school. Other award presentations and cash gifts were to five former teachers who taught the Set, some of whom were traced up to the day of the award presentation.They include Mrs Binan Ajmani(Indian), Dr (Mrs) Seniba Ariweriokuma, Elder (Mrs) Henrietta Fashola, Mrs Evelyn Akparanta and Mrs Florence Amiesimaka.
Also, as part of the presentation, 40 students of the Alma Mater were honoured in areas of academic excellence and extra curricular activities. Of this number, five best students received cash gifts.
Furthermore, two MGHS teachers were given awards as the best and longest serving staff of the school.
To round up the day, there was old students/current students dancing.
Another highlight of the reunion was the Dinner Party held at the Chinese Restaurant of Visa Karena Hotels in Port Harcourt on Saturday 8th July to mark Day Three of the reunion. Glamorous outfits adorned by the old girls was astonishing, fascinating as they sparked up the dinner night with their elegant appearances. They were joined at the occasion by spouses, relatives and selected old boys and girls associations (Class of 1983), of Comprehensive Secondary School, Borikiri, Baptist High School, Port Harcourt, A.C.M.G.S. Elelenwo and Holy Rosary College, Port Harcourt. Also, in attendance were the President, Prof (Mrs) Blessing Ahiauzu and members of the Executive of GGSS/MGHS Harbour Road Alumni Association.
The Pioneer President of the Association, Prof (Mrs) Hope Ilanye Bell-Gam was also in attendance with her spouse, Prof. Winston Bell-Gam.
The Dinner Party was chaired by Senibo Celestine Ogolo, a renowned journalist, author and administrator who commended the ’83 Set for their uncommon vision and urged them to remain united to attain greater heights.
Addressing guests at the Dinner, the Pioneer President of the Harbour Road Old Girls Association, who was also the Special Guest of Honour, Prof. Hope Bell-Gam described the Class ’83 of the school as exceptional in their vision.
To spice up the Dinner, was a talk on Health/Wellness presented by a Certified Health Coach based in the United States of America and a member of the set, Mrs Magdalene Jack-Boyle.
Highlight of the night was the cutting of the anniversary cake and presentation of honourary awards to three members; Mrs Magdalene Jack-Boyle, Mrs Adiki George and Lady Delphine Ekpenyong for their dedication towards the success of the 40th anniversary celebration. Also, two members and their spouses; Mr Frank/ Mrs Martha Alli and Senibo Celestine/Dr.(Mrs) Ibinabo Ogolo for their commitment to the Class ’83 over the years and success towards the 40th Anniversary celebration.
To round off the celebration, the class went for a Thanksgiving Service at Wesley Methodist Church, Harbour Road, Port Harcourt.
For members who attended the event, Mrs Precious Vivian Eli-Shama-Vice Chairman,40th Anniversary Committee and resident in Abuja, thanked God that the aim of the reunion was achieved where members of repute came in from round the globe to celebrate each other. Also, Dr (Mrs)Leah Wokoma, said that the 40th anniversary was a wonderful experience with refreshingly unforgettable memories. Another member, Princess Ibinabo Ogan-Ukachu, resident in Canada said, “the event was amazing and wonderfully organised. I do not regret coming down for it”.
Also, Ala Akiri, resident in United Kingdom said “the event was wonderful. I enjoyed every bit of it”.
Other members that followed the reunion activities via social media platforms commended the organisers for a job well done. For Mrs Doris Verchuur, resident in Netherlands, “the event was phenomenal, gorgeous and beautiful. I will not miss it next time for anything”.
Wakaebinyo Inengite, resident in Canada stated that every segment of the event was awesome.The planning was excellent.
Also, a former teacher who followed the events online, Mrs Evelyn Akparanta, resident in the United States of America said she was overwhelmed by the award.”I never dreamt that I would be honoured by you girls in my life time.Thank you”.
Veterans of the institution were on ground to cheer up the celebrating old girls and gave them a pat on the back for remembering and assisting in the development of their Alma Mater.
The Global President of GGSS/MGHS, Harbour Road Alumni Association, Prof Blessing Ahiauzu was particularly impressed about the comportment of the Class ’83 of the school, for the unity of purpose and making positive impact in the mentorship of the younger generation.
On his part, the Principal of the school, Rev Daniel Marcauley thanked the Class ’83 for their contributions.
Describing the set as good role models, the principal commended them for becoming worthy ambassadors of the school and urged the students to copy their good examples to improve their lives.
He said, “I’m proud to be associated with the Class ’83 of this great institution, they have consistently demonstrated great concern for the development of this school through their kind heartedness, we are ready to partner with them to move the school to greater standards”.
On her part, the Senior Prefect of 1979 Set, Mrs Jessie Shaw-Nwele who was specially invited for her benevolence towards the ’83 Set during their starting years thanked and congratulated the set for remembering and honouring her after 44 years and for a well thought out programme to celebrate 40th years after school.
Some of the schools that were invited said it was worthy of emulation and some said they were going to organise their own 40th anniversary soon.
The Leader of the Set, Mrs Martha Frank-Alli expressed gratitude to God for keeping the ’83 Set of the institution in unity 40 years after graduation.
Summing up the entire four- day event, the Secretary of the Set, Dr (Mrs) Ibinabo Celestine Ogolo, said the enduring unity and love among the ’83 set have helped them to remain focused and shaped their vision of giving back to the society.
Commenting on the overall event, Lady Delphine Ekpenyong who chaired the 40th Anniversary Committee, said the event was remarkable as it united members of the Set from all over the world.
About 50 members of the Class of 1983 were physically present for the anniversary.

By: Taneh Beemene

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How to Tackle Child Rape

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2 days ago

February 27, 2026

The Tide

Child rape is a profound human rights violation that inflicts lasting physical, emotional, and psychological scars on its victims.

Among the most vulnerable groups, girl children face a disproportionate amount of sexual abuse globally, reflecting deep-rooted societal, cultural, and systemic failures.

Despite international laws and local measures aimed at protecting children, rape and sexual violence against girl children remain a pervasive problem in many parts of the world. The rape of girl children is alarmingly prevalent worldwide.

According to data from the World Health Organization (WHO), one in four girls experiences some form of sexual abuse before the age of 18. This abuse occurs across all socio-economic, cultural, and geographical divides. The underreporting of sexual violence against children, fueled by fear, stigma, and victim-blaming, makes it difficult to grasp the true scale of the problem.

Reports from organizations like UNICEF and Human Rights Watch highlight that in some regions, girl children are specifically targeted due to the belief that they are “pure” or “virgin,” making them more vulnerable to cultural myths that suggest intercourse with a virgin can cure diseases like HIV/AIDS. These deeply harmful beliefs exacerbate the risk for young girls, particularly in countries where educational and legal protections are weak.

A range of factors contributes to the high incidence of rape against girl children, many of which are embedded in patriarchal and misogynistic beliefs. In some cultures, girls are viewed as inferior or subservient to males, making them easy targets for exploitation. The normalization of gender-based violence in some communities means that abuse often goes unnoticed, unreported, or unpunished.

Child marriages, which remain prevalent in some parts of Africa, Asia, and the Middle East, are another contributing factor. When girls are married off as children, they are often exposed to sexual violence under the guise of marital relations. These young brides, who are typically powerless in these situations, often endure repeated sexual abuse from their significantly older husbands.

Additionally, in conflict zones, girl children are disproportionately affected by sexual violence, used as tools of war by armed groups to terrorize communities. Such exploitation results in severe trauma and long-lasting consequences for victims.

Rape and sexual abuse leave devastating effects on a girl child, both physically and mentally. Physically, young girls are not developed enough to handle sexual intercourse, leading to severe injuries, infections, and even death in extreme cases. Many victims also face long-term reproductive health issues, including infertility, sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and complications in future pregnancies.

The psychological toll is equally profound. Victims often suffer from depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and other mental health conditions. The stigma associated with sexual violence further isolates them from their families and communities, leaving them vulnerable to further exploitation or abuse.

The educational consequences are also significant. Many victims drop out of school due to the trauma, fear of facing their abusers, or the stigma attached to rape. This creates a cycle of poverty and dependence, further reducing their life chances.

Access to justice for child rape victims is often fraught with challenges. In many countries, laws around sexual violence are outdated, under-enforced, or not well understood. Law enforcement agencies frequently lack the training or resources to handle cases of child sexual abuse appropriately, leading to further victimization during investigations.

In some cases, cultural practices such as “settling” rape cases between families, or forcing victims to marry their rapists, prevent victims from receiving the justice they deserve. This not only robs the victim of agency but perpetuates a culture of impunity where perpetrators feel empowered to commit further acts of violence.

Additionally, the social stigma surrounding rape prevents many girl children from coming forward. Fear of blame, retaliation, or being ostracized by their communities often keeps victims silent, allowing abusers to continue their crimes unchecked.

Internationally, the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC) and the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) both call for an end to all forms of violence against children, including sexual abuse. Organizations such as UNICEF, Plan International, and Save the Children have been instrumental in raising awareness, supporting survivors, and lobbying for stronger laws and protections.

On a national level, many countries have taken steps to strengthen legal frameworks to protect children from sexual violence. Child protection laws, survivor-centered legal reforms, and harsher penalties for offenders have been introduced in several countries. However, effective implementation remains a challenge in many places due to corruption, weak legal systems, and deep-seated cultural barriers.

To truly address the epidemic of child rape, a multi-faceted approach is needed that tackles the root causes of the problem.

Education and Empowerment of girl-children can go a long way in preventing rape cases in the society. Educating girls about their rights, providing them with life skills, and empowering them to speak out against violence are crucial steps in preventing abuse. Equally important is educating boys and men about consent, respect, and gender equality to shift harmful patriarchal norms.

Girls and women need stronger legal protection to escape some the rape cases that occur regularly. Governments must prioritize the implementation of robust child protection laws, ensuring that law enforcement agents are well-trained and sensitized to handle cases of child rape. Special courts for handling cases involving children, victim support services, and protective measures should be readily available to survivors.

If we have to curb child rape menace, community engagement must be included in the process. Engaging communities to change attitudes toward girl-children and dismantling harmful gender norms is essential. Community leaders, religious figures, and educators can play a pivotal role in shifting mindsets and promoting zero tolerance for violence against children.

Furthermore, there is the need for support for survivours of rape. Comprehensive support systems for survivors are critical for the rest of their lives. These include access to psychological counselling, medical care, legal aid, and safe spaces where victims can heal and rebuild their lives. Schools should also provide supportive environments to help victims continue their education without fear of stigma or discrimination.

Global Advocacy and Accountability from World Health Organisation (WHO), UNICEF, and other relevant agencies should as a matter of fact continue to create more awareness and sensitization on the need to save the girl-child. International organizations and governments must continue to advocate for the protection of children’s rights, ensuring that perpetrators are held accountable. Monitoring mechanisms, transparency in legal proceedings, and collaboration between countries are key to fighting transnational issues like child trafficking for sexual exploitation.

It is worrisome to note in this 21st century, as the world is a global village, fully digitalized, when the girl-children should be allowed to showcase their potentials, instead they are trafficked to do jobs that will harm their lives.

Parents particularly, should have the number of children they can cater for. They should also pay attention to the ones they have.

Moreso, the boy-children and the men should be sensitized on the need to stop the menace.

Rape and sexual violence against girl-children is one of the gravest injustices of our time, robbing millions of their childhoods and futures. While progress has been made, there is still much work to be done to protect the most vulnerable among us. It is only through collective action, from governments, communities, families, and international organizations, that we can create a world where girl- children are safe, empowered, and free from violence.

Perpetual Oluchi Izuegbunam

Women

Who Is A Classic Woman?

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2 months ago

January 9, 2026

The Tide

A classic woman is one who has identified herself in terms of fashion, occupation or the kind of business she does.

A woman can be classical in the way she entertains her audience in terms of music and movies. You will discover that some female musicians are identified with the kind of music they sing.

A classical woman is one who always wants to appear trendy.

Generally, classical women are normally identified with the kind of things they are involved in.

There are ladies that want to be identified with wearing of shorts (short trousers) in the public. They use it to showcase their beauty. They want to be identified with such things as they see it as socialisation.

Some wear trousers that are so tight just to showcase all the curves they possess.

Consultant stylists and etiquette experts say some fashions won by some persons are inappropriate because of how and when they are won.

A classic woman is supposed to dress properly. She should be able to wear clothes that will not expose hidden parts of her body. When such occurs, then it is indecent dressing.

Ladies should be known for two things, classical and beauty. One can be classic with minimisation. The minimum woman should go is to look good, decent and presentable.

Some ladies like wearing short skirts but no matter how short the skirt is, it should look elegant. The skirt should not be too short like the mini-skirt.

Dressing or fashion depends on the environment the persons finds herself. The kind of clothes won to the office may be different from the one won at home. Likewise, a dress won to a party may be different from the one won too swimming pool.

For one to look classical or decent, body shape should be taken into consideration.

Colours of a particular fashion can make one look odd or nice. Looking model does not mean that one should go naked or dull.

Don’t wear clothes that you need to drag from time to time in order not to expose yourself.

Eunice Choko-Kayode

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Emohua Widows Receive Items From Ogbakor Ikwerre California

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2 months ago

January 8, 2026

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A Non-Governmental Organization, (NGO) Ogbakor Ikwerre,California, DBA, Ikwerre Community Association, California, through it’s outreach projects has donated food items to over 300 Widows in Rumuekpe and Rumuji in Emohua Local Government Area of Rivers State.

Speaking during the handover of the items to the women leaders of the communities in Emohua, yesterday, the team leader of the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California, Dr Christiana Chukumati, said that the donation is an annual event that has been on since 2014.

According to her, the NGO is donating the items among the four local government area of Ikwerre adding that this year is for widows in Rumuekpe and Rumuji communities.

“Today is Rumuekpe and Rumuji communities, next we are going to another Ikwerre local government area also.

” The NGO has been carrying on the activities since 2014 within the

Ikwerre communities”, Dr Chukumati said.

She thanked the Royal father of Rumuekpe, His Royal Highness, Golden Amb. Christian Amadi, Eze Chigu and the Royal Highness of Rumuji and Odegu Kingdom, Ohna Christian Okachineke Elechi Newe-Eli (the xv) for receiving them in their communities.

The team leader also promised the Royal Highness that whenever the NGO has any other items for the communities, she we do well to bring it to them.

Receiving the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California in Rumuekpe, His Royal Highness Golden Christian Amadi, praised the NGO for funding his clan among the communities.

According to the Highness, my community is the only oil producing community in Emohua Local Government Area of Rivers State, adding that his community is feeding the local government area, the state and the nation.

“I thank my children over there in California for remembering the widows in my Kingdom for the food items they brought.

” I pray to God to help them to do also to other Ikwerre communities.

” I want to tell them also that Rumuekpe Kingdom is till undeveloped.

” As you can see the community is nothing to show to the people, I want to beg the Niger Delta Development Commission (NDDC) and the Rivers State government to come to our aid to develop our community. We are underdeveloped”

“God will bless my children over there in California”, His Royal Highness Amadi prayed.

In her words, the women leader of Rumuekpe community, Comfort Njoku, said that she was happy for the gift items given to them adding that it is not easy to remember the widows.

She explained that in Rumuekpe, the widows have not seen such a gift before and prayed that is only God that will reward them.

“I want to thank the Ogbakor Ikweree Community Association in California for giving us this items in this festival. We thank God for them and the leader of the group, Mrs Chukumati.

” What we received today we have not seen it in our community before for widows”, Mrs Njoku stated.

Meanwhile, in Rumuji community, His Royal Highness, Ohna Christian Okachineke Elechi, said that he lacked words to thank the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California for the gift to the widows in his communities.

According to him, today is historic in the history of Rumuji community that our children in oversea can remember us, I am very excited and happy over the items.

“I feel very very happy, it is good that our children recognize the widows in my community today.

” I did not know them before but now I know them, I pray to God Almighty to pay them back for their effort and that they will not lack.

“I pray God to continue to bless them in whatever things they are doing” he stated.

Earlier, the oldest woman in Rumuji community, Nletem Josiah, who spoke in her local language interpreted by the woman leader, Agor Leah Onugbom, thanked the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California for the gift adding that her husband died many years ago that has caused her hardship.

” In my age and these people come and give me these food items, is only God that will bless them for me.

” This Xmas I will eat and be happy so I want to thank them and that my God, God will bless them for me”, Mama Josiah said.

By: Kiadum Edookor