Opinion
Curbing Rape Incidences In Nigeria
I have no doubt that if 23-years-old Helen Okpara knew that her youth service year would leave her with an indelible sad memory, she would have sought for an exemption from the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) scheme.
But Miss Okpara’s love for the nation propelled her to embark on a one-year service to her fatherland, not knowing that the man in whose dormain she would carry out her primary assignment would abuse her human dignity.
Media reports have it that the young woman had alleged that a traditional ruler, Oba Adebukola Alli, the Alowa of Ihowa in Obokun Local Government Area of Osun State, who she rendered selfless services to in organizing computer training in the community raped her and bruised her private part.
Narrating her ordeal in a court recently, she said, “The monarch came over me and I started panicking and ran into a toilet where he started struggling with my clothes and pulled them off. He collected my clothes and said he was going to soak them in water. He came inside the room and switched off the light, he struggled with me on bed and that was how he raped me. I kept shouting, but the Oba told me that nobody would hear me. And after that I noticed that something was dropping from my private part.”
Although, there are many questions surrounding the circumstances of the alleged rape, it goes to show how many women in Nigeria, both young and old are daily being subjected to sexual abuse.
Rape used to be a matter that was hushed in whispers or rumours because it belonged to the realm of forbidden acts and was indeed uncommon. Even our folk tales are full of stories of how the gods visited any man who violated a woman through rape with incurable diseases or sometimes death.
What then is happening now? sRecent reports indicates that rape cases in the country have reached an alarming proportion.
Rape cases are featuring as a recurring decimal in public and private places, including even the ivory towers, insulated from menacing rapists. The reported case of serial raping of a student of Abia State University is still fresh in our minds.
A particularly horrible case was reported some months ago about the alleged raping of old women over the age of 70 years in Opi, Nsukka local government area of Enugu State, by young men. The shameful act went on for days, leading to a mass protest by women in the area.
To underscore the seriousness of the problem, prominent female indigenes of the state gathered hundreds of people at a prayer ground recently in Enugu to seek God’s forgiveness.
Of all rape cases, the most worrisome is the raping of innocent child by adults. Early this month, news had it that a nine-year-old girl was raped by a 25-years-old man in Lagos State. The culprit, Adeniyi, who works within the area where the girl’s school is situated allegedly hired her to his home after school hours and forcibly had carnal knowledge of her. A few weeks ago, another nine-years-old girl was allegedly raped by her class teacher.
Research showed that between 2008 and now, the Police in Kano State have dealt with over 60 cases of child rape and made over 60 related arrests.
The growing cases of rape can be considered as a consequence of parents’ neglect of their roles to their children. Many parents have abandoned their duties of impacting morality in their children. They are so busy with their material pursuit that they don’t know the kind of company their children keep. Some even close their eyes and ears to whatever their children do or say.
A preacher once attributed the rampant incidents of the criminal act to the attitude of parents towards sex. According to him, “some parents no longer consider sex as sacred. Sex is supposed to be a secret act but some parents, particularly living in very tight accommodation, make public show of the act even in the watchful eyes of their children.”
He cautioned that parents should know the right time and place to discuss sex or engage in the act in order not to corrupt their children’s minds, emphasizing that children copy what they see and not what you tell them.
Parents should also show more interest in the affairs of their children, know the company they keep, educate the girl-child on dangers of rape and places to go so that they are not caught up in the menace.
But even with the best sex education, much change cannot be achieved if our teenagers and young women continue in their reigning dress culture. A situation where they put on clothes that expose some parts of their bodies can be very dangerous. It takes only men who are totally in control of themselves to resist the temptation of wanting to have a taste of their bodies. Proper, decent, responsible dress sense is highly advocated if one must avoid the danger of rape.
The menace could also be curtailed if children stopped parading streets and communities in the name of selling pure water, oranges, minerals and many other commodities.
As the preacher advised, parents should occupy their children with sacred things – the Bible and religious books.
Some experts have blamed the rising cases of rape on lack of effective implementation of Nigerian laws against rape. Some say the entire evidential burden placed on victims makes it difficult for them to pursue the part of justice, hence, the law should be reviewed.
In a paper presentation recently, the wife of Ondo State Governor, Mrs. Olukemi Mimiko said, the laws against the menace should not remain only in the statute book, but be made more efficient and effective as a number of Nigerians know little about government laws on rape.
Criticizing the Nigerian government for what she called a lackluster response to rape cases, the Executive Director of the Woman Advocates Research and Documentation Centre, said “Nothing has been put into action. Our laws are still not clear. The woman who wants to report rape does not have the confidence in the justice system in Nigeria. There is a lot of imputing on the issue of rape and sexual violence in Nigeria.” She emphasized the need for immediate steps to create laws and institutions that protect women.
The legislature should act to stem the ugly incident by reviewing the law on rape to give more protection to victims.
Federal Government, State Ministries , and women groups should see the issue of rape as a challenge which they must face in order to restore the dignity of women in the land. They should take up these cases and offer all necessary assistance to the victims.
For the fight against rape to be won, parents, teachers, religions, institutions, non governmental organisations, the media, governments at all levels and everybody must rise up in condemnation of the social epidemic and take positive actions to curb the menace.
Calista Ezeaku
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