Opinion

Hunger Is No Excuse

Published

2 years ago

March 8, 2024

A consensus among analysts and many people who have voiced their concern on the spate of looting of warehouses and trucks conveying food and raw materials by suspected hoodlums in some parts of the country is that looting is a crime and hunger cannot be an excuse for anyone to engage in such a criminal act. Yes, the economy is biting harder by the day; arguably, President Bola Tinubu’s government has made some economic decisions that aggravated the harsh economic situation in the country but should that justify the stealing of food items from trucks in traffic as reportedly happened along Kaduna Road in Suleja, Niger State? Should that be a viable reason for the looting and vandalising of the warehouse belonging to the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) Department of Agriculture in Tasha, Abuja last Sunday morning?
A hungry man is an angry man, late Bob Marley sang, but hunger should not cloud our sense of reasoning not to consider the effect of our actions on ourselves, other people and the nation we call our own.
Reports have it that some of the trucks and warehouses being looted belong to private individuals. How then can we, in a bid to quench our hunger inflict pain on others? Already, the organised private sector has threatened to shut down their businesses and lay off workers should the looting of their wares continue. Who will suffer if that happens – Tinubu, ministers, law makers, governors? Nigerian masses, be reasonable. Nigeria is a nation of laws and it is expected that the fifteen suspects arrested over the Tasha incident will be dealt with in accordance with the law to serve as a deterrent to others. As a matter of fact, stemming the ugly trend of looting depends on how the law enforcement authorities handled this case. We cannot expect the country to grow when lawlessness among people in both high and low places is the order of the day.
The Minister for Works, David Umahi, a few days back, joined his boss, Tinubu and family to appeal for calm and patience in the face of the challenges currently facing the country, insisting that the present hunger affecting the country was caused by the past governments. Much as it steers anger hearing such words from a member of the same political party that has been in power for almost a decade, changing nothing, rather worsening the woes of the people, patience and hope are what Nigerians need now. Tinubu and his economic team have constantly assured Nigerians that there will be light at the end of the tunnel. Though many people do not believe that, going by the policy somersaults and lack of critical thinking displayed by the current government, there is hope for any glimpse of lightant time soon. But so long as Tinubu remains the president, we must have to wear our patience gabs and support the government as much as we can, to succeed. We must understand that we all have roles to play in making Nigeria better.
In the viral video clip of the looting at Tasha, a man was heard urging the people to loot the items because “na government property, our property”. This is the mentality that propels some citizens to misuse public facilities. We hardly see any reason to protect “government property” established for our use with taxpayers’ money. That certainly is not the way to go but it is surprising how we do not seem to learn from the past. During Covid-19 lockdown, warehouses were looted because the state governors failed to distribute the Covid-19 palliatives as and when due. Palliative items were donated by well-meaning individuals and groups and for many months these items were not distributed and the people under lockdown were dying of hunger. Some people sniffed out where these items were kept and the unfortunate nation-wide looting and plundering of government and private property followed.
Currently Nigerians are hungry. The purchasing power of the nation’s currency has been hampered by poor economic decisions of those in authority. In January, the inflation figures were reported to had reached 29.90 percent, no thanks to the irrational act of announcing an end to the payment of subsidy, the floating of the Naira, the increasing of the interest rate and other policies that have dealt a heavy blow on the nation’s economy, making life unbearable for many citizens. As a way of cushioning the effects of these economic realities, the president in January promised to release 42,000 metric tonnes of grains to Nigerians. One month later, the Presidency told the citizens that the distribution of the grains had not commenced due to the encumbrances involved in bagging of grains at strategic reserves. This is March, and the distribution is yet to take place? Haba!
One thinks that the government should be more prompt in responding to the needs of the people. The right actions need to be taken at the right time to forestall some of these embarrassing occurrences. It is also important that the authorities address the citizens regularly on the affairs of the nation. Let the people know what the government is doing, efforts being made to address the precarious situation in the country. The time of keeping the citizens in the dark should be over. Otherwise, they will get information from whatever sources and react in whichever way they deem fit. It is high time we had purposeful, sincere, transparent, accountable, people-oriented leadership at all levels in the country. We cannot continue with the age-long cosmetic approach to the problems of the country, especially poverty alleviation, job creation, education and youth engagement, if we do not want a more devastating rage of the poor in future.
A lot of people have called for a detour of the subsidy removal policy as that is the main reason for the present quagmire in the country. Energy security is something no nation jokes with. The International Energy Agencies (IEA) define energy security as “the uninterrupted availability of energy sources at an affordable price.” It plays a pivotal role in promoting economic stability, national security, job creation, environmental sustainability, and overall well-being of a nation. Policymakers and industry leaders all over the world often prioritise strategies that address energy security to build a robust and sustainable economic foundation. There is no doubt that all the people that pushed for fuel subsidy removal never knew how devastating the resultant effect could be. Now that everybody’s eyes are open and we are faced with the reality, the best thing to be done by President Tinubu is to reverse the decision and save the nation from crumbling. The nation’s refineries should be made functional. Is it not high time the government kept its promises of bringing the refineries back to life? What about improvement on electricity generation, available and affordable electricity?
For over two months now, many parts of the country, including the Federal Capital Territory, have experienced unstable power supply. All the food many families stored in their deep freezers have gone to waste because of lack of power supply and no money to buy petrol at the exorbitant price of N680,00 and above to fuel their generators. Apparently, there is nothing, no sector of the economy that will function well without adequate power supply at an affordable rate. Recently, a lot has been said on the need for many states to invest in mechanised agriculture as a way of solving the food crisis in the country. That is very laudable, but it still has to do with affordable and constant energy supply. The Governor of Borno State, Babagana Umara Zulum, recently announced his plan to provide petrol for farmers in the state at subsidised rates to enhance food security among residents. That is a man that understands the importance of affordable energy to the agricultural sector. Other governors should take a cue from him.Need I state that without sincere measures to deal with insecurity across the states to enable farmers to go back to their farms and carry on with their farming activities safely, that the food crisis in the country will not abate? Further delay may be very dangerous

Calista Ezeaku

Opinion

Beyond Physical Intimacy In Relationship

Published

3 weeks ago

June 17, 2026

The Tide

Quote:”Love is not sustained by sharing the same bed or displaying affection in public; it is preserved by the daily investment of trust, understanding, empathy, and meaningful conversations. Two people can be physically close yet emotionally distant, because lasting relationships are built not merely on intimacy, but on the consistent nurturing of hearts that remain genuinely connected.”

In an age where relationships are often measured by appearances, social media posts, and outward displays of affection, many couples are discovering a painful truth: physical closeness does not always translate into emotional connection. Two people can share the same bed, hold hands in public, and even maintain a seemingly happy home, yet remain strangers to each other’s deepest thoughts, fears, dreams, and struggles. This reality is captured in the thought-provoking message that emotional intimacy goes far beyond physical intimacy. While physical attraction may ignite a relationship, emotional connection is what sustains it. When emotional bonds weaken, relationships begin to suffer quietly, often long before any visible signs of trouble emerge.

One of the greatest misconceptions about love is the belief that affection alone is enough to keep a relationship healthy. In reality, genuine love requires much more than romantic gestures and physical presence. It requires understanding, communication, trust, empathy, and the willingness to be vulnerable with one another. Without these elements, couples may coexist rather than truly connect. Many relationships today are experiencing a silent crisis. Couples are spending more time together physically but less time engaging meaningfully. Busy schedules, work pressures, financial challenges, digital distractions, and personal ambitions have reduced many conversations to routine exchanges about bills, children, responsibilities, and daily survival. The deeper conversations that nurture emotional intimacy are gradually disappearing.

As a result, many partners feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. They may be present in the relationship physically, but emotionally they feel isolated. This emotional distance often creates frustration, resentment, and loneliness. Ironically, a person can feel more alone in a relationship lacking emotional connection than when they are physically alone. The danger of emotional disconnection is that it rarely announces itself loudly. Unlike dramatic conflicts or public scandals, it develops gradually. It starts when couples stop sharing their feelings openly. It grows when assumptions replace communication. It deepens when one partner feels consistently ignored, dismissed, or taken for granted. Over time, the relationship loses its warmth and vitality.This explains why some marriages and relationships that appear perfect from the outside eventually collapse unexpectedly.

Observers are often shocked because they only saw the physical togetherness, not the emotional distance that had been growing for years beneath the surface. Relationships do not usually break down overnight; they deteriorate through the accumulation of unresolved emotional gaps. Building emotional intimacy, therefore, requires deliberate effort. It is not a one-time achievement but a daily commitment. Emotional connection is built through consistent acts of attention, kindness, and understanding. It develops when partners genuinely listen to each other without judgment. It grows when people feel safe enough to express their fears, disappointments, and aspirations without fear of criticism or rejection. Trust plays a crucial role in this process. Emotional intimacy flourishes in an environment where honesty is valued and confidentiality is respected. When trust is broken, emotional walls quickly rise.

Rebuilding those walls requires patience, sincerity, and a willingness to heal together. Another important ingredient is empathy. Every individual wants to feel understood. Sometimes partners do not necessarily need solutions to their problems; they simply need someone who listens and acknowledges their feelings. A relationship becomes stronger when both individuals strive to understand each other’s perspectives rather than merely defend their own positions. Quality time is equally important. In a world dominated by smartphones and endless digital distractions, couples must intentionally create moments of genuine interaction. Simple activities such as sharing a meal, taking a walk, discussing personal goals, or praying together can strengthen emotional bonds significantly.

These moments communicate an important message: “You matter to me.” Respect also forms the foundation of emotional closeness. Partners who consistently speak respectfully to each other, even during disagreements, create a healthier environment for intimacy to thrive. Emotional connection cannot flourish where there is constant criticism, ridicule, or contempt. Perhaps the most important lesson is that emotional intimacy is not built by grand gestures alone. It is cultivated through small, consistent actions repeated over time. A thoughtful conversation, a sincere apology, a word of encouragement, or a genuine expression of appreciation can have a profound impact on the health of a relationship. Ultimately, the strength of any relationship lies not merely in physical proximity but in emotional accessibility. The question is not whether two people occupy the same space, but whether they truly know and understand each other.

Lasting love is sustained when hearts remain connected even amid life’s challenges. As society continues to grapple with increasing relationship difficulties, couples must remember that emotional intimacy is not optional; it is essential. Physical attraction may bring people together, but emotional connection keeps them together. It is built daily through communication, trust, empathy, respect, and intentional effort. When emotional intimacy is nurtured, relationships become more resilient, fulfilling, and meaningful. And when two hearts remain genuinely connected, love does not merely survive—it flourishes

By: Sylvia ThankGod-Amadi

Opinion

Yahoo Culture And Nigeria’s Moral Fabric

Published

3 weeks ago

June 17, 2026

The Tide

Quote “A society that celebrates wealth without questioning its source gradually breeds a generation that despises hard work, glorifies fraud, and ultimately destroys itself from within.”

Nigeria’s battle against insecurity is not limited to terrorism. Another destructive force—popularly known as “Yahoo”—has steadily eaten into the nation’s moral and social fabric. Internet fraud, which has become synonymous with “Yahoo” in local parlance, poses a grave threat to Nigeria’s image, economy, and future. The activities of internet fraudsters have tarnished the country’s reputation globally. As a result, many law-abiding Nigerians abroad or seeking legitimate opportunities overseas often face suspicion and discrimination because of the notoriety created by these criminal elements. Originally, Yahoo was merely the name of an internet search engine created in 1994 by Stanford graduates Jerry Yang and David Filo. In Nigeria, however, the term has evolved into a culture driven by greed and materialism. It has become a disturbing subculture with its own language and values.

Expressions such as “mugu fall, guy man chop” celebrate the exploitation of unsuspecting victims, portraying fraud as intelligence and deceit as success. Yahoo boys are notorious for flaunting their ill-gotten wealth. They parade expensive cars, spend lavishly, and often display arrogance towards elders and society. Their extravagant lifestyle has even been blamed for rising rents and increased cost of living in cities such as Port Harcourt. Following crackdowns in Delta and Edo states, there have been concerns over the growing presence of these elements in Rivers State. What is particularly disturbing is that many of these young men and women, some as young as teenagers, have no legitimate source of income yet live in luxury. Their actions have ruined businesses, impoverished victims, and in some cases pushed people into depression, heart attacks, and suicide.

Yet, they continue to operate openly with frightening confidence. The prevalence of Yahoo culture reflects the deep moral decay in society. Sadly, some families not only tolerate the illicit activities of their children but celebrate and pray for their success. Anyone who condemns the practice often becomes the target of abuse and ridicule. A Port Harcourt-based pastor once experienced fierce backlash from Yahoo sympathisers after speaking against the menace. Nigeria’s permissive environment has unintentionally allowed the practice to flourish. Weak institutions, compromised law enforcement, and families unwilling to question the source of sudden wealth among unemployed youths have all contributed to the problem. The virtues of patience, diligence, and integrity are steadily being replaced by greed and a desperate desire for quick riches.

Perhaps one of the greatest casualties of Yahoo culture is education. The value of years of hard work and academic excellence has been diminished. Many young people now dismiss formal education as a scam, while apprenticeship and vocational training are increasingly looked down upon. The obsession with easy money has encouraged school dropout rates and undermined the culture of honest enterprise. An even more disturbing dimension is the emergence of what many describe as “Yahoo Phase II”—a phenomenon associated with ritual practices and occult beliefs. Although stories surrounding these practices are often difficult to verify, reports of ritual killings, organ harvesting, and other horrific crimes have heightened public fears. Young people seeking wealth at all costs are said to subject themselves to bizarre and inhumane instructions from self-styled spiritualists, resulting in unimaginable tragedies.

Regardless of the myths and realities surrounding these claims, one fact remains undeniable: the pursuit of wealth without values has devastating consequences. Society is increasingly witnessing cases of substance abuse, mental instability, and mysterious deaths among youths whose lives are built on criminality and desperation. Nigeria cannot afford to remain indifferent while a generation is consumed by greed and moral bankruptcy. Combating Yahoo culture requires more than arrests and prosecutions. Families must instill values of honesty and hard work. Religious leaders, educators, and community leaders must consistently promote integrity. Government institutions must strengthen the rule of law and ensure that crime does not pay. Above all, society must stop celebrating wealth without questioning its source. No nation can attain sustainable development when fraud is admired, hard work is ridiculed, and criminality is rewarded.

The future of Nigeria depends on raising a generation that values character above riches and integrity above material possessions. If this dangerous culture is left unchecked, the consequences will be severe. But if the nation collectively chooses the path of morality, accountability, and industry, there remains hope that the tide can be reversed and the country’s dignity restored.

By; Confidence Adoo

Opinion

Good Health Through Socrates’ Prescription

Published

4 weeks ago

June 8, 2026

The Tide

Quote: “In an age of advanced medicine and endless health information, the greatest prescription may still be the oldest one: know yourself. True health begins when we understand our bodies, emotions, habits and choices.”

The 21st century has ushered in extraordinary progress in science, technology and medicine. Diseases that once claimed millions of lives can now be prevented or treated. Information is available instantly, while fitness applications, health trackers and modern healthcare facilities have become part of everyday life. Yet, despite these advances, many people continue to struggle with physical illnesses, emotional stress, anxiety, depression and lifestyle-related diseases. This contradiction raises an important question: Why are people becoming increasingly unhealthy in an age of remarkable medical advancement? Part of the answer may lie in the timeless wisdom associated with the ancient Greek philosopher Socrates: “Know thyself.” Though spoken more than two thousand years ago, these words remain profoundly relevant today. They remind us that genuine wellbeing begins with self-understanding.

Knowing oneself goes beyond knowing one’s name, occupation or social status. It involves understanding one’s body, emotions, habits, strengths, weaknesses and aspirations. It means recognizing how daily choices affect physical, mental and emotional health. In many respects, self-knowledge forms the foundation of healthy living. One of the greatest health challenges today is the tendency to ignore warning signs until serious problems emerge. Many people neglect symptoms such as persistent fatigue, poor sleep, chronic stress, unhealthy eating habits and lack of physical activity. Because they are disconnected from their bodies, they fail to recognize that their health is gradually deteriorating. A person who truly knows himself pays attention to these signals. Such an individual understands which foods nourish the body and which habits undermine health. They recognize when rest is necessary,

when stress levels become dangerous and when professional medical attention should be sought. Self-awareness encourages preventive action long before illness develops. The same principle applies to mental and emotional health. Modern life is filled with pressures. Social media often encourages unhealthy comparisons, while economic challenges, family responsibilities and workplace demands create enormous psychological burdens. Many people suffer silently because they have not learned to understand or manage their emotions. Knowing oneself means recognizing emotional triggers, vulnerabilities and sources of stress. It involves identifying feelings of anxiety, sadness, anger or frustration before they become overwhelming. Self-aware individuals are more likely to seek support, adopt healthy coping mechanisms and maintain emotional balance.

Self-knowledge also promotes discipline. Many of today’s health problems are linked to lifestyle choices. Excessive consumption of processed foods, alcohol abuse, smoking, substance misuse, physical inactivity and poor sleeping habits contribute significantly to disease burdens around the world. Most people are aware of these risks. The challenge is often not a lack of information but a lack of self-understanding. Individuals who understand their motivations, weaknesses and tendencies are better equipped to resist harmful habits and develop healthier routines. In this way, self-knowledge becomes a powerful tool for self-control. Socrates also taught that “the unexamined life is not worth living.” While philosophical in origin, this statement has practical implications for health. Examining one’s life encourages honest reflection. Are we eating wisely? Are we exercising enough?

Are we sleeping adequately? Are we managing stress effectively? Are we maintaining healthy relationships? These are not merely philosophical questions. They are essential components of a healthy lifestyle. Honest answers can reveal habits that require improvement and inspire positive change. Ironically, while technology has made health information more accessible, it has also made self-understanding more difficult. Many people spend hours following social media trends and public personalities while paying little attention to their own health. They know more about celebrities than they know about their blood pressure, sleep quality or emotional wellbeing. A healthier society will require more than modern hospitals and advanced medications. It will require citizens who actively seek to understand themselves. Preventive healthcare begins with personal awareness.

Parents, educators, religious leaders, healthcare professionals and policymakers all have important roles to play in promoting self-awareness. Young people should be taught not only academic subjects but also emotional intelligence, self-reflection, healthy lifestyle habits and personal responsibility. Ultimately, Socrates’ ancient wisdom remains as relevant today as it was centuries ago. A person who understands himself is more likely to make healthy decisions, maintain emotional stability, build resilience and seek help when necessary. The journey to good health does not begin in a hospital, pharmacy or gymnasium. It begins within. As the world continues to confront complex health challenges, perhaps the most powerful prescription requires no expensive technology or medication. It is the enduring wisdom that has stood the test of time: know yourself. In understanding ourselves, we discover one of the surest paths to healthier, happier and more meaningful lives.

By: Sylvia ThankGod-Amadi