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 Towards Curbing Girl-Child Challenges

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There is more to parenting than just providing the physiological needs of the Girl-Child.
The penultimate Tuesday, October 11, was the day the global community marked the Day of the Girl-Child. It was a time to reflect on the values, prospects, opportunities, challenges and the roles of Government, the family, churches, and other institutions of socialisation in protecting the rights and dignity of the Girl-Child.
Women organisations, Civil Society groups, Christian women groups, including the National Association of Women Journalists (NAWOJ), and International Federation of Female Lawyers (FIDA), used the event to harp on the need to protect and give the Girl-Child all the opportunities she deserved. It is pertinent to state that the Girl-Child is endangered. This reality makes it mandatory for parents, the Federal, State, Local Governments and   all caregivers to reflect on their roles in protecting the Girl-Child. To say the Girl-Child needs to be protected and saved from evil people and callous parents is to say the least. The New Age and Traditional media are replete with ugly scenes and reports of heartless abuses of this fragile group of humans.
No day passes without one assault or social vices meted on the Girl-child from Godless men. Sadly, abuses the Girl-child  incur come from some neighbours, blood relations, even church members in sheep clothing. The Girl Child is no doubt, the most vulnerable of the activities of evil men in society. Girls are now the target of ritualists now on prowl, extracting sensitive organs to achieve their mischievous and inordinate ambition. The female sex, because of her emotion-driven disposition gives in to lies and  is deceived so easily. We must collectively work to protect the Girl child from abuses at all fronts. The safety or security consciousness must be cultivated by the Girl-Child first. Girls should constantly remind themselves that there is tendency in wicked man to abuse her. Even when we depend on God for safety and security, we must do what we should and God will do what we cannot do for ourselves. The grace of security and safety God gives does not cover licentious, obscene and frivolous lifestyles.  Sometimes, what the Girl Child wears is enough to attract assault from a morally debased man. While dressing is cultural, thus relative and not an absolute, it behoves all girls and women to know that decency and modesty in dressing is an expression of godliness. Civilisation and Globalisation that show utter disregard or disrespect for morality or values is bestiality.  Covering our sensitive or private part is a way to attract dignity.
Covering is of essence in dressing. The Girl Child should be taught to dress properly, not to expose their sensitive parts to the public. When I see some girls in the streets in sloven and skimpy clothes that show areas that should be covered, I wonder where our society is heading to. It reveals the level of moral decadence and gross disregard for moral values. What is more disturbing is the fact that most girls who dress in shameless manner are dependants. And they wear such inglorious clothes from home under the watch of their parents who are supposed to censor what their Girl-Child wears.  Parents should teach their daughters how they should dress. However, this will not be possible or effective if parents don’t live out moral values. If a female  parent does not dress well she does not have the clout or boldness to tell the Girl-Child not to dress seductively because she is a bad example for the Girl-Child. Parents should show good example in dressing also for the younger ones to model.  A foremost world Evangelist and Missionary, Dwight L. Moody said for parents to train up their child in the way they should go, the parents “must be in the way themselves”. This is a truism because it is said that when the mother sheep shews its cud the young ones are watching. It is not what we say that matters but living out what we say.
If what we tell the child is not substantiated by practical life expression, it will be an exercise in futility and counter-productive. It is high time mothers who are at the frontline of the family socialisation responsibility, lived above board and seek to make positive impact on the Girl-child.  There is more to parenting than just providing the physiological needs of the Girl-Child. Modelling and inculcating descent dressing  in the Girl-Child should be seen as an integral and inextricable part of parenting. Feminine groups advocating for the protection and respect for the Girl-Child should also teach their members to dress decently. Campaigns for the welfare of the Girl-Child should not be media hype but practical and persuasive through exemplary appearance and dressing. Women who are married should have regard and respect for the sanctity of marriage and dress properly. Remember, the eye is the window of the soul. What the eye of a person sees it transmits to the mind which processes it saves it in the subconscious and it props up at will sometimes, involuntarily. It takes a God fearing person or rugged moralist to resist the seduction of a woman to sexual immorality. The appearance of some married women and girls presupposes a seduction and  immorality. This also lends support to the fact that people who are suppose to be care givers are failing in their responsibility. The family is the basic unit of society.  Families that do not have regard for value system will inevitably produce bad society because the family remains the primary agent of socialisation where children are taught cultural and moral values.
As we have  marked  the International Day of the Girl-Child, let parents put their feet down to ensure their daughters appear presentable before God and before level-headed men. The Girl-Child should be taught how to respect herself, that respect is earned and should resist every attempt to make them compromise their virginity. Parents should discourage the Girl-Child’s intimate relationship with bad and queer family members. Girl-Child should not be engaged in precarious and tempting economic activities, like hawking. Parents should not create a platform where the Girl Child becomes a money spinner or awkward income generator. Early and forced marriage should be discouraged even as such act violates the right and dignity of the Girl-Child. The church should not treat with levity the issues of sex perversion, especially involving the Girl-Child. Abuse of the Girl-Child should be considered as a grave offence. It is unfortunate that some Pastors have failed to be vanguard of moral values through their nonchalant and laissez-faire attitude to cases of flagrant immorality in their congregation. They should teach women how to dress and enforce a dress code for them. It beats my imagination seeing some women dress to church as though they were going to a social function or club. School administrators at the primary, secondary and tertiary levels should frown at and punish proven cases of abuse of the Girl-Child. Female students who dress indecently or in a seductive manner to lectures or in the campus should be sent home. We should be reminded that where our rights end that is where the right of another begins. Women should not abuse ‘Freedom”.   Men who violate  the Girl-Child should be made to face the full wrath of the law, when tried and found guilty by court of competent jurisdiction to deter others.

By: Igbiki Benibo

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Other Sides In Junior Pope’s Death

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The tragic boat mishap of Wednesday, April 10, 2024, which claimed the lives of popular Nollywood actor, Mr John Paul Obumneme Odonwodo, popularly known as Junior Pope, and four others, has sent shock-waves across the Nigerian movie industry, and set the social media buzzing with reactions.
A contingent of 12 movie crew members had set out for a boat journey from the River Niger Cable point, a waterside jetty at Asaba in Delta State, to cross to the other side of River Niger, into Anam, a riverine community in Anambra State, for the shooting of a movie set titled ‘Another side of Life’ produced by Adanma Luke. Unfortunately, a series of avoidable events culminated the journey into an ill-fated expedition that sent fives lives to ‘the other side of life.’ The incident made the movie’s eventual ban a nullity, having played-out its symbolic meanings in real life while in the making, rather than on envisaged screens.
An avoidable incident, it exposed our society’s casual attitudes towards marine and general safety, as well as our endemic superstitions, while telling, on several flaps, other side tales of reality in the accounts of what transpired during the production, or rather, play of Adanma’s ‘Another side of Life.’
While veteran actor and Senior Adviser on Military Relations to the President of Actors’ Guild of Nigeria, Mr Steve Eboh, claimed he missed joining the ill-fated boat because he arrived too early before the crew, and had to go back, the producer, Adanma Luke, claimed she missed it because she came too late.
A journey’s jolly take-off from Asaba, Delta state, which ended tragically in its return from the other side in Anambra State, proved to be a rascally journey that showed the other side of rascality, even as T. C. Okoye claimed that pre-performing of obeisance to some marine spirits saved his life. But it was T. C. Okoye who had to hang unto a boat’s anchor in the face of death, rather than rely on the powers of the spirits he had appeased with Fanta, to await rescue from mortal men – sensible men, whose advise that one needs wear life jack during marine journeys – he had forsook, yet gave glory to his rituals after rescue.
Conversely, one may flip the flap to consider the other side of T. C. Okoye’s rituals to ruminate on other possibilities. Could the ringing of bells, spraying of money and snacks, and pouring of Fanta, have evoked the anger of the ‘marine spirits’ as rumoured, or distracted the boat driver, to the point of accident? And as reported by The Punch, what’s the significance of T. C. Okoye ‘dashing’ ritual money to innocent children whom circumstance made to be by the riverside?
Also, the argument by Mr Steve Eboh, that “If the star actors in that boat had wanted to wear life jackets, they would have been given the jackets” holds no ground, because the guild, as well as all the marine transport stakeholders, should have enforced strict safety compliance by all voyagers. It is therefore commendable that the Anambra State Commissioner of Police, Aderemi Adeoye, has ordered exhaustive investigations into the matter to determine criminal liability of all persons involved.
However, in the melee of pandemonium that accompanied rescue efforts, Nollywood celebrities, our society’s supposed role models, prioritized superstitious rescusitation over sure medical practice, rushing victims between spiritualists and hospitals, until a ‘pope’ whose work and journey had bound with the superstitious, died amidst superstition. Indeed, it’s during crises, when people care less about ‘packaging,’ that truth and the real personality of humans stand bare and naked.
While medical personnel who got their chance late had certified Jnr Pope dead, our star-persons held unto their spiritual advisers who claimed his spirit coming back to life, up until reality finally dawned that pope’s spirit has permanently crossed to the other side of life.
Regrettably, the reality has not fully dawned, otherwise three corpses shouldn’t have been buried by the riverside as dictated by spiritualists, and Jnr Pope’s family shouldn’t be worried about what would happen, as rumoured threatened of his three children, if his corpse is not buried by the riverside. However, it appears that having encountered the influence of a frontline celebrity, the spirits have turned capricious by bending divinely demands to accepting two cows, as rumoured, in exchange for Jnr Pope’s corpse being buried elsewhere.
According to the Anambra State Police Public Relations Officer, SP Tochukwu Ikenga, a team of rescuers comprising men of the Anambra State Marine Police Command, the National Inland Waterways Authority (NIWA) and the Maritime Workers Union of Nigeria, with the aid of fisher men, rescued seven persons alive to the Anambra side, while two retrieved corpses were sent across the other side, to the Delta State Marine Police Command jetty where Nollywood officials stood waiting. Of other three victims, two corpses were rescued next day, while a third was thrown out by river tides, all of whom; Abigail Fredrick (Vice Chairman of Costumer Designers Guild of Nigeria, and Akwa-Ibom State-born make-up artist), Precious Oforum (Sound engineer) and Joseph Anointing (Gaffer), have since been buried by the riverside, according to local belief.
However, what the police PRO’s statement didn’t reveal is if Jnr Pope’s corpse was sent to the other side in Delta after all the back and forth between spiritualists and medical personnel within Anambra, or if it was sent straight upon rescue to Delta state, but mysteriously found its way back to Anam, on the Anambra side.
It’s unfortunate that Nollywood which set out in its early days to expose superstitious beliefs and practices in our societies, in the hopes of enlightening the minds of the masses, and to curb the manace, has made many believe it’s rather reinforcing superstition in the ways it condicts the movie industry business.
Members of the showbiz in general, now appear to be key protagonists of superstition to the point that, being perceived as role models, so many youths have been drawn to lives of unrealistic dreams and materialism, which often get pursued through ritualism, with its attendant crimes.
Joseph Nwankwo
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The Value Of Books And Reading

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The quality, quantity and diversity of books produced by a society are important indicators of that society’s level of development. . . .”–Valdehusa (1985).
April 23 of every year is marked around the world as ‘World Book and Copyright Day.’ Also known as ‘International Day of The Book,’ it is a Day set aside by the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organisation (UNESCO), to promote reading, publishing and copyright. The Day aims to change lives through a love of books and shared reading.  The theme for the 2024 ‘World Book Day’ is: “Read Your Way.” This year’s theme calls on everyone to let go of pressure and expectations, giving children a choice – and a chance to enjoy reading.
According to Audrey Azoulay, Director-General of UNESCO: “Books have the unique ability to entertain and to teach. They are at once a means of exploring realms beyond our personal experience through exposure to different authors, universes and cultures, and a means of accessing the deepest recesses of our inner selves.”  Therefore, the power of books should be leveraged to combat isolation, reinforce ties between people, and expand our horizons, while stimulating our minds and creativity. It is critical to take the time to read on our own, or with our children.
Did you know that The Bible stands out as the most widely translated and distributed book worldwide? Yes, the Bible is by far the most widely translated and distributed book! Its wisdom has reached and helped more people than any other book or publication. 96.5 percent of the world’s population has access to the Bible. The Bible is available (in whole or in part) in over 3,300 languages, and the estimated number of copies of the Bible produced is 5billion, far more than any other book in history.  Which other book(s) do you enjoy or have you enjoyed reading? As for me, one book I am currently enjoying reading is a 400 – 500 page healthcare handbook titled, Where there is no doctor, authored by David Werner. It is a very valuable healthcare handbook that I have found to be very very beneficial! In fact, this healthcare handbook has been fondly described by some as “the ‘Bible’ of health education,” and I strongly recommend that every family should have a copy of this book at home. Apart from this book, I also enjoy reading for pleasure children’s books, such as those I have found on booksmart.worldreader.org and www.africanstorybook.org. What about you? What books have you enjoyed or do you enjoy reading? Do you know about the book industry? There are three major sectors of the book industry. They are: publishers, booksellers and libraries.
Book publishing is channelled towards promoting learning and expanding knowledge.  In a strict sense, book publishing starts from the point of conceptualisation of the ideas for the book by the author, and ends at the very last stage – the end-user (the reader). The history of book publishing in Nigeria can be traced to the establishment of the very first publishing press in Calabar, in 1846, by Rev. Hope Waddel of the Presbyterian Church of Scotland Mission. The press was used to print Bible lessons and later arithmetic books for schools.
In 1854, another Missionary based in Abeokuta, Rev. Henry Townsend of the Church Missionary Society (CMS), established a Press. Five years later (1859), he used it to print the very first newspaper in Nigeria – ‘Iwe Irohin.’ Thereafter, notable Nigerians like Herbert Macaulay established the first indigenous newspaper in 1926, called Lagos Daily News. Also, in the same year, Daily Times made its debut.  In 1949, Oxford University Press (OUP) floated a sales outlet in Nigeria. This action attracted many foreign-based publishing firms to Nigeria, such as Macmillan, Longman and others. The first published book in Nigeria by OUP was released in 1963, when its local branch published ‘Ijala Ere Ode’, a Yoruba poetry genre by Oladiipo Yemitan. Aside from the foreign companies, many other home-based publishing houses were architected by indigenous entrepreneurs. The book publishing industry in Nigeria has continued to enjoy drastic growth ever since.
However, in the last few decades, the Nigerian indigenous book publishing industry has experienced a downturn due to numerous challenges facing the industry, including: book piracy, proliferation of unqualified author -.publishers, lack of capital, and inability to provide adequate numbers of high-quality books.
Other challenges include: poor reading culture, infrastructural decay, dearth of expertise, incessant rancour among the major stakeholders, and so forth.
Therefore, here are some suggestions for developing our book publishing industry in Nigeria: Stakeholders such as government, publishers, authors, regulators, booksellers, libraries, and readers should cooperate among themselves and contribute their quota immensely towards the development of a virile book publishing industry.  Private investors such as banks, finance houses and influential individuals should participate, especially in terms of massive capital injection.
Ighakpe writes in from FESTAC Town, Lagos.
 Daniel Ighakpe
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Let The Poor Breathe

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In  the history of our nation, only petroleum products have suffered more incessant increments in prices than electricity supply in all public products and services. Unfortunately, those are the two main things that impact mostly on our lives and national economy. While the increment in petroleum products’ prices is always attributed to the price of crude oil at the international market and the need to curb the scarcity by encouraging the supply, the increment in the electricity tariff has never had any justifiable reason and no service improvement afterwards. In fact, the electricity supply has gone far worse now that the tariff has gone up by over 300 percent. One of the underlying reasons for the planned electricity subsidy removal as unconsciously relayed by the Minister of Power on TVC News is the sabotage of the system by those collecting the subsidy money to maintain the assets. He said: “These are assets that we spend the country’s money on, and our brothers deliberately sabotage them. So, you can see that some people are hiding somewhere that do not want this sector to work”.
Just as the petroleum subsidy must go because the government is too impotent to handle the petroleum subsidy racketeers, the electricity subsidy has to also go at the expense of the poor masses and no one has been prosecuted for it.
When the oligarchs rob us blind, the poor masses are made to pay. The only tool that seems to be at the disposal of this government for the combat of economic challenges brought by the corruption of the political elites is to make the poor masses suffer deprivations.
No doubt, stopping the monkeys from the banana plantation is a Herculean task. But those with their thinking caps on will not need to destroy the banana plantation to ward off the monkeys. The Federal Government has taken several decisions in the last one year that are akin to milking the debilitated cow to feed the virile buffalo. The electricity tariff now has to go up to make more money for the oligarchs that sold our collective heritage to themselves and have been taking money from us for next-to-nothing service delivery.In order to win the supports of the poor masses of Nigeria, the tariff was classified and made to seem like it isn’t going to affect the poor, while the poor will invariably be the worse for it. Most of those on Band A electricity tariff, who are to be paying very exorbitantly for electricity are companies producing most of our consumables and utility items. With the high cost of electricity, the production cost will go high and consequently, the cost of the products.  By the time the effects of the new electricity tariffs take full manifestation, almost everything that can make life meaningful will be beyond the purchasing powers of most Nigerians.
I can not help but to wonder what exactly is left for us to benefit as citizens of this country. Nigeria is rapidly moving towards a capitalist nation, where everything is commercialised and profit at the expense of the citizens is the priority. Medicare and even public education are now being run for profit. The government goes about with the shenanigans of education for all, while it is making education unaffordable to most Nigerians. Even the students’ loan, as badly conceived as it is, is also with interest. Those who have been in power since our democratic dispensation belong to that generation of Nigerians that the nation had been very benevolent to. They were educated for free, got paid salaries as students and given jobs on a platter after graduation. This generation of people got everything from Nigeria and unfortunately have refused to give anything back. They have not only been ungrateful to Nigeria; they have also systematically run the country aground. What a waste of investment Nigeria has made in them! While some countries in this same Africa hardly experience power outage in a year, our own B and A category would at best experience four hours of power outage in a day. These are the ruins they have led our country to in 21st century.
The timing and manner that these anti-welfare policies were introduced are indicative of lack of concern for the citizens of this country. A lot of Nigerians have lost their lives in choking circumstances. Please, let the poor breathe! While trying to rebuild Nigeria, the poor masses should not be made to feel like the eggs in the preparation of omelette. It is very obvious that you do not care about how many eggs are broken, so long as you can have the  hen.

Abdulrasheed   Rabana

Rabana, is a public affairs analyst .

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