Opinion

The Death Of Osama Bin Laden

Published

15 years ago

May 20, 2011

The leader of the terrorist organisation, al Qaeda, Osama bin Laden, was killed by American Navy SEALs, a special armed forces team, in a hideout in Abbottabad in the night of Sunday, May 1, 2011. Abbotabad is located some few kilometers off the Pakistani capital, Islamabad, and a few kilometers east of the Pakistan-India border. That is almost 10 years after he was declared the most wanted terrorist by the United States of America, following a series of bomb attacks at different locations in the heart of America. Indeed, the search for Osama bin Laden started soon after the al Qaeda network and its leader claimed responsibility for the destruction of the World Trade Centre Twin Towers in New York on September 11, 2001.

It would be recalled that on September 11, 2001, about 3,000 people from different nationalities, most of them, Americans, perished in the United States of America’s most deadliest attacks ever by al Qaeda terrorists. According to reports, 19 suicide terrorists hijacked four domestic planes which took off from Boston, Massachusetts, at the same time, and slammed two of them at the World Trade Centre Twin Towers in the heart of Manhattan, New York, the business capital of the world. Each of the two buildings collapsed to what is now known as Ground Zero following the crash, and the fire which engulfed the entire edifices as an aftermath of the attacks. Adjoining buildings nearby were also razed by the inferno. The third plane crashed into the Pentagon Building, the most dreaded military complex in the world, and headquarters of the US Defence superstructure in the outskirts of Washington, DC on the border fringes with the State of Virginia. The Pentagon complex was partially destroyed. The fourth plane was forced by patriotic American citizens who saw the direction of the plane and have heard what befell New York and Washington, DC, to crash-land in a virgin field southeast of Pittsburg, in the State of Pennsylvania, en route to the White House, the official residence and offices of the US president in Washington, DC.

It should be noted that more than 50,00 people worked at the World Trade Centre and over 150,000 people visited the business centre of the world daily. The World Trade Centre had office accommodation for people from all sections of the world. It was a trade and investment centre for people from all parts of the world. Therefore, to think, plan and carry out the destruction of a place like that when people were there doing one business or the other, must be the work of Satan, the devil.

However, because of this dastardly act, the United States Government, under Republican President George W. Bush, declared war on terrorists, especially al Qaeda and the Taliban Government in Afghanistan, which gave them safe haven within the country’s territory to plan and execute acts of terrorism across the world. The US government also declared war against Saddam Hussein’s regime in Iraq, which openly supported al Qaeda’s action against America.

As an initial take-off, Bush had approved the sum of $40billion to execute the war on terrorists and cover the destruction caused by the attacks. In any case, since the declaration of the war, America has fought and dislodged the Taliban regime in Afghanistan believed to be harbouring al Qaeda. It also fought and dismantled the Saddam government in Iraq, which further accommodated elements of al Qaeda, and allegedly stockpiled weapons of mass destruction, even though this claim turned out to be false.

Nevertheless, announcing the death of the al Qaeda leader, US President Barack Obama, said, “tonight, I can report to the American people and the world, that the United States had conducted an operation that killed Osama bin Laden, the leader of al Qaeda, and a terrorist, who was responsible for the murder of thousands of innocent men, women, and children.” According to him, it is nearly 10 years ago that a bright September day was darkened by the worst attacks on the American people in their history. The president went further to stress that shortly after taking office, he had directed Leon Panetta, the director of Central Intelligence Agency (CIA) to make the killing or capture of Osama bin Laden the top priority of our war against al Qaeda, “even as we continued our broader efforts to disrupt, dismantle and defeat his network.”

In fact, since the 1989 bombings of US Embassy buildings in Nairobi, Kenya and Dar es Salaa, Tanzania, that killed hundreds of innocent citizens, the bombing of US Navy Cole warship off the Yemeni coast, the Bali club bombing in Indonesia, al Qaeda terrorists have made several attempts to kill innocent citizens of the world, particularly Americans and their western allies. For instance, in 2006, al Qaeda terrorists attempted to blow up 10 US-bound passenger planes from the United Kingdom’s Heathrow Airport. They were to do this with explosives smuggled in carry-on bags. The attempts disrupted flights between the two countries for several days, and threw citizens of the UK and America into panic.

Following these attempts, security was put on red alert in most of the nations of the world, including Nigeria. It will be remembered that in July 2005, terrorists attacked the London underground train network, and killed many innocent citizens, including Nigerians, who were travelling in it. Between then and 2009, several other attempts were made by al Qaeda terrorists to kill innocents people across the world. In Spain, another train attack by terrorists resulted in massive deaths of people. Another attack on a terminal wing at Heathrow caused severe damage to the airport’s infrastructure. Thousands of citizens affected by the various attacks of al Qaeda terrorists are yet to recover from the effects of such dastardly acts. Even as some of their wicked ploys succeeded, many others had failed. For instance, the Nigerian-born Muttalab attempt to bomb a US-bound plane was foiled, just as other plots to blow up planes, shopping malls, cafes, and other strategic locations, including train networks, city transport services, were nipped in the bud.

Meanwhile, methinks it is wise to praise President Barack Obama and his commandos for this huge and significant success. This serves to remind terrorists and other devilish minds plotting the destabilization of the established industrialized order that they would no longer have their way smoothly again. It is necessary for all peace-loving people of the world to say, “never again” shall we seat down and watch idle minds and terrorists bring down the world we have struggled for decades to build.

Indeed, the world needs peace. Perpetrators of evil in the world must be fished out and given adequate punishment. This is the right step to deal justly with those who do not want peace to rein in the world. I believe that if wicked people now roaming the streets and or hiding in obscure places, plotting and perfecting another range of attacks on innocent lives, are sniffed out from their hide outs and killed just like justice was meted out to Osama bin Laden last month, those thinking of indulging in such terrorist acts would realise that there is no hiding place for criminals.

Perhaps, the British statesman and philosopher, Edmund Burke (1729-1797) assertion sets the tone for those evil ones in our society, including al Qaeda, Boko Haram, militants, kidnappers, among others, who do not want us to sleep with our two eyes closed. According to him, evil men can only have their way if good men decide to do nothing about their evil deeds. Thus, as Barack Obama committed to achieving the extermination of Osama bin Laden and his cohorts, and has succeeded, other good men, including President Goodluck Jonathan should, therefore, be prepared to fight evil and satanic men wherever they may be. As for the death of Osama bin Laden, we see it as a good riddance to bad rubbish and public nuisance.

Dr Tolofari, distinguished fellow, Institute of Corporate Public Administration of Nigeria, resides in Port Harcourt.

Mann Tolofari

Opinion

Beyond Physical Intimacy In Relationship

Published

2 weeks ago

June 17, 2026

The Tide

Quote:”Love is not sustained by sharing the same bed or displaying affection in public; it is preserved by the daily investment of trust, understanding, empathy, and meaningful conversations. Two people can be physically close yet emotionally distant, because lasting relationships are built not merely on intimacy, but on the consistent nurturing of hearts that remain genuinely connected.”

In an age where relationships are often measured by appearances, social media posts, and outward displays of affection, many couples are discovering a painful truth: physical closeness does not always translate into emotional connection. Two people can share the same bed, hold hands in public, and even maintain a seemingly happy home, yet remain strangers to each other’s deepest thoughts, fears, dreams, and struggles. This reality is captured in the thought-provoking message that emotional intimacy goes far beyond physical intimacy. While physical attraction may ignite a relationship, emotional connection is what sustains it. When emotional bonds weaken, relationships begin to suffer quietly, often long before any visible signs of trouble emerge.

One of the greatest misconceptions about love is the belief that affection alone is enough to keep a relationship healthy. In reality, genuine love requires much more than romantic gestures and physical presence. It requires understanding, communication, trust, empathy, and the willingness to be vulnerable with one another. Without these elements, couples may coexist rather than truly connect. Many relationships today are experiencing a silent crisis. Couples are spending more time together physically but less time engaging meaningfully. Busy schedules, work pressures, financial challenges, digital distractions, and personal ambitions have reduced many conversations to routine exchanges about bills, children, responsibilities, and daily survival. The deeper conversations that nurture emotional intimacy are gradually disappearing.

As a result, many partners feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. They may be present in the relationship physically, but emotionally they feel isolated. This emotional distance often creates frustration, resentment, and loneliness. Ironically, a person can feel more alone in a relationship lacking emotional connection than when they are physically alone. The danger of emotional disconnection is that it rarely announces itself loudly. Unlike dramatic conflicts or public scandals, it develops gradually. It starts when couples stop sharing their feelings openly. It grows when assumptions replace communication. It deepens when one partner feels consistently ignored, dismissed, or taken for granted. Over time, the relationship loses its warmth and vitality.This explains why some marriages and relationships that appear perfect from the outside eventually collapse unexpectedly.

Observers are often shocked because they only saw the physical togetherness, not the emotional distance that had been growing for years beneath the surface. Relationships do not usually break down overnight; they deteriorate through the accumulation of unresolved emotional gaps. Building emotional intimacy, therefore, requires deliberate effort. It is not a one-time achievement but a daily commitment. Emotional connection is built through consistent acts of attention, kindness, and understanding. It develops when partners genuinely listen to each other without judgment. It grows when people feel safe enough to express their fears, disappointments, and aspirations without fear of criticism or rejection. Trust plays a crucial role in this process. Emotional intimacy flourishes in an environment where honesty is valued and confidentiality is respected. When trust is broken, emotional walls quickly rise.

Rebuilding those walls requires patience, sincerity, and a willingness to heal together. Another important ingredient is empathy. Every individual wants to feel understood. Sometimes partners do not necessarily need solutions to their problems; they simply need someone who listens and acknowledges their feelings. A relationship becomes stronger when both individuals strive to understand each other’s perspectives rather than merely defend their own positions. Quality time is equally important. In a world dominated by smartphones and endless digital distractions, couples must intentionally create moments of genuine interaction. Simple activities such as sharing a meal, taking a walk, discussing personal goals, or praying together can strengthen emotional bonds significantly.

These moments communicate an important message: “You matter to me.” Respect also forms the foundation of emotional closeness. Partners who consistently speak respectfully to each other, even during disagreements, create a healthier environment for intimacy to thrive. Emotional connection cannot flourish where there is constant criticism, ridicule, or contempt. Perhaps the most important lesson is that emotional intimacy is not built by grand gestures alone. It is cultivated through small, consistent actions repeated over time. A thoughtful conversation, a sincere apology, a word of encouragement, or a genuine expression of appreciation can have a profound impact on the health of a relationship. Ultimately, the strength of any relationship lies not merely in physical proximity but in emotional accessibility. The question is not whether two people occupy the same space, but whether they truly know and understand each other.

Lasting love is sustained when hearts remain connected even amid life’s challenges. As society continues to grapple with increasing relationship difficulties, couples must remember that emotional intimacy is not optional; it is essential. Physical attraction may bring people together, but emotional connection keeps them together. It is built daily through communication, trust, empathy, respect, and intentional effort. When emotional intimacy is nurtured, relationships become more resilient, fulfilling, and meaningful. And when two hearts remain genuinely connected, love does not merely survive—it flourishes

By: Sylvia ThankGod-Amadi

Opinion

Yahoo Culture And Nigeria’s Moral Fabric

Published

2 weeks ago

June 17, 2026

The Tide

Quote “A society that celebrates wealth without questioning its source gradually breeds a generation that despises hard work, glorifies fraud, and ultimately destroys itself from within.”

Nigeria’s battle against insecurity is not limited to terrorism. Another destructive force—popularly known as “Yahoo”—has steadily eaten into the nation’s moral and social fabric. Internet fraud, which has become synonymous with “Yahoo” in local parlance, poses a grave threat to Nigeria’s image, economy, and future. The activities of internet fraudsters have tarnished the country’s reputation globally. As a result, many law-abiding Nigerians abroad or seeking legitimate opportunities overseas often face suspicion and discrimination because of the notoriety created by these criminal elements. Originally, Yahoo was merely the name of an internet search engine created in 1994 by Stanford graduates Jerry Yang and David Filo. In Nigeria, however, the term has evolved into a culture driven by greed and materialism. It has become a disturbing subculture with its own language and values.

Expressions such as “mugu fall, guy man chop” celebrate the exploitation of unsuspecting victims, portraying fraud as intelligence and deceit as success. Yahoo boys are notorious for flaunting their ill-gotten wealth. They parade expensive cars, spend lavishly, and often display arrogance towards elders and society. Their extravagant lifestyle has even been blamed for rising rents and increased cost of living in cities such as Port Harcourt. Following crackdowns in Delta and Edo states, there have been concerns over the growing presence of these elements in Rivers State. What is particularly disturbing is that many of these young men and women, some as young as teenagers, have no legitimate source of income yet live in luxury. Their actions have ruined businesses, impoverished victims, and in some cases pushed people into depression, heart attacks, and suicide.

Yet, they continue to operate openly with frightening confidence. The prevalence of Yahoo culture reflects the deep moral decay in society. Sadly, some families not only tolerate the illicit activities of their children but celebrate and pray for their success. Anyone who condemns the practice often becomes the target of abuse and ridicule. A Port Harcourt-based pastor once experienced fierce backlash from Yahoo sympathisers after speaking against the menace. Nigeria’s permissive environment has unintentionally allowed the practice to flourish. Weak institutions, compromised law enforcement, and families unwilling to question the source of sudden wealth among unemployed youths have all contributed to the problem. The virtues of patience, diligence, and integrity are steadily being replaced by greed and a desperate desire for quick riches.

Perhaps one of the greatest casualties of Yahoo culture is education. The value of years of hard work and academic excellence has been diminished. Many young people now dismiss formal education as a scam, while apprenticeship and vocational training are increasingly looked down upon. The obsession with easy money has encouraged school dropout rates and undermined the culture of honest enterprise. An even more disturbing dimension is the emergence of what many describe as “Yahoo Phase II”—a phenomenon associated with ritual practices and occult beliefs. Although stories surrounding these practices are often difficult to verify, reports of ritual killings, organ harvesting, and other horrific crimes have heightened public fears. Young people seeking wealth at all costs are said to subject themselves to bizarre and inhumane instructions from self-styled spiritualists, resulting in unimaginable tragedies.

Regardless of the myths and realities surrounding these claims, one fact remains undeniable: the pursuit of wealth without values has devastating consequences. Society is increasingly witnessing cases of substance abuse, mental instability, and mysterious deaths among youths whose lives are built on criminality and desperation. Nigeria cannot afford to remain indifferent while a generation is consumed by greed and moral bankruptcy. Combating Yahoo culture requires more than arrests and prosecutions. Families must instill values of honesty and hard work. Religious leaders, educators, and community leaders must consistently promote integrity. Government institutions must strengthen the rule of law and ensure that crime does not pay. Above all, society must stop celebrating wealth without questioning its source. No nation can attain sustainable development when fraud is admired, hard work is ridiculed, and criminality is rewarded.

The future of Nigeria depends on raising a generation that values character above riches and integrity above material possessions. If this dangerous culture is left unchecked, the consequences will be severe. But if the nation collectively chooses the path of morality, accountability, and industry, there remains hope that the tide can be reversed and the country’s dignity restored.

By; Confidence Adoo

Opinion

Good Health Through Socrates’ Prescription

Published

3 weeks ago

June 8, 2026

The Tide

Quote: “In an age of advanced medicine and endless health information, the greatest prescription may still be the oldest one: know yourself. True health begins when we understand our bodies, emotions, habits and choices.”

The 21st century has ushered in extraordinary progress in science, technology and medicine. Diseases that once claimed millions of lives can now be prevented or treated. Information is available instantly, while fitness applications, health trackers and modern healthcare facilities have become part of everyday life. Yet, despite these advances, many people continue to struggle with physical illnesses, emotional stress, anxiety, depression and lifestyle-related diseases. This contradiction raises an important question: Why are people becoming increasingly unhealthy in an age of remarkable medical advancement? Part of the answer may lie in the timeless wisdom associated with the ancient Greek philosopher Socrates: “Know thyself.” Though spoken more than two thousand years ago, these words remain profoundly relevant today. They remind us that genuine wellbeing begins with self-understanding.

Knowing oneself goes beyond knowing one’s name, occupation or social status. It involves understanding one’s body, emotions, habits, strengths, weaknesses and aspirations. It means recognizing how daily choices affect physical, mental and emotional health. In many respects, self-knowledge forms the foundation of healthy living. One of the greatest health challenges today is the tendency to ignore warning signs until serious problems emerge. Many people neglect symptoms such as persistent fatigue, poor sleep, chronic stress, unhealthy eating habits and lack of physical activity. Because they are disconnected from their bodies, they fail to recognize that their health is gradually deteriorating. A person who truly knows himself pays attention to these signals. Such an individual understands which foods nourish the body and which habits undermine health. They recognize when rest is necessary,

when stress levels become dangerous and when professional medical attention should be sought. Self-awareness encourages preventive action long before illness develops. The same principle applies to mental and emotional health. Modern life is filled with pressures. Social media often encourages unhealthy comparisons, while economic challenges, family responsibilities and workplace demands create enormous psychological burdens. Many people suffer silently because they have not learned to understand or manage their emotions. Knowing oneself means recognizing emotional triggers, vulnerabilities and sources of stress. It involves identifying feelings of anxiety, sadness, anger or frustration before they become overwhelming. Self-aware individuals are more likely to seek support, adopt healthy coping mechanisms and maintain emotional balance.

Self-knowledge also promotes discipline. Many of today’s health problems are linked to lifestyle choices. Excessive consumption of processed foods, alcohol abuse, smoking, substance misuse, physical inactivity and poor sleeping habits contribute significantly to disease burdens around the world. Most people are aware of these risks. The challenge is often not a lack of information but a lack of self-understanding. Individuals who understand their motivations, weaknesses and tendencies are better equipped to resist harmful habits and develop healthier routines. In this way, self-knowledge becomes a powerful tool for self-control. Socrates also taught that “the unexamined life is not worth living.” While philosophical in origin, this statement has practical implications for health. Examining one’s life encourages honest reflection. Are we eating wisely? Are we exercising enough?

Are we sleeping adequately? Are we managing stress effectively? Are we maintaining healthy relationships? These are not merely philosophical questions. They are essential components of a healthy lifestyle. Honest answers can reveal habits that require improvement and inspire positive change. Ironically, while technology has made health information more accessible, it has also made self-understanding more difficult. Many people spend hours following social media trends and public personalities while paying little attention to their own health. They know more about celebrities than they know about their blood pressure, sleep quality or emotional wellbeing. A healthier society will require more than modern hospitals and advanced medications. It will require citizens who actively seek to understand themselves. Preventive healthcare begins with personal awareness.

Parents, educators, religious leaders, healthcare professionals and policymakers all have important roles to play in promoting self-awareness. Young people should be taught not only academic subjects but also emotional intelligence, self-reflection, healthy lifestyle habits and personal responsibility. Ultimately, Socrates’ ancient wisdom remains as relevant today as it was centuries ago. A person who understands himself is more likely to make healthy decisions, maintain emotional stability, build resilience and seek help when necessary. The journey to good health does not begin in a hospital, pharmacy or gymnasium. It begins within. As the world continues to confront complex health challenges, perhaps the most powerful prescription requires no expensive technology or medication. It is the enduring wisdom that has stood the test of time: know yourself. In understanding ourselves, we discover one of the surest paths to healthier, happier and more meaningful lives.

By: Sylvia ThankGod-Amadi