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Rivers Women Rise Against Gender Violence

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As activities geared up
around the globe to commemorate the 2014 International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women,
Tuesday,   the 25th day of November 2014, was quite remarkable here in the city of Port Harcourt. The Ministry of Women Affairs in Rivers State left no stone unturned to ensure that its advocacy and sensitization campaigns were taken to the grassroots.
This time, it rolled out its drum, not just to celebrate the International Day for the Elimination of  Violence against Women, but to mark the start of the 16 days of activism that will lead up to Human Rights Day on December 10, 2014.
The ministry used the occasion to call to mind the need to stop all forms of violence against women, considered to be the most widespread human rights abuses in all countries of the world.
In a street march, the Rivers State Ministry of Women Affairs created awareness, on the kinds of violence women face in the society, pointing out the need to put an end to it.
Of course, the women ministry is not alone in this course. Organizations such as: Gender and Development Advocacy (GADA), Nigeria Association of Women Journalists (NAWOJ), National Stability and Rehabilitation Programme (NSRP), Civil Rights Societies, Civic Based Organisations, Security agencies, media and many other non-governmental organizations are in partnership with the ministry to make real its agenda which is ultimately geared towards ensuring that the society puts a stop to the mindsets and customs that encourage, ignore or tolerate the global disgrace of violence against women and girls.
With the theme of the 2014 International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women, as: “From Peace In The Home, To Peace In The World: Let’s Challenge Militarism and End Gender-Based Violence Against Women and Girls,” the United Nations Secretary-General, Ban Ki-Moon, in his message to commemorate the day stressed that everyone has a responsibility to prevent and end violence against women and girls, starting by challenging the culture of discrimination that allows it to thrive. While calling on the world to shatter negative gender stereotype and attitudes, introduce and implement laws to prevent and end discrimination and exploitation and stand up to abusive behavior where ever it is sighted.
Ban Ki-Moon had earlier described, “sexual and gender-based violence as the most extreme form of the global and systemic inequality experienced by women and girls, stating that it knows no geographic, socio-economic or cultural boundaries.
He reiterated that one in three women worldwide suffers physical or sexual violence at some point in life, from rape and domestic violence to harassment at work and bullying on the internet.
It will be recalled that by resolution 54/134 of December 17,1999, the United Nations General Assembly designated November 25, as the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women and invited governments, international organizations and Non-Governmental Organisations (NGOs) to organize activities designed to raise public awareness of the problem on that day globally.
However, women activists have marked November 25 every year as a day against violence since 1981. This date came from the brutal assassination of 1960, of the three Mirabel Sisters, who were political activists in the Dominican Republic on orders of Dominican Ruler Rafael Trujillo (1930-1961).
Meanwhile, the commissioner for Women Affairs in Rivers State, Mrs Joeba West, has used the occasion of the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women as the subsequent 16 days activism campaign to call on stakeholders in the state to join the campaign on zero tolerance on gender-based violence.
Mrs Joeba West, who made this call during the solidarity march organised by her ministry in partnership with Gender And  Development Advocacy (GADA), Nigeria Association of Women Journalists (NAWOJ) and other organizations to commemorate the event, said the global theme for this year which is: From Peace In The Home, To Peace In The World: Let’s Challenge Militarism And End Gender-based Violence Against Women and Girls,” highlights the effect of violence against women and girls in the society.
The commissioner, who described violence as an anti-social behavior, which violates the right of people to peaceful co-existence, said the campaign would focus on relevant action to be taken to end gender-based violence and militarism, to ensure that women and girls enjoy freedom from fear of intimidation, harassment and exploitation at all levels.
According to the honourable commissioner, the ministry in its commitment to advocate agasisnt proliferation of small arms in cases of intimate partners violence, violence perpetrated by state actors and sexual violence during and after conflict among others would feature in the 16 days activism. The establishment and launching of a counseling and referral centre for victims of Gender-based violence at the ministry of women Affairs, media discussions, jingles and step-down campaign at the different localities.
Earlier, the Chairman of the Nigeria Association of Women Journalists in the state, Mrs Lilian Okonkwo, has called on all to ensure that girl-child education is encouraged to curb further exposure to sexual violence by virtue of their being used as hawking agents.
She called on relevant law enforcement agencies to ensure that cases of violence being reported are properly investigated and the perpetrators duly prosecuted.

 

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Group photgraph of the Nigeria Association of Women Journalsits (NAWOJ) in partnership with GADA, Peace and Security Network and Minsitry of Women Affairs, Rivers State in commemorating the International Day for the Elimiantion of violence Against women in Port Harcourt.

Group photgraph of the Nigeria Association of Women Journalsits (NAWOJ) in partnership with GADA, Peace and Security Network and Minsitry of Women Affairs, Rivers State in commemorating the International Day for the Elimiantion of violence Against women in Port Harcourt.

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Who Is A Classic Woman? 

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A classic woman is one  who has identified herself in terms of fashion, occupation  or the kind of business she does.
A woman can be classical in the way she entertains her audience in terms of music and movies.  You will discover that some female musicians are identified with the kind of music they sing.
A classical woman is one who always wants to appear trendy.
Generally, classical women are normally identified with the kind of things they are involved in.
There are ladies that want to be identified with wearing of shorts (short trousers) in the public. They use it to showcase their beauty. They want to be identified with such things as they see it as socialisation.
Some wear trousers that are so tight just to showcase all the curves they possess.
Consultant stylists and etiquette experts say some fashions won by some persons are inappropriate because of how and when they are won.
A classic woman is supposed to dress properly.   She should  be able to wear clothes  that will not expose hidden parts of her body. When such occurs,  then it is indecent dressing.
Ladies should be known for two things, classical and beauty.  One can be classic with minimisation.  The minimum woman should go is to look good, decent and presentable.
Some ladies like wearing short skirts but no matter  how short the skirt is,  it should look elegant. The skirt  should not be too short like the mini-skirt.
Dressing or fashion depends on the environment the persons finds herself.  The kind of clothes won to the office may be different from the one won at home. Likewise,  a dress won to a party may be different from the one won too swimming pool.
For one to look classical or decent, body shape should be taken into consideration.
Colours of a particular fashion can make one look odd or nice.  Looking model does not mean that one should go naked or dull.
Don’t wear clothes  that you need to drag from time to time in order not to expose yourself.
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Emohua Widows Receive Items From Ogbakor Ikwerre California

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A Non-Governmental Organization, (NGO) Ogbakor Ikwerre,California, DBA, Ikwerre Community Association, California, through it’s outreach projects has donated food items to over 300 Widows in Rumuekpe and Rumuji in Emohua Local Government Area of Rivers State.
Speaking during the handover of the items to the women leaders of the communities in Emohua, yesterday, the team leader of the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California, Dr Christiana Chukumati, said that the donation is an annual event that has  been on since 2014.
According to her, the NGO is donating the items among the four local government area of Ikwerre adding that this year is for widows in Rumuekpe and Rumuji communities.
“Today is Rumuekpe and Rumuji communities, next we are going to another Ikwerre local government area also.
” The NGO has been carrying on the activities since 2014 within the
Ikwerre communities”, Dr Chukumati said.
She thanked the Royal father of Rumuekpe, His Royal Highness, Golden Amb. Christian Amadi, Eze Chigu and the Royal Highness of Rumuji and Odegu Kingdom, Ohna Christian Okachineke Elechi Newe-Eli (the xv) for receiving them in their communities.
The team leader also promised the Royal Highness that whenever the NGO has any other items for the communities, she we do well to bring it to them.
Receiving the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California in Rumuekpe, His Royal Highness Golden Christian Amadi, praised the NGO for funding his clan among the communities.
According to the Highness, my community is the only oil producing community in Emohua Local Government Area of Rivers State, adding that his community is feeding the local government area, the state and the nation.
“I thank my children over there in California for remembering the widows in my Kingdom for the food items they brought.
” I pray to God to help them to do also to other Ikwerre communities.
” I want to tell them also that Rumuekpe Kingdom is till undeveloped.
” As you can see the community is nothing to show to the people, I want to beg the Niger Delta Development Commission (NDDC) and the Rivers State government to come to our aid to develop our community. We are underdeveloped”
“God will bless my children over there in California”,  His Royal Highness Amadi prayed.
In her words, the women leader of Rumuekpe community, Comfort Njoku, said that she was happy for the gift items given to them adding that it is not easy to remember the widows.
She explained that in Rumuekpe, the widows have not seen such a gift before and  prayed that is only God that will reward them.
“I want to thank the Ogbakor Ikweree Community Association in California for giving us this items in this festival. We thank God for them and the leader of the group,  Mrs Chukumati.
” What we received today we have not seen it in our community before for widows”, Mrs Njoku stated.
Meanwhile,  in Rumuji community, His Royal Highness, Ohna Christian Okachineke Elechi, said that he lacked words to thank the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California for the gift to the widows in his communities.
According to him, today is historic in the history of Rumuji community that our children in oversea can remember us, I am very excited and happy over the items.
“I feel very very happy, it is good that our children recognize the widows in my community today.
” I did not know them before but now I  know them, I pray to God Almighty to pay them back for their effort and that they will not lack.
“I pray God to continue to bless them in whatever things they are doing”  he stated.
Earlier, the oldest woman in Rumuji community,  Nletem Josiah, who spoke in her local language interpreted by the woman leader, Agor Leah Onugbom, thanked the Ogbakor Ikwerre Community Association in California for the gift adding that her husband died many years ago that has caused her hardship.
” In my age and these people come and give me these food items,  is only God that will bless them for me.
” This Xmas I will eat and be happy so I want to thank them and that my God, God will bless them for me”,  Mama Josiah said.
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When Rivers Women Pray

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Port Harcourt, the Rivers State capital went agog when women from all the local government areas of Rivers State came together for a prayer conference themed: “Women Converge 2025”.
The programme in it’s second series, which held at the Alfred Diette Spiff Civic Centre was put together by the Rivers Women Unite For Sim, a foundation that is nurtured by the women of Rivers State for prayers to God for the peaceful and smooth running of the state.
 Like a delegate conference, the  Civic centre was filled to the brim with women dressed in white attires.  They sang, danced and prayed to God for sustenance of peace in Rivers State while reaffirming their support for Governor Sim Fubara and his wife, Lady Valerie.
Women Converge With the sub-theme, “Women In An Evolving World”, explains the actions and strategies that the women use in fitting and succeeding in the digital and technical era that is very competitive.
During political rallies and campaigns, with their drummers, beautifully dressed, showcase their dancing steps to entertain audience.
In everything one does in the earthly world, prayers is key. Prayer, they say conquers. Women have been conquering many odds with prayers, and God answers whenever they pour out their minds concerning issues.
Of course, due to their nature, women have always been in the forefront of championing prayers, garnering supports for those in authority, taking care of their families as well as coping with their job careers.
Since the inception of the current administration, women have been relentless in ensuring that peace reigns in the Rivers state through prayers so 2025 edition of the Women Converge which is the second edition recorded huge success.
Speaking at the ceremony, the wife of the Rivers State Governor, Lady Valerie Fubara, commended Rivers women whose continuous prayers have impacted on the state and appreciated the support by the women to the Governor, Sir Siminalayi Fubara.
She described Rivers women as wonderful for the support both in prayers and solidarity to her family.
She described Women Converge 2025 as another milestone in an effort to shape the society for good and support for the sustenance of peace and development in Rivers State.
According to her, let me enjoin our women to remain prayerful because God is ever ready to answer our prayers. In all that we do, we must not forget the hand of God and seek him for direction and help.  You have always been steadfast and I urge you not to relent and together we will move our society forward.
Describing the theme, “Women Converge 2025, Women In An Evolving World”, as apt, she said it is a reflection of the very essence of actions and strategies that women adapt in navigating the new world order.
She said that despite the complexities of managing the home front and the constraints of economic realities, women had demonstrated formidable strength and resilience to confront the odds of life.
In her words, “This event underscores the resilience of our women to succeed no matter the odds, especially with absolute faith in God and determination for greater accomplishments”.
“Whether in the industry, business, agriculture, public service or even in politics, they have always shown strong determination to adapt and to accomplish like others”, she maintained.
A guest speaker at the event, the founder and medical director of  Save A Live medical centre, Dr. Okoye, told women to always take wise decisions in things concerning maternal and infant mortality.
The medical expert reiterated that women should not misunderstand the biblical idea of “you will deliver like the Hebrew women”.
He advised women to take  instructions from medical experts concerning pregnancy and child birth as those will go a long way in saving their lives and advised the women not to patronize quacks.
In a goodwill message, the former Commissioner for Environment, Prof. Roseline Konya,  expressed hope that the peace women have been praying for is already yielding positive result.
The President of Port Harcourt Chambers of Commerce, Industry, Mines and Agriculture, PHACCIMA, Dr. Chinyere Nwoga, spoke on the sustenance of peace in Rivers State as that will move the state to greater height.
Also speaking at the
Women Converge, Pastor Ene Secondus, enjoined women to continue to pray for peace and it’s sustenance in Rivers State.
One of the guest speakers, Pastor Eno Jerry Eze, during the intercessory prayers said women are the foundation of the society and explained that development of any society depends on the strength of womanhood.
The wife of the former Deputy Governor of Rivers State, Dr Christie Toby, a daughter of Rivers State, Ann Kio Briggs also graced the occasion.
Apart from the prayer session,  women from different local government areas showcased different kinds of food items in their various canopies and stands.
The Okrikans and in fact the Riverine extraction, in a food exhibition displayed fishes, crayfish, oporo (prawn), periwinkle( isam).
The women from Etche and Omuma decorated their tables with agricultural products like Garri, fufu, vegetables (okashi ala), plantain, bananas etc.
The Ekpeyes and Ogbas were not left out as they displayed their own food crops like fish, garri, fufu and the likes.
Women from Ikwerre and Emohua local government areas came with their food stuffs.
By: Eunice Choko-kayode
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