The International Day of the Girl-Child, IDG, observed annually on the 11th of October is a global platform to advocate for the full rights of girls. The day is used to create awareness that the girl-child is being relegated to the background in some quarters, hence, the need for urgent step to be taken so as to empower her through education and skills acquisition.
This has become important because when you train a girl, you train a nation.
The 2023 theme, Invest in Girl’s Pride, Digital Generation, Our Generation.
As the girl-child was celebrated all over the globe, stakeholders have called for gender equality policies for the girl child because factors such as underage marriage, lack of water and sanitation, insecurity, poverty, lack of sanitary materials, genital mutilation, among others affect their lives. The girl needs equal opportunity.
The Rivers State Chairman of the National Association of Women Journalists, NAWOJ, Mrs. Susan Nwikhana- Serekara, maintained that there is need for urgent intervention in the issues that affect the girls negatively.
The girl-child should be confident and realise that she is valuable bearing in mind that cultural and other hindrance cannot stop them from achieving her goals in life. The girls should not sell themselves and government should ensure that the girls are protected in schools and wherever they find themselves. Girls should support each other.
Reports have it that low percentage of the girls have access to secondary school education in Nigeria. Apart from efforts by parents, relevant authorities, NGOs especially the female folks should assist the girls in providing educational materials to enable compete favourably with their peers.
Equal opportunity for girls is important as it will serve them well. Socio cultural practices have been hampering their performances. The deserve quality education this 21st century.
Corruption is one of the problems affecting some of the provisions that should be for them. They are subjected to cruel practices in the name of religion and culture.
Nigeria adopted the resolution about gender inequality with optimism that the female gender can bring change to the globe. We are optimistic that the objectives will be realised.
Women and girls should not be looked at as weaker sex any more. Females should occupy the same space as their male counterpart.
Adolescent girls should be empowered. They should be allowed to put their minds on what they want to become in life. Parents should not put all their income on the boys but should share it between the girls and the boys. Since youths are leaders of tomorrow, girls too are involved.
The responsibility of cleaning the house should not be for the girls alone while the boys go about playing. Discrimination between the two should not be encouraged. In certain quarters, girls are not allowed to eat certain food thereby denying them some required nutrients.
One day, the girls will grow into womanhood.
We can say that the world has made tremendous impact in the lives of the girls. The world has been conscious about the lot of girls. They have been given some opportunities in terms of computer and they are doing well. But the stereotype still remains but it can be removed. They are being looked down on. If the women have to be allowed to explore, then it starts from the girl.
When girls enroll into some disciplines like Engineering and Surveying where you have greater number of boys, they are being seen as those who missed their ways. When a woman drives with little errors on the roads, you hear some comments like, no wonder is a woman. Soft and hard should go together.
As the world marks International Day of the Girl -Child, parents, guardians and care givers should know the whereabouts of the female children. Very often, you hear that a girl has been kidnapped on her way to school, market or church. Parent should invest in the girl child so that she will not get into prostitution.
Parents should help the girls achieve their dreams in life and not to discourage them in their chosen professions. Parents should not select careers for the girls. They can do well all professions provided there is a level playing ground. Days are gone when girls were impregnated by unknown persons thereby making them drop out of schools.
it is important to give the girl good upbringing that will make her useful in the society. Women teach and transfer good values to children. Women are groomers and trainers.
When you give birth to a girl child, you have to train her well. Do not feel that when you finish training her, she will get married to another man which will make her change her name.
The girl-child is faced with underage marriage, sexual abuse in work places and educational institutions. These have to be checked before it becomes late.
The world will be a better place if girls and women are allowed to showcase their potentials when they are treated equally. The world can still go further. A lot are still hidden. If there is any time to restore the dignity of the girl -child, it is now.
Culturally, the girl child is not valued as the male child. It is believed that when a couple give birth to a female child without males, there will tension in the family. For the man, some friends and relatives will advise him to go another wife. Sometimes some women will be threatened for not having male children in the homes.
When it comes to sharing of fathers property, the discrimination comes in. Even when some state governments have approved that women should partake in the share of their fathers property, some persons have refused to adhere to that.
Some of the reasons according to them is that if certain portion of land is allocated to the woman, she may not want to marry outside.

By: Eunice Choko -Kayode