Women

Joy, Love As Chituru, Tina Tie Nuptial Knots

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4 years ago

December 23, 2022

Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a culturally and often legally recognised union between a man and a woman called spouses. It is regulated by laws, rules, customs, beliefs and attitudes that prescribe the rights and duties of the partners and accord status to their offspring (if any).
Biblically, marriage is God’s creation and design, for one man and one woman together for a lifetime of joys and trials. In other words, marriage is not man-made; neither is it subject to human design. God is the author of marriage, meaning marriage was made in heaven.
According to Bible, the first marriage God ordained took place in the Garden of Eden, when God created a woman out of Adam’s rib and brought the woman to Adam, and both of them became one flesh (Genesis 2:22-23).
In Nigeria, three types of marriage are well recognised. These are traditional, court, and Church/Islamic marriages.
In obedience to God’s command, Miss Chituru Emeka Egbuchu, the daughter of the Deputy Registrar, Rivers State University (RSU), Mr Emeka ThankGod Egbuchu, solemnized her relationship with her heartthrob, Master Prince Chibuchi Nnokam, in Port Harcourt on Saturday December 10, 2022 in a cultural way.
Traditional marriage is one of the most colourful types of marriage that is well recognised and accorded respect in Nigeria. It showcases different cultures of the people to the admiration of audience.
Chituru’s own was not different as her traditional marriage reminded one of the age-long rich tradition of the Ikwerres in Rivers State. Through her attires and physical appearance, the Ikwerre tradition was promoted.
Like every other bride, Chituru could not hide her joy that she finally found her crown. She radiated joy, love and affection as she danced around the wedding arena with her heartthrob.
Chituru has this to say: “It’s just God that made this possible. It is a thing of joy and I am very happy today.
“At a certain stage in my life, what I was going after wasn’t it and God redirected me and showed me light and this is where I am today.
“My advice to the single girls out there is that they should hold unto God by remaining steadfast in their prayers.
“My message to my husband is that I am grateful to God that it is you that God gave to me as no else would have been better. You always understand me, you know the way that I want my things and you have corrected every wrong, both from the family and past relationships.
“I am really grateful from the bottom of my heart. I want you to know that I truly love you and I will continue to help you to be consistent in doing good.
“To the men out there, please nobody is bad. I could be bad in your own story and good in another person’s own. It all revolves around what you do to that your girl. So, please treat a girl nicely and I don’t think if you treat a girl in a nice way, she will be bad to you.
“It is not about the money, for me it’s about the gesture, be nice to a lady because you are supposed to treat her nicely”.
Chituru’s husband, Prince Chibuchi Nnokam, also radiated joy for finding his missing rib in Chituru. Also dressed in a traditional attire that befitted the occasion, he admonished single men who are searching for life partners not to dwell too much on the past life styles of their lovers.
He said, “Today is the happiest day of my life having my desired woman as my wife; I am most grateful to God Almighty for this day.
“My advice to those men out there that are very selective is that they should stop judging their girls based on their past relationships. If you are looking for a good wife, know that a good character is the beauty of a woman.
“What every man desires in life is to have peace in marriage and that is the peace I have found in my wife and I am just so happy.
“I want to also tell these men not to be judgemental about any woman. It is better that you give them a chance to explore their character and know who they are, but to me I believe that I have found what I wanted in a woman in my wife and that is based on my choice”.
Th father of the bride, Mr Emeka ThankGod Egbuchu, who also spoke to The Tide, expressed uncommon joy as he witnessed his daughter saying “I do” to her man.
Egbuchu who is the Deputy Registrar, RSU, said that he was happy to see his daughter getting married. He advised parents to bring up their children well to enable them see a day like this, adding that the most valuable thing in a woman is her good character.
According to him, “There are lots of women and men, who are ready and searching for who to marry, but it all depends on the character of the woman who is searching as all that a man wants in a woman is good character”,
He advised the couple to live together peacefully, love themselves, avoid third party intervention and keep their family together with the fear of God.
Similarly, a journalist with the Garden City FM in Port Harcourt, Miss Tina Amanda Stephen, tied the nuptial knot with her heartthrob, Ekere Chisom Collins. The nuptials took place at the Living Faith Church a.k.a Winners’ Chapel, off Owhorchukwu Street, Aker Road in Port Harcourt. It was an event that attracted members of the Nigeria Union of Journalists (NUJ) in Rivers State.
The Resident Pastor of the church, who officiated the wedding ceremony, Pastor Emmanuel Onilu, highlighted the importance of marriage.
Speaking on a topic: ‘The Good Of Marriage’, the pastor, quoting from the Bible – Ecclesiastes 4:11, Deuteronomy 28:2-20, and Proverb 18:22, said marriage is a good thing not bad, pleasurable and not a burden.
Onilu said: “Marriage brings out a better version of you. It brings you into a better life, it also adds to your possession, it does not subtract from you.
“Marriage brings help (Genesis 2:18), when you locate your God, God brings help to you in time of need”.
Tina, who could not hide her joy, told The Tide that her marriage to Chisom was ordained by God. She advised the singles who are looking for partners not to lose faith in God
“Do not be discouraged, keep praying and serving God and your right partner will come when you are least expected.
“To my husband, I promise to love and cherish you all the days of my life. Like the pastor already said, we will enjoy the good things of marriage because we will continue to serve God sincerely sticking ourselves to biblical teachings”, Tina stated.
On his part, Tina’s husband, Chisom, said: “God surprised me with a hard working wife, as such I would do all within me to make her happy.
“She has been my childhood friend, but never knew that a day like this would come for us to be husband and wife. She is very hard working, focused and determined. God surprised me by bringing her into my life.
“For those out there still searching, look inwards around you, your wife is not far from you”.

By: Susan Serekara-Nwikhana

Women

Nigerian Women And Dividends Of Democracy

Published

3 days ago

July 3, 2026

The Tide

Recently a gathering of women from all parts of Nigeria took place at Moshood Abiola National Stadium in Lagos geared towards advancing women’s empowerment.

It was tagged: “10 Million Women Empowerment Mega Rally 2026”. It was a historic event.

There was a full-capacity attendance at the rally, with not less than 100 participants from each of the 36 states of the federation, despite the significant logistical challenges and costs involved.

The theme was: “10 Million Women, One Movement, One Voice, One Goal,” and was described by stakeholders as an unprecedented gathering in Nigeria’s history. The event marked a strategic shift from symbolic participation to substantive empowerment and representation of women at all levels.

During that event, the First Lady and wife of the Governor of Rivers State, Her Excellency, Lady Valerie Fubara’s dedication to women’s empowerment was rooted in a clear vision: to strengthen women’s economic independence, educational advancement, and leadership capacity, ensuring that no woman was left behind.

Her consistent display of compassion, humility and service to humanity, particularly to women at the grassroots, has set a benchmark for first ladies across the country.

The rally stood as a testament to the power of collective female mobilization. She was described as a pillar of support for the advancement of peace, progress, and development among women.

The rally was to make a national impact and to have a strategic vision for Nigerian women.

In a keynote address at the rally, the National Convener of the 10 Million women empowerment mega rally initiative and Honourable Minister of Women Affairs, Hajia Imaam Sulaiman-Ibrahim, described the rally as a “defining moment”for Nigerian women and a transition from mere political participation to active leadership and influence.

The Minister outlined the initiative’s core objectives to include: Presentation of the Women’s Charter for National Development, to promote increased political and economic inclusion of women, Grassroots Integration Framework, to connect women’s groups across all 9,410 wards in Nigeria and tangible empowerment programmes, including the symbolic distribution of tricycles, hair dryers, and sewing machines to beneficiaries.

She reaffirmed the federal government’s commitment to placing economic resources directly in the hands of women through targeted interventions that create jobs, provide business support, and expand access to skills training.

The Minister also expressed appreciation to Nigeria’s First Lady, Senator Oluremi Tinubu, for her maternal leadership and unwavering support for the initiative, as well as to the wives of state governors whose contributions were instrumental to the programme’s success.

The 10 Million Women Empowerment Mega Rally 2026 signalled a new era where Nigerian women are not only participants in national development but active shapers of policy and progress.

That rally for me was not a mere one. I think that that rally may have been a kind of reminder to both the women and all stakeholders that women are prepared to get involved in politics when given the opportunity.

Such rally could also have served as an avenue to let the women know that they can.

During the former President Olusegun Obasanjo’s tenure, women were represented in governance. Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala was the coordinating minister and minister of Finance and later served as minister of foreign affairs, Dr. Obi Ezekwesili was minister of education. Late Dora Akunyili served as minister of information after serving as chair of National Agency for Food, Drugs Administration and Control (NAFDAC).

Boma Jack, a Rivers daughter, was the minister of culture and tourism under that administration.

Dr. Kema Chikwe was appointed minister of transport, minister of Aviation and Aerospace and later, National Women Leader of a political party, Peoples Democratic Party (PDP).

Rivers State has produced two powerful and qualified deputy governors, Dr. Ipalibo Harry-Banigo, who is currently representing Rivers South West Senatorial District. Another is Prof. Ngozi Nma Odu, the deputy governor of Rivers State.

Prior the 2015 electioneering period, the former First Lady of Nigeria, Dame Patience Jonathan, PhD, during each gathering of women would always go by their slogan: “Can we?” And women would say:”Yes we can”.

She championed the course of women attaining the 35% affirmative action. To a large extent, it was realistic. Women all over Nigeria were carried along in politics. Many states of the federation had female deputy governors.

There was a particular rally that brought women from every part of the country as they converged on Abuja. That rally had the likes of Prof Dora Akunyili of blessed memory, Josephine Aneni, just to mention but a few.

I remember when late Akunyili said:”if a man is the chairman of a local government, a woman should be the vice. If a man is a governor, the woman should be the deputy, and so on. Their message then was clear. They clamoured for creation of appointive and elective positions for women in Nigeria.

Of course women can. Those who at one time or the other were given opportunity to vie for elective positions and or appointed into positions of authority have done well.

Many women became deputy governors, vice chairmen, some were elected into state Houses of Assembly, House of Representatives and the Senate.

Nkeiruka Onyejocha represented Isuikwuato/Umunneochi Federal Constituency of Abia State in the House of Representatives and currently, Minister of State for Labour and Employment.

Uche Ekwunife was a member of House of Representatives and later represented and recently a Senator representing the people of Anambra Central Senatorial District.

Hon Blessing Onyeche Onuh was elected and is representing Otukpo/Ohimini Federal Constituency of Benue State in the House of Representatives.

Senator Natasha Apoti-Uduaghan, represents Kogi Central Senatorial District. Her performance in representing her people is second to none. In fact, what she has done is worthy of emulation.

These and many are interested in participating in politics despite the knocks they receive from their counterparts.

Some stakeholders have come to say that Nigerian women at this time in history deserve full inclusion in politics rather than agitation for special seats in the National Assembly.

During the Pan Niger Delta Forum (PANDEF) women conference that held in Yenagoa, recently, women from the Niger Delta region were asked to demand total freedom to participate in politics because they do not deserve to be treated as second-class citizens.

What happens in other countries of the world can also happen in Nigeria as regards women.

Reports have it that women in Britain do not have special seats in parliament as well as America. Their own system flows and recognises them, and women participate fully in politics. Nobody talks about special seats or women being under-privileged there. It can be done in Nigeria.

Nigerian women are very intelligent and are active in politics. They are also very active in their various professions. So, why are they asking for special seats?

Women across the world participate and become members of parliament, governors and presidents. Nigeria should not be an exception. The system should cover women.

As elections are coming next year, efforts to get more women integrated in politics in Nigeria should be intensified.

Bring in more women into governance either in the state executive, the state Houses of Assembly, House of Representatives and the Senate.

In previous elections, there were situations where about 10 women would contest in various positions in some states, be it states or national assembly, but less than five of them would emerge winners. Most of those positions are dominated by the males.

A lot of problems are hindering Nigerian women from full participation in politics. Some of the problems range from competition from the opposite gender since it is assumed that women are weaker in nature.

Sometimes, the problem is even coming from fellow women. Nigerian women need full support and encouragement from their folks.

Family pressure is also one of the problems affecting women from participating fully in politics.

The quest for women’s participation in politics clearly means that women’s education does not end in kitchen.

As Nigeria marks 27 years in her return to democracy, it should be noted that women’s involvement and contribution can never be overemphasized.

Eunice Choko-Kayode

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NAWOJ Seeks Partnership With Hotel Presidential On Summit

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3 days ago

July 3, 2026

The Tide

The National Summit Planning Committee of the Nigeria Association of Women Journalists, NAWOJ, Rivers State Chapter has paid a courtesy visit to the Management of Hotel Presidential, Port Harcourt, to seek partnership for its forthcoming National Summit scheduled for 28th to 30th October, 2026.

The visit, led by the Chairperson, Nigeria Association of Women Journalists (NAWOJ) Rivers State Chapter, Susan Lekara Nwinee and the Chairperson of the Planning Committee, Comrade Uchenda Bibian Okogbule, took place last Tuesday, at the Hotel Presidential, Port Harcourt.

In her address, Okogbule said NAWOJ, the women’s wing of the Nigeria Union of Journalists, NUJ, is the umbrella body for all female journalists in Nigeria and the largest platform of women in media in West Africa.

“We are Storytellers, Truth-seekers, and Nation-builders. In Rivers State, our women are on the frontlines – reporting conflict, amplifying women’s voices and holding power to account. This morning, we come to you with a vision and a request for partnership,” she stated.

She said the 3-day National Summit, themed, “Empowering Women: Breaking Barriers, Shaping Change and Achieving A Sustainable Future: The Joy of Truth”, is expected to host over 5,000 women journalists, corporate leaders, editors, media owners, policymakers, development partners, entrepreneurs, civil society actors, and international delegates* from across the 36 States of Nigeria and beyond.

According to the Committee chairperson, the summit will interrogate critical issues including breaking glass ceilings in newsrooms, shaping constructive narratives, and ensuring women’s voices are heard and acted upon for national sustainability.

Okogbule noted that Hotel Presidential was selected based on three considerations namely, legacy, capacity, and partnership.

Her words: “This Hotel is Port Harcourt’s first 5-star address. It is a symbol of Rivers pride, excellence, and hospitality. Our national delegates deserve an iconic venue that matches the weight of our theme. We believe in ‘Rivers Women Supporting Rivers Institutions.”

She maintained that the he committee is seeking a sustainable partnership with Hotel Presidential in two key areas: such as venue partnership: A concessionary rate or sponsorship of the main conference hall for the 3-day summit.

In return, she said Hotel Presidential would be branded as NAWOJ’s “Official Venue Partner” across all national platforms, banners, TV, radio, and press materials.

She said that NAWOJ was also seeking financial and kind support, support for delegate welfare, refreshments, branding, or accommodation for out-of-state speakers, with partners’ logos listed as “Champion of Women.”

Her words: “Over 5,000 influential women will sleep, eat, meet, and post from Hotel Presidential. They will return to Lagos, Abuja, Kano, Enugu, among others, with stories of your excellence”.

The Committee appealed to the Hotel Management to support the initiative, noting that the partnership would position Hotel Presidential as the “home of change” and reinforce its reputation for hosting landmark national events.

“We have come with respect. We have come with a plan and we have come with faith that Hotel Presidential will say yes to Rivers women, yes to truth, and yes to a sustainable future,” she concluded.

The visit had in attendance members of Hotel Presidential Management, members of NAWOJ, Rivers State Chapter, led by the Chapter Chairperson, Susan Lekara Nwinee.

A copy of the Summit’s budget estimation was submitted to the Management for consideration.

Responding, the Managing Director of the hotel Presidential, Rex Yaakpogoro, promised to partner with the association.

Women

Nigerian Women And Dividends Of Democracy

Published

3 weeks ago

June 12, 2026