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How Are The Mighty Fallen!

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It is similar to the case of the Biblical King Saul, who fell from his throne to disgrace because of simple disobedience to the law of God. So the hammer of the law fell on a Rear Admiral, Harry Arogundade of Nigerian Navy, who was made to know that the test of bravery does not consist of only in battles or the application of physical brute force in resolving problems.

  The High Court in Lagos ordered the Rear Admiral and four Naval ratings to pay Miss Uzoma Okere and her friend N100million as damages for assaulting them. The judge did not only displayed uncommon courage, but like prophet Nathan rebuked the war lord, describing him and four of his men as people who are not fit for a decent society. She described their behaviour as “barbaric” and unlawful and violation of Miss Okere fundamental human rights. “It is highly shameful and unimaginable that such could happen in this 21 century in a civilized society and democratic one. It should therefore be condemned in very strong language . “The Naval ratings have disgraced the uniform they wear as officers of the Nigerian Navy.

  They are therefore a disgrace to the whole nation. The re-branding gospel should therefore, be commenced with this group of officers.” The judge equally ordered the officers and the Navy to offer unreserved apology to the victims within one month of the judgment in four national newspapers. What was the offence of the pretty lady in her late twenty, you might be compelled to ask or her offence?

  Simply, not yielding way ‘on time’ for a convoy of vehicles conveying a Naval officer. Horse whipped and stripped almost naked, the shocking event was caught on video and instantly circulated around the world via the internet.

  This shocking event took place in November 2008, in Victoria Island, Lagos. According to Okere, she was brutalsied, beaten, pushed, pulled and dragged on the road and her Blouse pulled off her by one of the naval ratings, thereby exposing her nakedness from waist up, leaving her with only brassiere. I leave you to imagine the state of Miss Okere frustration after she was brutalized and dehumanized. And of course the joy on her face after the judgment. What would have given this lady the confidence to get up and fight for her right in a country plaqued with delay in dispensation of justice? In a country where a culture of openness and tolerance cannot be guaranteed? A country where it is possible to do the right action with wrong attitude.

  In a country where the common cliché is “you dare not challenge a man in uniform or the man with the gun.” No wonder, the Late Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe of blessed memory even said “it is a madman who would challenge a military man in uniform.” Time and again, unifiormed personnel have brutalized Nigerian citizens, higher and low. And they have got away with it. Remember Chief M.K.O Abiola’s ‘Mad Dog’ experience? That time they got away with it. Remember the late Fela Anikulopo experience, (the unknown soldier and the kalakuta Republic) in Lagos during the regime of then Head of State, General Olusegun Mathew Aremu Obasanjo; when the uniformed men were ordered to burn down the Kalakuta Republic, the residence of late Fela Anikulopo. The uniformed men got away with it after brutalizing the mother of Fela. Remember the horse whipped and stripped naked chief correspondent of Nigerian Observer, Minere Amakiri (now publisher of Beacon newspaper) based in Port Harcourt.

  The gory tales of those brutalized by uniformed men are too numerous to mention.

  The men in uniform did not get away this time with Miss Okere and that of Minere Amakiri because in the celebrated case of Amakiri, Hon. Justice Ambrose Alogoa of blessed memory order, Lt. Commander Alfred Diete-Spiff (now HRM, Amayanabo of Twon Brass) administration in old Rivers State to pay N10, 000 damage on each stroke of the horse whip on the bare body of Minere Amakiri. Students of Journalism with Press law as majors, took this celebrated case as reference point for their ‘Press Freedom projects’ in the late seventies and mid Eighties when our tertiary institutions have never suffered Structural Adjustment Programme (SAP). Know that those naval ratings and their boss who apparently, tacity approved their beastly action can never get away with this. Because the assault was well publicized as the story spawned several newspaper editorials, commentaries and protest. As for the rather shocking initial excuses offered by the naval propaganda stories, that Miss Okere jumped out of her car bare footed and attacked, unprovoked the six armed men, snatching their whips. What exactly were they thinking before putting out before the court that kind of bird-brained statements? I thought naval men should be seen on high sea with their navigational instrument to check illegal bunkering activities instead of fighting, Miss Okere with boxing gloves and horsewhips. They take literally the word ‘defend the territorial waters of the nation’, and use a harsh words on innocent civilians on the streets of our major cities. Perhaps in their attempt to right the wrong of our society. But can the rural men in uniform fight on the sea and at the same time fight the civilians on the land? Can the naval men in uniform or those in uniform from other arms of the military fight the war against indiscipline by acting like the devil? Better still, can the uniform men that brutalise civilians right the wrong of the society through forceful process? Previous incidents involving the sort of assault on Miss Okere and even killings by uniformed and armed personnel on unarmed, innocent citizens have, due to some misguided spirit de corps, gone unpunished and been allowed to die down after initial out cry. And that is the reason why the brutal molestation of unarmed innocent civilians continued unabated.

  This was why the Peoples’ Governor, Babatunde Fashola (SAN) and other well meaning Nigerians should be commended. Governor Fashola, it was reported personally directed the state’s office of the Public Defender to take over the case. The impression about the office of the defender that handled the case further restored the Peoples’ confidence in the judiciary. The lawyers in this Lagos State parastatal never asked Miss Okere for a kobo at any time. The judge deserves a national award. Justice Opeyemi Oke is a judge worthy of that name and office. She allowed herself like prophet Nathan to do the right thing, by bringing the mighty to fall before an ordinary rule of law instead of weapons of war!

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Agony In  Ivory Tower 

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Quote: A university that tolerates missing scripts, result manipulation and ‘sorting’ is not merely failing students—it is quietly destroying the moral foundation of education itself.”
The sad cases of missing scripts, compulsory Sorting, inputting of wrong results and other obnoxious practices in some public universities, leave much to be desired. One cannot imagine how a student will be compelled to suffer consequences of the flagrant negligence of a Head of Department, a lecturer, Department staff or an ICT staff.Many academic and non academic staff in several public universities seem to be performing far below standard, thus unproductive to the university system. The unacceptable cases of sorting, missing scripts, missing results, inputting of wrong grades to students, should not be mentioned in a university, not even in any academic community. This is because people who are employed to work in various positions should have cognate work experience and unquestionable competence. They should not be seen as  certificate welding illiterates but people who have been proven to be worthy in learning and character, diligent and competent to carry out assigned responsibilities with minimal or no supervision.
The university as a citadel of learning should boast of men of integrity, people  who are repositories of applied knowledge and competence to drive the much desired holistic development in a nation that functions on quality teaching and learning. A situation where a student having gone through the crucibles of learning and written a prescribed semester examination or class-based evaluation test, is told that his or her script is missing or that he or she did not participate in that academic exercise, or must sort to pass, is an unpardonable error and a height of callousness. In fact some lecturers and staff of Departments are using the seeming systemic defect (which is their architecture) as an opportunity to extort  students. Sometimes it is discovered much to students chagrin that the supposed missing script was later discovered when a ransom was paid.
Since a lecturer, or Head of Department has in their disposal both Yam and the knife and determines who takes what (if they wish to give without strings), students have no alternative but to submit to their importunate demands in order to graduate at record time.Such practices should be unheard of in an institution that should be a vanguard of moral and ethical values and conduct. What people learn in school constitute their behavioural patterns in the society. Where the school as an agency of socialisation cannot drive positive change first in its immediate environment, then the objective of education as a bedrock for the development of society, is inevitably compromised and counter-productive. The German Reformer, Dr. Martins Luther was quoted as saying, “I advise parents not to put their wards or children in any school where the Bible is not being used as a rule of life because such institutions will unnecessarily be corrupt”.
 Gleaning from Luther’s sentiment one can deduce that the lack of respect and regard for values as well as the absence of the fear of God is the greatest undoing of most public schools. Another major challenge is that lack of Information, Communication and Technology literacy or compliance on the part of some lecturers and heads of department, may have informed the decision to give students’ scripts to secretaries to compile and input students results thereby making the secretaries the determinants of students’ fate. It is not saying a new thing that some of the secretaries in the process of compiling results have inputted wrong results, omitted names or down graded some students or given unmerited grades to others.Society today is ICT-driven and ICT-literacy enhances efficiency, speed and a reasonable degree of accuracy if the person behind the computer is level headed, articulate, competent, alive to responsibilities and is aware that negligence on his or her part is not only tantamount to a disservice to the university but to the students who may not graduate at record time because of his or her (computer operator’s) gross ineptitude or carelessness.
The ICT era makes the carrying of hard copy of results obsolete as lecturers through the  Heads of Department  can log on to the central server of the Exams and Records (if any) or ICT unit and input students’ results directly. By so doing the incessant cases where result on spread sheet is different from the one published online, more often than not, caused by abject negligence, will be avoided. The process will also end the intermediary services of some staff in the universities’ Information, Communication and Technology Department which has become a money spinner-a lucrative source of income to many of them. In fact some ICT staff reserved the power to award grades to students depending on students’ degree of compliance to terms and conditions. They can dubiously make or unmake a student. The university community should be considered too lofty to have careless, negligent, immoral  and academic or professionally deficient people as academic or non-academic staff.
The Governing  Councils and Senates of universities should be proactive in addressing the menace of missing Script,  inputting of wrong results and sorting.  This is  necessary to end the slogan “Education is scam” so the system can produce quality students who are truly found worthy in learning and in character by operators who exemplify diligence, moral and ethical values. The much-needed reform must begin within the institutions themselves, because the future of any society is shaped in its classrooms.
By: Igbiki Benibo
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Strength of Emotional Equality

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Quote: “Love thrives not when one gives more, but when both give fully — not in competition, not in performance, but in partnership.”
In every healthy relationship, there exists an invisible balance. It is not measured in grand gestures, expensive gifts, or public displays of affection. It is measured in something quieter and far more significant: emotional equality. When couples stand on equal emotional grounds, love becomes less of a negotiation and more of a partnership. Emotional equality does not mean both individuals express love in identical ways. It does not require matching personalities or mirroring temperaments. Rather, it speaks to balance — a shared willingness to invest, to communicate, to be vulnerable, and to grow. It is the difference between two people walking side by side and one person constantly trying to catch up.
 In many relationships, imbalance begins subtly. One partner initiates most conversations. One apologizes more frequently. One carries the emotional labor — remembering important dates, managing conflicts, sensing tension, and attempting reconciliation. Over time, this uneven distribution of emotional effort breeds exhaustion. The partner who gives more begins to feel unseen. The one who gives less may grow comfortable in emotional passivity. Love, in such a space, starts to tilt — slowly at first, then significantly. Resentment can creep in quietly, disguising itself as patience. Silence may replace honest dialogue. What once felt effortless begins to feel heavy.
When couples stand on equal emotional grounds, responsibility is shared. Both people are accountable for the health of the relationship. If conflict arises, neither hides behind silence nor dominates through control. Instead, they engage. They listen. They speak honestly without weaponizing words. Equality creates safety — and safety strengthens intimacy. It allows both individuals to express needs without fear of ridicule or rejection. One of the most overlooked aspects of emotional equality is vulnerability. True connection requires courage. It demands that both partners risk being misunderstood. But when vulnerability is one-sided, it becomes exposure rather than intimacy. If one person consistently opens up while the other remains guarded, trust cannot fully deepen.
Equality ensures that emotional risks are mutual. Where one shares fears, the other shares too. Where one admits weakness, the other responds with openness rather than judgment. In such a space, authenticity flourishes. Another crucial element is validation. In emotionally balanced relationships, both partners feel heard. Their concerns are not dismissed as “overreactions.” Their feelings are not minimized or compared. When couples operate on equal emotional ground, they acknowledge each other’s experiences as legitimate. They may not always agree, but they always respect. Validation does not mean surrendering one’s viewpoint; it means recognizing that another’s emotional reality matters.
Equality also protects individuality. Contrary to popular belief, healthy love does not erase personal identity — it enhances it. When both partners are emotionally secure, they do not feel threatened by each other’s independence. Personal ambitions are encouraged, not resented. Friendships are respected, not restricted. Growth is celebrated, not feared. Standing on equal emotional grounds means neither person shrinks to accommodate the other. Instead, both expand, knowing the relationship is strong enough to hold their evolution. Power dynamics often expose emotional inequality. When one partner controls communication — appearing and disappearing unpredictably, withholding affection, or using silence as leverage — imbalance emerges.
 Emotional dominance weakens intimacy. It creates anxiety instead of assurance. But when couples share emotional power, there is consistency. There is clarity. There is no need to decode affection because it is offered freely and intentionally. It is important to understand that equality does not imply perfection. Couples will still disagree. They will face stress, miscommunication, and moments of frustration. However, when emotional footing is equal, conflict does not threaten the foundation. Instead, it becomes an opportunity for understanding. Both partners approach challenges as teammates rather than opponents. They choose resolution over ego and repair over pride.
Time often reveals whether emotional equality truly exists. In the early stages of love, intensity can disguise imbalance. Enthusiasm feels mutual. Effort appears equal. But as routine settles in and novelty fades, the structure of the relationship becomes clearer. Who still initiates? Who still invests? Who still shows up consistently? Sustainable love requires sustained balance. It is built not merely on attraction, but on deliberate reciprocity. Standing on equal emotional grounds requires intentionality. It demands honest conversations about needs and expectations. It requires both partners to examine their habits — whether they withdraw during tension, avoid accountability, or rely on the other to carry the emotional weight. Emotional maturity is not about avoiding conflict; it is about handling it responsibly and returning, again and again, to shared ground.
Perhaps the greatest benefit of emotional equality is peace. There is no constant anxiety about where one stands. No guessing games about commitment. No fear that affection may suddenly disappear. Instead, there is stability. There is reassurance. There is mutual effort. In a world where relationships often blur the lines between attention and commitment, equality offers clarity. It reminds us that love should not feel like competition or performance. It should feel like partnership. When couples stand on equal emotional grounds, they build something resilient. They build trust that does not fracture easily. They build respect that does not depend on mood. They build a connection rooted not only in passion but in balance. And in that balance, love finds its strength — not in who gives more, but in how both give fully.
By: Sylvia ThankGod-Amadi
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NDDC: Time To Illuminate Homes 

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Quote:“Twenty-five years on, the Niger Delta cannot celebrate illuminated streets while families sit in darkness. Development must begin inside the home — where children study, businesses grow, and lives are built — before it glows on the roadside.”
The Niger Delta Development Commission (NDDC) was established in 2000 with a clear and urgent mandate: to facilitate the rapid, even, and sustainable development of Nigeria’s oil-producing Niger Delta region. The creation of the Commission followed decades of agitation over environmental degradation, infrastructural neglect, and socio-economic marginalization in the region. Its core mandate included the development of roads, bridges, electricity, water supply, health facilities, education, housing, environmental remediation, and economic empowerment initiatives. At inception, expectations were high that the Commission would transform the Niger Delta into a model of regional development. Over the years, the NDDC has indeed implemented numerous projects across the nine Niger Delta states. Roads have been constructed and rehabilitated in several communities, easing transportation challenges.
Schools have been renovated, and new classroom blocks have been provided in underserved areas. Health centres have been built or upgraded, improving access to primary healthcare services. The Commission has also awarded scholarships to students, including foreign postgraduate scholarships, empowering thousands of youths academically.Skills acquisition and youth empowerment programmes have helped many young people gain vocational competencies.Through various interventions, the NDDC has contributed to job creation and local economic stimulation.Solar-powered street lighting projects have been widely implemented in urban and semi-urban communities. These streetlights have improved visibility at night and contributed to enhanced security in some areas. Markets, highways, and public spaces illuminated by solar lights have experienced extended business hours.
For these efforts, the Commission deserves acknowledgment and commendation. However, development must always align with foundational mandates and pressing grassroots realities. A growing concern among residents is that while streets are illuminated, many homes remain in darkness. Rural electrification and household power access remain inconsistent and inadequate across large parts of the region. In riverine and remote communities, families still rely on generators, kerosene lamps, or complete darkness after sunset. The irony of brightly lit streets juxtaposed with powerless homes cannot be ignored. Electricity at the household level directly impacts education, health, and small-scale enterprise. Students cannot effectively study at night without reliable indoor lighting.Families cannot preserve food or power essential appliances without stable electricity.
Micro and small businesses struggle to grow without dependable energy access. While street lighting enhances public aesthetics and security, it does not substitute for domestic electrification. The proverb “charity begins at home” is especially relevant in this context. True community development must first empower households before beautifying public spaces. The Commission’s original mandate emphasizes integrated and sustainable development, not isolated infrastructural gestures. Balanced development requires that energy interventions prioritize homes alongside streets. Solar technology presents a unique opportunity for decentralized household electrification in off-grid communities. Extending solar solutions to individual homes would have a transformative social impact. Home-based solar systems could power lights, fans, small appliances, and communication devices.
Such interventions would reduce poverty, improve living standards, and stimulate grassroots productivity. By broadening its energy focus, the Commission would better reflect the spirit of its founding legislation. This is not a call to abandon street lighting projects, which have their merits. Rather, it is an appeal for balance, inclusivity, and alignment with core developmental objectives. Strategic planning should ensure that rural electrification and household access form a central pillar of ongoing interventions. Community engagement and needs assessments can help determine priority areas for household solar deployment. Twenty-five years after its establishment, the NDDC stands at a reflective moment in its institutional journey. The people of the Niger Delta say: thank you for the efforts so far—but not very much—because true appreciation will come when development begins at home and radiates outward, not merely when streets shine while houses remain in darkness.
By: King Onunwor
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