Nollywood actress, Mercy Aigbe has criticised bloggers conducting interviews with members of the family of late gospel singer, Olayemi Bayonile Bolaji, popularly known as Toluwanisings, amid an ongoing dispute over his burial arrangements.
The actress condemned the interviews, accusing some bloggers of worsening tensions between the deceased singer’s widow and his family instead of allowing them to mourn in peace.
In a post shared on her Instagram page, Aigbe questioned the apparent lack of compassion surrounding the controversy.
“Have we lost our sense of humanity? What happened to compassion?” she asked.
She noted that the singer’s death had left behind a grieving wife and two young children who needed privacy and support during the difficult period.
According to her, turning the family’s disagreement into online content only adds to their distress.
“Must everything become content? Must every family disagreement become public entertainment?” she queried.
The actress urged those involved in covering the dispute to consider the emotional impact of their actions on the bereaved family.
“Whatever disagreements exist, can we allow this family some dignity and privacy to navigate their grief?” she added.
Aigbe further stressed that not every situation required public attention, calling on bloggers to exercise restraint.
“Not every situation needs a microphone. Not every conflict needs an audience. And not every tragedy should become an opportunity for engagement. Sometimes, the most humane thing you can do is put the camera down,” she said.
The Tide’s source reported that Toluwanisings died on October 14, 2026, after reportedly slumping in Ibadan, Oyo State.
His death has since generated public debate, with members of his family calling for an investigation into the circumstances surrounding it.

Nigerian comedian and actor, Ayo Makun, popularly known as AY, has apologised to fans following the disruption of his comedy show in Cardiff, United Kingdom, over an alleged payment dispute with the event organisers.
The comedian, in a statement shared on social media, said he and other performers travelled to the venue but could not deliver their performances as planned due to unresolved payment commitments.
The event tagged “AY Live: Single and Not Searching” reportedly suffered prolonged delays, leaving several attendees disappointed, with many leaving the venue before the show could proceed.
AY expressed regret over the incident, acknowledging that fans who paid to attend deserved better organisation and communication.
In his words, “the audience should not have been caught in the middle of a disagreement between the performers and the organisers”.
The comedian also called for a resolution that would address the concerns of affected ticket holders, including refunds.
AY’s apology comes amid growing calls for accountability from the organisers and clarity on the refund process for those who could not enjoy the show.

The death of Nigerian gospel singer, Olayemi Bayonile Bolaji, popularly known as Toluwanisings, has continued to generate controversy following allegations of hospital rejection, a reported family disagreement over his burial, and threats of legal action over claims linking other gospel artistes to his death.
The Tide’s Entertainment source reported that Toluwanisings died on October 14, after reportedly slumping at his residence in Ibadan, Oyo State. His personal assistant, Babadunni Olayemi, had claimed that efforts to save the singer involved taking him to between seven and eight hospitals, some of which allegedly failed to provide treatment.
However, the University College Hospital, UCH, Ibadan, said it had no official record showing that the singer was brought to the facility for treatment. The hospital also maintained that its services had resumed following the suspension of a warning strike by resident doctors.
The allegations have raised concerns about emergency healthcare delivery in Nigeria, particularly the challenges patients face when seeking urgent medical attention.
The controversy has also taken a legal turn, with gospel singers Tope Alabi, Ayobami Ajewole, popularly known as Woli Agba, and Olamide Oladimeji, also known as Dele Omo Woli, threatening legal action against individuals allegedly spreading claims linking them to the singer’s death.
Alabi’s lawyers issued a cease-and-desist notice demanding the removal of the disputed publications, a retraction and an apology. They described the allegations against their client as false and defamatory.
Similarly, Woli Agba and Dele Omo Woli, through their solicitors, warned social media users against originating or circulating unverified claims about their alleged involvement in the death.
Their legal representatives cautioned that individuals who repost or amplify defamatory allegations could also face legal consequences, depending on the circumstances.
Another development emerged following reports of a disagreement between the late singer’s father and widow over where he should be buried.
His father, Muniru Adekunle Olayemi, reportedly expressed a preference for burying his son in the house he built or taking his remains to Ikirun, Osun State, to be laid to rest beside his late mother.
According to the report, the widow preferred a cemetery or church burial. However, her full account of the disagreement was not included in the report.
Despite the growing controversies, the precise circumstances surrounding Toluwanisings’ death remain unclear, with no official medical cause publicly established in the reports reviewed.
The incident has renewed questions about emergency medical services in Nigeria, and prompted calls for better coordination among hospitals and greater accountability in the healthcare sector.
As the family prepares to lay the singer to rest, the hospital allegations, legal threats, and reported burial disagreement continue to attract public attention.