Opinion
Child Upbringing: School And Parental Role
The family can be defined as a group of people related by blood, marriage, or adoption who live together and cooperate to maintain relationships. The family is the smallest unit that reflects the essential qualities of a society. A child’s first experience in socialisation occurs within the family, where he learns to share, participate in group activities, and be active in life. Therefore, it is no surprise that research has shown that the attitudes and behaviours of a family directly affect their ability to raise children successfully. When a child starts school, they enter a whole new world. This new environment- with its teachers, classmates, and other educational professionals- signals the start of an important relationship between home and school: the parent-teacher relationship. It is the first place a child learns about loyalty, respect, and love for others. The society comprises members of various cultures and backgrounds living together in an organised community. Families play an essential role in raising children by providing them with values, skills, and knowledge to help them succeed socially and emotionally.
Parents are responsible for teaching their children right from wrong by setting boundaries that will guide them throughout life. They also provide support to help their children build confidence and resilience during difficult times. Families also significantly influence their child’s educational success by providing an environment that allows for exploration, inquiry, and learning. The relationship between family and school is one of the most critical factors in a student’s education. The parents, teachers, and other members of the school community work together to ensure students received the best possible academic and social education. Communication between home and school is key to this relationship: families need to feel comfortable sharing information about their children’s development, while teachers must trust that families will support the academic goals they set for their children. Teachers are key point in this relationship.
For family-school relationships to be effective, the teacher must act as a critical point between the two. This means that teachers must foster an atmosphere of trust and provide clear communication about their strategies for helping students achieve success in school. It is also essential for teachers to consider individual family situations and encourage parents to participate in their child’s education by attending meetings, providing feedback, and participating in school events. When families and teachers come together with open communication, mutual understanding, and support from both sides, it helps create strong relationships between home and school. By communicating regularly with one another, families can stay informed about their child’s progress at school, while teachers can learn more about how best to meet their students’ needs.
Sharing information about student’s progress and avoiding prejudice to ensure families and teachers are both on the same page, it is essential to share information about a student’s progress with each other without any judgment or prejudice. Teachers can work collaboratively with parents to help their children succeed in school by providing accurate feedback and understanding both sides of the situation. A successful parent-teacher relationship is essential for helping a student reach academic goals Here are some tips for creating a positive and rewarding learning environment: Regular Meetings and Conversations with Parents/Guardians Parents should be encouraged to attend school events and meetings, such as parent-teacher conferences. These opportunities allow for open communication between home and school that can help foster a positive relationship. Teachers should also take the initiative to reach out to families to share information about their child’s progress or discuss any concerns they may have.
When teachers and parents work together to set goals and objectives for student success, it allows them to have an active role in their child’s education. This can help create a sense of shared responsibility between the two parties, which is essential for building strong bonds of trust and understanding. Parents and teachers should also strive to involve one another in the educational process as much as possible. This means having open discussions about student progress, providing feedback on course materials and assignments, and discussing classroom activities that could benefit their children. By working together on these issues, parents and teachers can create a strong bond of trust with one another that will help foster a thriving learning environment for students. To foster an environment of mutual respect and understanding, families and teachers should strive to engage in respectful conversations at all times.
This means listening carefully to what each other has to say, avoiding assumptions or judgment, and considering the other person’s point of view before making decisions. By creating a positive atmosphere, parents and teachers can support students in their education while still maintaining solid relationships with one another. Successful parent-teacher relationships are essential for helping students reach their educational goals. This can be achieved through open communication, mutual understanding, and support from both sides. Parents should be encouraged to participate in their child’s education by attending meetings, providing feedback, and participating in school events. In contrast, teachers should take the initiative to reach out to families and share information about student progress. Additionally, setting goals and objectives together is a great way to create a shared responsibility between home and school.
Parent-teacher relationships play a vital role when it comes to student success. By working together, parents and teachers can create an encouraging learning environment where students feel supported and motivated to reach their goals. Again, they both have unique perspectives that can give valuable insight into how best to facilitate student progress. With the right approach and attitude, these relationships can benefit everyone involved. Building parent-teacher solid relationships is essential for helping students achieve their educational goals. This requires open communication, mutual understanding between both sides, and respect for one another’s points of view. With the right approach, parents and teachers can work together to create a positive learning environment that will benefit all involved. By working together and creating an atmosphere of trust and understanding between the two parties, successful parent-teacher relationships are achievable that will help students reach their potential in education.
By establishing these connections, parents and teachers can become powerful partners in assisting students in achieving their goals. In addition, solid relationships between families and schools provide an invaluable support system to help students grow academically, socially, and emotionally as they embark on adulthood. As such, teachers need to recognise how vital these connections are to foster meaningful partnerships with parents – thereby creating an environment where everyone involved can thrive. In fact, if the society wants children to reach their full potential, families, and schools must work together for the greater good. Through strong collaboration, the school can help ensure that every child had access to a high-quality education that will set them up for success in all aspects of life.
Kiikpoye Inabo
Inabo is an educational sociologist and public analyst.
Opinion
Restoring Order, Delivering Good Governance
The political atmosphere in Rivers State has been anything but calm in 2025. Yet, a rare moment of unity was witnessed on Saturday, June 28, when Governor Siminalayi Fubara and Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Chief Nyesom Wike, appeared side by side at the funeral of Elder Temple Omezurike Onuoha, Wike’s late uncle. What could have passed for a routine condolence visit evolved into a significant political statement—a symbolic show of reconciliation in a state bruised by deep political strife.
The funeral, attended by dignitaries from across the nation, was more than a moment of shared grief. It became the public reflection of a private peace accord reached earlier at the Presidential Villa in Abuja. There, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu brought together Governor Fubara, Minister Wike, the suspended Speaker of the Rivers State House of Assembly, Martin Amaewhule, and other lawmakers to chart a new path forward.
For Rivers people, that truce is a beacon of hope. But they are not content with photo opportunities and promises. What they demand now is the immediate lifting of the state of emergency declared in March 2025, and the unconditional reinstatement of Governor Fubara, Deputy Governor Dr. Ngozi Odu, and all suspended lawmakers. They insist on the restoration of their democratic mandate.
President Tinubu’s decision to suspend the entire structure of Rivers State’s elected leadership and appoint a sole administrator was a drastic response to a deepening political crisis. While it may have prevented a complete breakdown in governance, it also robbed the people of their voice. That silence must now end.
The administrator, retired naval chief Ibok-Ette Ibas, has managed a caretaker role. But Rivers State cannot thrive under unelected stewardship. Democracy must return—not partially, not symbolically, but fully. President Tinubu has to ensure that the people’s will, expressed through the ballot, is restored in word and deed.
Governor Fubara, who will complete his six-month suspension by September, was elected to serve the people of Rivers, not to be sidelined by political intrigues. His return should not be ceremonial. It should come with the full powers and authority vested in him by the constitution and the mandate of Rivers citizens.
The people’s frustration is understandable. At the heart of the political crisis was a power tussle between loyalists of Fubara and those of Wike. Institutions, particularly the State House of Assembly, became battlegrounds. Attempts were made to impeach Fubara. The situation deteriorated into a full-blown crisis, and governance was nearly brought to its knees.
But the tide must now turn. With the Senate’s approval of a record ?1.485 trillion budget for Rivers State for 2025, a new opportunity has emerged. This budget is not just a fiscal document—it is a blueprint for transformation, allocating ?1.077 trillion for capital projects alone. Yet, without the governor’s reinstatement, its execution remains in doubt.
It is Governor Fubara, and only him, who possesses the people’s mandate to execute this ambitious budget. It is time for him to return to duty with vigor, responsibility, and a renewed sense of urgency. The people expect delivery—on roads, hospitals, schools, and job creation.
Rivers civil servants, recovering from neglect and under appreciation, should also continue to be a top priority. Fubara should continue to ensure timely payment of salaries, address pension issues, and create a more effective, motivated public workforce. This is how governance becomes real in people’s lives.
The “Rivers First” mantra with which Fubara campaigned is now being tested. That slogan should become policy. It must inform every appointment, every contract, every budget decision, and every reform. It must reflect the needs and aspirations of the ordinary Rivers person—not political patrons or vested interests.
Beyond infrastructure and administration, political healing is essential. Governor Fubara and Minister Wike must go beyond temporary peace. They should actively unite their camps and followers to form one strong political family. The future of Rivers cannot be built on division.
Political appointments, both at the Federal and State levels, must reflect a spirit of fairness, tolerance, and inclusivity. The days of political vendettas and exclusive lists must end. Every ethnic group, every gender, and every generation must feel included in the new Rivers project.
Rivers is too diverse to be governed by one faction. Lasting peace can only be built on concessions, maturity, and equity. The people are watching to see if the peace deal will lead to deeper understanding or simply paper over cracks in an already fragile political arrangement.
Wike, now a national figure as Minister of the FCT, has a responsibility to rise above the local fray and support the development of Rivers State. His influence should bring federal attention and investment to the state, not political interference or division.
Likewise, Fubara should lead with restraint, humility, and a focus on service delivery. His return should not be marked by revenge or political purges but by inclusive leadership that welcomes even former adversaries into the process of rebuilding the state.
“The people are no longer interested in power struggles. They want light in their streets, drugs in their hospitals, teachers in their classrooms, and jobs for their children. The politics of ego and entitlement have to give way to governance with purpose.
The appearance of both leaders at the funeral was a glimpse of what unity could look like. That moment should now evolve into a movement-one that prioritizes Rivers State over every personal ambition. Let it be the beginning of true reconciliation and progress.
As September draws near, the Federal government should act decisively to end the state of emergency and reinstate all suspended officials. Rivers State must return to constitutional order and normal democratic processes. This is the minimum requirement of good governance.
The crisis in Rivers has dragged on for too long. The truce is a step forward, but much more is needed. Reinstating Governor Fubara, implementing the ?1.485 trillion budget, and uniting political factions are now the urgent tasks ahead. Rivers people have suffered enough. It is time to restore leadership, rebuild trust, and finally put Rivers first.
By: Amieyeofori Ibim
Amieyeofori Ibim is former Editor of The Tide Newspapers, political analyst and public affairs commentator
Opinion
Checking Herdsmen Rampage
Do the Fulani herdsmen have an expansionists agenda, like their progenitor, Uthman Dan Fodio? Why are they everywhere even the remotest part of other areas in Nigeria harassing, maiming, raping and killing the owners of the land?”
In a swift reaction, The Movement for the Survival of the Ogoni People (MOSOP) decried and strongly condemned the invasion by suspected Fulani herdsmen.
In his denunciation, MOSOP President Fegalo Nsuke described the incident as very unfortunate and deeply troubling, warning against a recurrence of the violence experienced in Benue State. “The killing of yesterday is bad and very unfortunate. We are getting preliminary information about how the herders gained access to the farmland, and it appears some hoodlums may be collecting money and granting access illegally.”
He called on the Hausa community in Rivers State to intervene swiftly to prevent further attacks.
“We want the Hausa community in Rivers State to take urgent action to ensure these issues are resolved”.
But will such appeal and requests end the violent disposition of the Fulani herdsmen? It is not saying something new that the escalating threat and breach of peace across the country by the Fulani herdsmen or those suspected to be Fulani herdsmen, leaves much to be desired in a country that is bedevilled by multi-dimensional challenges and hydra-headed problems.
Some upland Local Government Areas of Rivers State, such as Etche, Omuma, Emohua, Ikwerre, Oyigbo, Abua, Ogba/Egbema/Ndoni, have severally recounted their ordeals, as herdsmen invaded farmlands, destroyed crops, raped female farmers and killed protestant residents.
Again the wanton destruction of lives and properties which no doubt has overwhelmed the Nigerian Police, makes the clamour for State Police, indispensable. The National Assembly should consider the amendment of the Constitution to allow States to have their Statutory policing agencies.
Opinion
Is Nigeria Democratic Nation?
As insurgency has risen to an all time high in the country were killings has now grown to be a normal daily activity in some part of the nation it may not be safe to say that Nigeria still practices democracy.
Several massacres coming from the Boko Haram and the herdsmen amongst all other insurgencies which have led to the destruction of homes and killing, burning of communities especially in the northern part of the country. All these put together are result of the ethnic battles that are fought between the tribes of Nigeria and this can be witnessed in Benue State where herders and farmers have been in constant clashes for ages. They have experienced nothing but casualties and unrest.
In the month of June 13-14, the Yelwata attack at the Guma Local Government Area by suspected gunmen or herdsmen who stormed the houses of innocent IDPs (Internally Displaced Persons) claiming the lives of families, both adults and children estimated to be 200 victims. They were all burnt alive by these unknown gunmen.
This has been recorded as one of the deadliest insurgencies that had happened in recent years. Some security personnel that were trying to fight the unknown gunmen also lost their lives.
Prior to the Yelewata attack, two days before the happening, similar conflict took place in Makurdi on June 11, 2025. 25 people were killed in the State. Even in Plateau State and the Southern Kaduna an attack also took place in the month of June.
All other states that make up the Middle Belt have been experiencing the farmers/herders clash for years now and it has persisted up till recent times, claiming lives of families and children, homes and lands, escalating in 2025 with coordinated assaults.
Various authorities and other villagers who fled for safety also blamed the herdsmen in the State for the attack that happened in Yelwata community.
Ehebha God’stime is an Intern with The Tide.
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