Opinion
Towards Curbing Girl-Child Challenges
There is more to parenting than just providing the physiological needs of the Girl-Child.
The penultimate Tuesday, October 11, was the day the global community marked the Day of the Girl-Child. It was a time to reflect on the values, prospects, opportunities, challenges and the roles of Government, the family, churches, and other institutions of socialisation in protecting the rights and dignity of the Girl-Child.
Women organisations, Civil Society groups, Christian women groups, including the National Association of Women Journalists (NAWOJ), and International Federation of Female Lawyers (FIDA), used the event to harp on the need to protect and give the Girl-Child all the opportunities she deserved. It is pertinent to state that the Girl-Child is endangered. This reality makes it mandatory for parents, the Federal, State, Local Governments and all caregivers to reflect on their roles in protecting the Girl-Child. To say the Girl-Child needs to be protected and saved from evil people and callous parents is to say the least. The New Age and Traditional media are replete with ugly scenes and reports of heartless abuses of this fragile group of humans.
No day passes without one assault or social vices meted on the Girl-child from Godless men. Sadly, abuses the Girl-child incur come from some neighbours, blood relations, even church members in sheep clothing. The Girl Child is no doubt, the most vulnerable of the activities of evil men in society. Girls are now the target of ritualists now on prowl, extracting sensitive organs to achieve their mischievous and inordinate ambition. The female sex, because of her emotion-driven disposition gives in to lies and is deceived so easily. We must collectively work to protect the Girl child from abuses at all fronts. The safety or security consciousness must be cultivated by the Girl-Child first. Girls should constantly remind themselves that there is tendency in wicked man to abuse her. Even when we depend on God for safety and security, we must do what we should and God will do what we cannot do for ourselves. The grace of security and safety God gives does not cover licentious, obscene and frivolous lifestyles. Sometimes, what the Girl Child wears is enough to attract assault from a morally debased man. While dressing is cultural, thus relative and not an absolute, it behoves all girls and women to know that decency and modesty in dressing is an expression of godliness. Civilisation and Globalisation that show utter disregard or disrespect for morality or values is bestiality. Covering our sensitive or private part is a way to attract dignity.
Covering is of essence in dressing. The Girl Child should be taught to dress properly, not to expose their sensitive parts to the public. When I see some girls in the streets in sloven and skimpy clothes that show areas that should be covered, I wonder where our society is heading to. It reveals the level of moral decadence and gross disregard for moral values. What is more disturbing is the fact that most girls who dress in shameless manner are dependants. And they wear such inglorious clothes from home under the watch of their parents who are supposed to censor what their Girl-Child wears. Parents should teach their daughters how they should dress. However, this will not be possible or effective if parents don’t live out moral values. If a female parent does not dress well she does not have the clout or boldness to tell the Girl-Child not to dress seductively because she is a bad example for the Girl-Child. Parents should show good example in dressing also for the younger ones to model. A foremost world Evangelist and Missionary, Dwight L. Moody said for parents to train up their child in the way they should go, the parents “must be in the way themselves”. This is a truism because it is said that when the mother sheep shews its cud the young ones are watching. It is not what we say that matters but living out what we say.
If what we tell the child is not substantiated by practical life expression, it will be an exercise in futility and counter-productive. It is high time mothers who are at the frontline of the family socialisation responsibility, lived above board and seek to make positive impact on the Girl-child. There is more to parenting than just providing the physiological needs of the Girl-Child. Modelling and inculcating descent dressing in the Girl-Child should be seen as an integral and inextricable part of parenting. Feminine groups advocating for the protection and respect for the Girl-Child should also teach their members to dress decently. Campaigns for the welfare of the Girl-Child should not be media hype but practical and persuasive through exemplary appearance and dressing. Women who are married should have regard and respect for the sanctity of marriage and dress properly. Remember, the eye is the window of the soul. What the eye of a person sees it transmits to the mind which processes it saves it in the subconscious and it props up at will sometimes, involuntarily. It takes a God fearing person or rugged moralist to resist the seduction of a woman to sexual immorality. The appearance of some married women and girls presupposes a seduction and immorality. This also lends support to the fact that people who are suppose to be care givers are failing in their responsibility. The family is the basic unit of society. Families that do not have regard for value system will inevitably produce bad society because the family remains the primary agent of socialisation where children are taught cultural and moral values.
As we have marked the International Day of the Girl-Child, let parents put their feet down to ensure their daughters appear presentable before God and before level-headed men. The Girl-Child should be taught how to respect herself, that respect is earned and should resist every attempt to make them compromise their virginity. Parents should discourage the Girl-Child’s intimate relationship with bad and queer family members. Girl-Child should not be engaged in precarious and tempting economic activities, like hawking. Parents should not create a platform where the Girl Child becomes a money spinner or awkward income generator. Early and forced marriage should be discouraged even as such act violates the right and dignity of the Girl-Child. The church should not treat with levity the issues of sex perversion, especially involving the Girl-Child. Abuse of the Girl-Child should be considered as a grave offence. It is unfortunate that some Pastors have failed to be vanguard of moral values through their nonchalant and laissez-faire attitude to cases of flagrant immorality in their congregation. They should teach women how to dress and enforce a dress code for them. It beats my imagination seeing some women dress to church as though they were going to a social function or club. School administrators at the primary, secondary and tertiary levels should frown at and punish proven cases of abuse of the Girl-Child. Female students who dress indecently or in a seductive manner to lectures or in the campus should be sent home. We should be reminded that where our rights end that is where the right of another begins. Women should not abuse ‘Freedom”. Men who violate the Girl-Child should be made to face the full wrath of the law, when tried and found guilty by court of competent jurisdiction to deter others.
By: Igbiki Benibo
Opinion
FG’s Transport Support And Rivers Workers
The Federal Government’s approval of a N70,000 monthly transport intervention for public service workers for six months, beginning in November 2026, offers hope to employees struggling with the rising cost of living. The agreement with the Nigeria Labour Congress (NLC), reached at a conciliation meeting in Abuja on October 27, is intended to cushion transport costs and ease pressure on workers’ incomes. But for public servants in Rivers State, it raises a familiar question: will the State Government key into the intervention and ensure that its workers benefit? The agreement provides for N70,000 monthly across all levels, for six months. The Federal Government also approved peculiar allowance arrears effective from May 1, 2026, to be paid in three equal instalments beginning in November.
The parties agreed to reconvene after one month to assess implementation. Ultimately, the value of these resolutions will be measured not by announcements but by whether eligible workers receive the money. Transport costs consume a substantial share of many civil servants’ earnings before they can meet household needs. Support for commuting is therefore not a luxury or political favour; it is temporary assistance to help workers remain at their jobs without sinking further into hardship. For lower-paid employees, transport costs can turn modest salaries into a daily exercise in difficult choices and sacrifice.
The agreement also urges State and Local Governments to participate and unions to press for implementation. The federal agreement does not automatically guarantee that every State and Local Government employee will receive the support. State authorities must clarify how it will apply to their workforce, make the necessary arrangements and publish a payment timetable. Rivers State must approach the arrangement with urgency and transparency. The Government should State whether it will implement the intervention and when payments will begin. Any administrative or financial question should be addressed promptly with organised labour, not allowed to become excuses for delay.
The concern is sharpened by the earlier N35,000 monthly wage award introduced by the Federal Government in 2023 after petrol subsidy removal. It was intended as temporary relief pending a new national minimum wage. While several States negotiated and paid wage awards or related sums, implementation nationwide was uneven. Reports in 2024 indicated that many States had failed to pay the federal award, while others provided different amounts. In Rivers, labour and media reports raised concerns about implementation of the N35,000 award for State workers, amid separate announcements and arrangements concerning Local Government employees.
The wage award was meant to ease the immediate effects of subsidy removal, yet workers faced uncertainty over whether the promised relief would reach them. In February 2024, the Rivers State Government announced approval of the N35,000 award for local government workers, but subsequent reports showed that implementation across worker categories remained a concern. The lesson is clear: approval and implementation are not the same. A declaration at a meeting offers little comfort to a worker whose account does not reflect the promised payment. For workers who travel to their offices daily, the implications of delayed support are significant. Transportation expenses compete with food, rent, school fees, healthcare and other essential household needs.
As fares rise, employees may be forced to reduce spending on necessities or borrow to sustain their families. A timely transport intervention would therefore provide practical relief and demonstrate that government understands the economic pressures confronting its workforce. Its temporary nature makes prompt implementation even more important. It is fair to acknowledge that this transport intervention is a new agreement and that its administrative details may require clarification. Rivers State should not be condemned in advance for a failure that has not occurred. Nevertheless, the earlier experience gives workers legitimate grounds to seek assurances before the November commencement date. The State should avoid allowing uncertainty to persist until workers begin asking why the promised assistance has not arrived.
The NLC and unions in Rivers State should engage the State Government immediately and seek a written commitment, an implementation plan and a process for reporting missed payments. If clarification from the Federal Government is needed, the State should seek it without abandoning the goal of providing relief. Labour leaders must also keep members informed about progress and insist that any agreed arrangements are applied fairly and transparently. The Rivers State Government should treat this intervention as an opportunity to rebuild confidence. Timely support would show that workers’ welfare is more than a talking point and that the State recognises the economic realities confronting its employees.
Silence, delay or selective implementation, by contrast, would revive frustration over earlier relief measures and weaken trust between government and labour. Every month lost to administrative delay leaves workers facing the same transport burden without the intended assistance. The State should consult labour, publish arrangements and pay eligible workers on time. Rivers workers should not have to wonder whether federal relief will reach them. The Federal Government has announced the support; now the State must make its position clear. We hope the N70,000 monthly transport intervention will not follow the troubling path of the earlier wage award. Rivers State should learn from that experience and ensure that this time, relief is not merely promised but delivered.
Sylvia ThankGod-Amadi
Opinion
Ancestorial Worship: My Take (1)
Everyday, Christians call on Abraham, Isaac and Jacob as they pray to God in the privacy of their homes across our multicultural, multiracial and multiethnic world. On Sundays and almost everyday of the week in the new-found full freaking fanaticism in Pentecostalism, they gather in the more than four million churches or congregations in the world to worship God, invoking the spirits of the ancestors of Jews. Meanwhile, in the scaremongering antics of institutional religion, the African has allowed himself to be hoodwinked into believing that invoking the spirit of his ancestors in prayers is idolatry and patently evil. He is mind-controlled into believing that indulgence in what the Christian clergy calls ”Satanic Act” is a sure ticket to Hell, where the individual is tormented, burnt and charred till eternity on the orders of a loving Father; what a laughable irony.
Come with me on my experience of what the Christian clergy contemptuously calls ancestorial worship. One Monday in September 1988, I drove from Port Harcourt to Owerri, accompanied by Chief AM Abasi who was the general manager of Delta Holdings Ltd, a company owned by Chief Ranami Abah, (Abadifeni III). Our mission was a meeting with Mr. Nwaorgu, the marketing manager of 33 Breweries Ltd for a dealership for Mrs. Alice Abah, whose husband, Chief Ranami Abah, had substantial equity shareholding in 33 Breweries Ltd. At the end of the meeting, we agreed to return on Wednesday with Mrs Alice to sign a contract for the dealership. When Chief Abasi and I stepped out to the parking lot, it hit me that I could not recollect how I drove from Port Harcourt through Igwuruta, Isiokpo and Elele to Owerri.
First, I waved the feeling off, ascribing it to the aerodynamic and slippery nature of the super slick German machine, a Mercedes-Benz 280 SLC convertible owned by Chief Ranami Abah. But on a second thought, I sensed a premonition; an ominous feeling. Then a sense of foreboding hit me, leaving me with the chilly feeling that something wrong was in the air. For a person who does not know fear as a result of having had out-of-body experience (OBE) in 1975 and considering the threshold of death the most beautiful experience in my life, it was a very worrisome feeling, to say the least. I quickly shook those thoughts out of my head, engaged the gear of the ever-ready German machine and zapped through Owerri traffic, attracting the same attention that trailed us all the way from Port Harcourt.
At Control Post, an inner voice instructed me not to return to Port Harcourt through the route we came. In reflexive obedience to the mysterious inaudible voice, I turned right (northwards) and stepped heavily on the gas. The straight six-cylinder engine roared in dutiful obedience; the automatic transmission immediately dropped into a lower gear, thereby giving the engine a very powerful pull that enabled the small-bodied car to dust every other vehicle on the road. Through the rear view mirror, I saw the vehicles we overtook recede speedily and virtually disappear behind us. In almost a whisper, Chief Abasi asked if I wanted to visit the 33 Brewery factory at Awo Omamma; I said ”no” without explaining the movement in the opposite direction of our journey.
Strangely, Chief Abasi did not pry further. We raced on, northwards; in thunderous silence. At Ogbaku junction, I turned left, drove westwards past Ejemekwuru and Izombe, turned left at Oguta and headed southwards on the Oguta Lake–Egbema–Omoku–Ahoada Federal Road. Carefully navigating the potholes that generously punctuated the road vis-a-vis the very low clearing of the car, I entered Egbema territory at Opuoma, drove through Mmahu, Abacheke, Okwuzi and turned eastwards to Mgbede, my home town. There, I quickly introduced Chief Abasi to my parents, left him with them and briskly walked a few metre to the grave of Osai, my grandfather. At the graveside, I solemnly told Osai that I sense something wrong in the air.
Then, in furious rage, I threatened him and my uncle, Lazarus, who lay beside him, that if they remained sleepy-eyed in that dimension and I am forced out of this world, that I will scatter their ribcage with penknife. My cousin and age mate, Luke Ofere, came out of his house and asked what was wrong and why I was in tears. With hot tears running down my cheeks, I turned around and left the graveside without a word to him; shock, surprise and confusion were boldly written on his face. On my way back to my father’s house, Nze Romanus Ogboh caught up with my brisk strides and, viciously pulling his right ear, he warned me to be careful on the road; that he dreamt that I died in a motor accident but that he administered a potion on me and I came back alive.
He was completely confused when I replied ”I know” and continued walking in tears towards my father’s house without a further word. Still in the holy rage, I called out Chief Abasi to join me in the car. Back to Port Harcourt through Omoku, Ahoada, Elele Alimini and Emohua, I told my spouse that something wrong is certainly around the corner. As we planned, Chief Abasi travelled to Calabar on Tuesday to inform Auntie Alice of the development and request her to come to Port Harcourt on Wednesday for onward journey to Owerri to effect the dealership contract. On Wednesday, I waited for them but they did not show up. I called Chief Abah and complained about the development. Thursday morning, they pulled up in front of my apartment in a blue Peugeot 504.
To be continued in our next edition.
Jason Osai
Osai lectures in Rivers State University.
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