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Rivers Deputy Gov And The Great Expectations

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 Deputy Governor of Rivers State,  Dr Ipalibo Banigo

Deputy Governor of Rivers State, Dr Ipalibo Banigo

From the day Dr
Ipalibo Banigo  to honoured the invitation to run as a mate to the Executive Governor of Rivers State, His  Excellency, Chief  Ezenwo Nyesom Wike, many Rivers people  learnt to appreciate her as a virtuous personality, and thenceforth, ceased to appraise her with the yardstick that hitherto equally  yoked her with her folk.
The reason isn’t far-fetched, whatever must have necessitated the choice of her above every other, especially the very ones with great thirst and hunger for political positions, is enough to grant her an express approval for such an enviable seat.
While some people approved of her based on her pedigree, others felt it is wise to test the womenfolk to have a taste of them, probably because of the mark made by known Nigerian women who have had the privilege to serve the nation; the likes of Dr Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Oby Ezekwesili and the late Professor Dora Akunyili of blessed memory.
These women are known to have dispensed their duties without dragging their images in the mud.
Besides, people are tired of the sixteen years of democracy controlled by 99 per cent of the men without tangible and significant contribution of women in policy making. Hence, the mention of a woman as the potential deputy governor was like a surety to the restoration of the dignity and lost glory of the garden city and the state at large.
Somehow too, they may not be off the tract, after all it is said that behind every successful man, is a woman.
So, aside the political game of wooing the sympathy of the women folk to the Peoples Democratic Party which would culminate in more votes for the party given the numerical strength of the folk, the executive Governor must have realized the power of the woman in home building which also translates in nation building before he settled for the choice of a woman.
The Governor ofcourse wouldn’t have gotten any other better than the “chosen one”, the one on whom the lot fell on, Dr Ipalibo Banigo, because the yardstick for the selection was not based on flamboyance but on ‘brain power’, the inner beauty of the woman, which is far withdrawn from the physical features no wonder the governor in his campaign days said “Admittedly, the search has been long and thorough. We gave very deep thought and consideration to vital character traits and qualification the person should possess as the number two citizen of the state.
“The challenge to pick the right person was even more difficult in view of the present rot and decay in governance and infrastructure in Rivers State …. It became necessary to look for a fit and proper person with deep knowledge of the state’s bureaucracy and whose cognate experience would greatly add value to our programs of action”.
Although nature tried to balance the beauty equation in the Deputy Governor yet, it has to be understood that her inner beauty stands her out of her folk thereby making her the envy of all that she is today.
This accounts to the numerous applauses to her kitty as many, male and female see what is in her and do not doubt her ability to live up to expectation.
For Dr Ipalibo Banigo, her emergence as the Deputy Governor of Rivers State provides another window for her to interact and work with the Rivers State Civil Servants and even to serve them.
As a retired civil servant who served in various capacities and offices, she believes she is familiar and acquainted with the terrain of the state civil service and so has what it takes to turn around the fortunes of the civil servants.
During her campaigns Dr Banigo did not only raise the hope of the civil servants, she kept them salivating and praying for the eventual dawn of her days in the brick house.           Hence, for the civil servants in Rivers State, eth name “Dr Ipalibo Banigo”, is in itself a promissory note for prompt and regular payment of salaries, prompt and regular payment of pensions and gratuities, prompt and regular release of overheads and imprests to ministries and extra-ministerial departments, regular training of all categories of workers in the civil service as well as prompt and regular payment of state contributions to the reformed pension scheme among many others.
Although Dr Ipalibo is yet to commence active service, she was quick to remember her electoral promises and while appreciating the electorate for her victory at the polls, she said “together we shall serve and fulfill our electoral promises ……we shall reap the dividends of democracy under this governor ….”
For women in the state, their overwhelming  presence at the venue of the unveiling of Dr Banigo as a running mate to the governorship candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), their composition as they were adorned in different native attires, beaming with uncontrollable excitement explained their definition of the personality to be unveiled.
As the first female running mate of the governorship candidate, it was a historic master stroke in any political calculations in Rivers State.
Moreso, the choice of her would best be described as an invention of a caveat that silenced critics and created some sorts of balance in the political sphere.
The Rivers women are already heaving a sigh of relief and feeling a sense of belonging given her wealth of experience spanning over the decades.
Their hopes are high that the number two citizen of the state will surely constitute a springboard from which many women will reach their peak.
Expectations are high that with her, the journey to the realization of a female governor in Rivers State is cut short and many women would be encouraged into politics.
How about girl-child education and gender-violence? It is time to herald a new era where women would sing a new song of political awakening, a new song of socio-economic emancipation in 2015.
What less can you expect? As the saying goes, to whom much is given, much is expected, Dr  Ipalibo is just given much, the varying expectations are hinged on the fact that the able deputy governor is able indeed.
In realization of her worth and capability, Governor Ezebunwo Nyesom Wike expressed thus “Let me reiterate that our choice is not a run-of-the-mill material. She is competent, tested and seasoned professional and bureaucrat with several years as a key holder of highly challenging public offices in Rivers State”.
It will be worthy of mention that Dr Ipaligbo Banigo has served in Rivers State as Permanent Secretary, Head of Service and Secretary to the State Government before retiring meritoriously from the public service.

 

Sylvia ThankGod-Amadi

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The Wise Woman

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The wise woman builds her home. Mothers are supposed to live exemplary lives. The roles of mothers in the building of the modern Christian home cannot be overemphasized.
The function of the mother is to help the man build the home. She is a helper. A helper to the husband when the man is not doing well. It is important for the wise woman to assist when the man is not able to meet up with the items needed in the home.
A wise woman needs to reference God first and then the husband. Also the wise woman should respect her husband.
Caring for her own children as well as others is very crucial.
Do not despise children from other mothers. Discipline the child who is going the wrong way.
Ensure family bonding, show love and don’t discriminate. Connection with children is very important, especially the females. Find out who is her friend. Also find out the kind of lives they live. Caution, counsel and guide so that they make good partners.
Teaching children the dos and donts should start from birth. Inculcate the word of God in them so that when they grow, will not depart from it.
From the Scripture, some women influenced their families positively. Virgin Mary influenced the world, she never destroyed herself hence she gave birth to Jesus Christ.
Elizabeth, despite her age, God blessed her as she waited patiently.
A wise should curb favouritism in the family and love children equally. Whether a child is your biological child or not, it is necessary to show love equally. Reprimanding the children should be the function of both man and wife.

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The Desire Of Every Woman In Marriage

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Marriage is beautiful when there is love. Before and after marriage, couples show love to themselves. But you discover that after some years, that same love turn to be something else. A lot of people start going through emotional trauma in the hands of their loved spouses.
There are many things the woman desires to keep the love on as far as marriage is concerned.
Women are blesssed with feminine abilities that can be used for good in husbands lives. With your abilities, you can create a marriage that will last till couples get old.
A woman needs
man that is honest,  trustworthy,  nice,  loving and financially stable.
There are no two ways about finance in marriage. No matter the level of love, if there is no reasonable finance,  it is always difficult to manage the home.
Referring to the Biblical belief in Genesis 3: “Your desire  shall be unto you…….. “
What this means is that whatever the woman desires in life shall be provided as far as she performs her role in her home. There are many things  the woman expects her husband to take care of.
A woman wants a husband that is not lazy,  at least helping to do one or two things when he is at home.
A man that is educated and intelligent so that they will transfer such traits to their children.
Knowing that there are traits that her husband has,  traits of taking care of people,  giving freely to people and caring for her family. She expects him to exhibit them.
A woman wants to love a husband that has family interest at heart. A man that spends time with his family,  remembering his family even as he is away from home.
No matter where he finds himself, he is not destracted by external influence. He returns home to his loved ones.
A woman should not antagonise her husband because of one error or the other. No matter the level of offence he may have committed, you still show some love.
According to the Scripture, it is with wisdom that a woman builds her home. As far as he rreturns home, you accept him as your own.
It is not as if the woman will not monitor her husband, but to certain limit.  Don’t be a monitoring spirit.  Don’t allow anything to take your joy.
Don’t loose trust in your husband. The idea of checking your husband’s phone should be discouraged. The more you check your husband and his phone, the more you loose your joy.
You can show some form of jealousy, but to an extent. Cooperation, respect and being honoured from time to time is what the woman desires.
The home should not be a battle ground for a woman and man.  A woman should be able to ask herself if the check on her husband will pay her any good.
Draw a line to a point where you checkmate your husband’s activities.
A woman wants a man that will love her and telling her you love her will be all she desires.

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The Desire Of Every Woman In Marriage

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A woman needs a man that is honest,  trustworthy,  nice,  loving and financially stable.
There are no two ways about finance in marriage. No matter the level of love, If there is no money,  it is always difficult.


Referring to the Biblical belief in Genesis 3:Your desire  shall be unto you……..
That is one aspect  the woman expects her husband to take care of.
A woman wants a husband that is not lazy,  at least helping to do one or two things.   A man that is educated and intelligent.
She knows that there is a trait that her husband has.  Traits of taking care of people,  giving freely to people and caring for her family.
A woman wants to love a husband that has family interest at heart. A man that spends time with his family,  remembering his family even as he is away from home.
A woman should not antagonise her husband because of one error or the other. No matter the level of offence he may have committed, you still show some love.


According to the Scripture, it is with wisdom that the women builds her home.
It is not as if the woman will not monitor her husband, but to certain limit.  Don’t be a monitoring spirit.  Don’t allow anything to take your joy.
Don’t loose trust in your husband.
The idea of checking your husband’s phone should be discouraged. The more you check your husband and his phone, the more you loose your joy.


The home should not be a battle ground for a woman and man.  A woman should be able to ask herself if the check on her husband will pay her any good.
Draw a line to a point where you checkmate your husband’s activities.
A woman wants a man that will love her and telling her you love her will be all she desires.

Eunice Choko-Kayode

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