Opinion
The Use Of Women In Suicide Bombing By B’Haram, Peoples’ Reaction
Recently, the use of women for suicide bombing has been on the increase. What is responsible for this ugly development? What is the way out of the quagmire? Our Chief correspondent, Calista Ezeaku sought answers to these questions from Port Harcourt residents. The photographer was Ken Donatus.
Mrs Wariboko Asawo – Business woman:
It is a very worrisome development. Women are known to be peace loving. Women uphold families. Using them as instruments of destruction is really a wrong act. It should be condemned. We are the ones that bring forth the next generation. So, being the same people destroying generations is very wrong.
I will attribute such development to the decay in the society and lack of proper upbringing. I think their parents didn’t do the right thing in bringing them up. And to correct this anomaly, every body has a role to play – the family, government, churches, mosques. You know if you miss an instruction from your mother, you don’t get it in school and in your worship place, where else would you want to get any good moral education from?
So, as parents, we should scold our children when they go wrong. We should teach them the ten commandments. They should learn better practices. Let them know that they shouldn’t be used as agents of destruction rather they should be agents of change. Government should cater for our youths and carryout her responsibilities to the entire citizens.
Mr Ukechi Williams – Public Servant:
It is a very sad development. But those girls should not be blamed. I believe they were forced by the Boko Haram terrorists to carry out such wicked acts. It might not be proper to blame the parents because these days a lot of children dump the sound moral upbringing given to them by their parents to go the evil way. Some of them, no matter what you do, they will not hear. They will just do what they like. I also do not want to blame the Federal government for the escalating terrorist activities in the North East as many people do because there is no way the President can be in Abuja and various states and local government, at the same time. The various arms of government, the law enforcement agents, the security personnels, community heads, chiefs, politicians and everybody in the area have to join hands to curb this menace.
Mrs Lilian Okonkwo – Journalist:
My dear, it is mind blowing that they have been able to cajole these girls to carry out such devastating operations. The recent case I heard was carried out by a girl of about 13 years. Of course only God knows what they would have told her to be able to do that. But which ever way, no matter how it is done, it is mind blowing. It is painful. It is violence against the girl child and we are saying no to it.
And I wish that in the environment where these things are happening that there are women activists who will be able to speak out, who will be able to sensitise, advocate, talk about this thing and alert the women.
How did we get to this point? I think it is the time, globalization. Of course you know that some of these things are the things they got from places like Yemen and the rest of them, most of these Anab nations. For them, they see it as trying to Islamise. But I think may be because of globalization, accessibility to TV, to internet and the rest of them, our people are learning fast and learning wrong.
Well to some extent, one can say that lack of proper upbringing plays a part in this issue but I don’t think that is the real problem because if you take a look at the environment where this thing is happening, you will know that there is religious fanaticism there. It has been rooted there. It’s just that it’s been with the boys. It’s been with the men. It is just that they now including the girls. To them that is what their religion says. May be because people are getting to know that boys are more into it, people are becoming more suspicious of the boys, they now see the girls as better alternative.
Mrs Salome Hamilton – Public Servant:
Each time I hear the story of women being used as suicide bombers I feel sad. I feel very bad because it is not right. We women, we have our pride and I don’t see any woman in her right mind, agreeing to such plan.
But let’s hope the efforts of President Goodluck Jonathan will bring a permanent solution to this problem. The Federal government is really trying its best to curb the activities of Boko Haram. But we cannot achieve the desired result through the efforts of human beings alone. It will take God actually to stop them. We need a lot of prayers.
Let me also add that most of the challenges we face as young ladies come as a result of us not being satisfied with what we have. Sometimes we just want to go extra miles to meet up. May be when those girls were offered certain amount or some promises were made to them, they succumb to it. I think everybody should be satisfied with what they have. And for mothers, they should play their motherly role very well because as they say, charity begins at home. If you train up your child in a godly way, he will follow suit. So mothers should sit up.
Government also has a lot of role to play in soloing this problem. Things are very hard in Nigerian society and our leaders, especially on top, what they think about is just themselves. But in a situation whereby things are being put in place for the masses to be comfortable, I don’t think anybody will go into what he or she is not supposed to go into. Those in government should not just consider themselves and their families. They should reach out to the masses and find ways of making life easy for the citizens, especially the youth, the poor and the jobless.
Mr Micheal Nnadi – Estate Surveyor:
We all know it is a worrisome development. These are the things we used to hear that happen in far away countries. Today, young Nigerians are blowing themselves up for no sensible reason.
But somehow, I want to blame the Federal government for these ugly incidents. I strongly believe that if the government had nipped this issue in the bud it wouldn’t have grown to this monstrous state. Incidentally, those in authority have been playing politics with the issue of terrorism and while they were doing that, Boko Haram members were busy recruiting new members.
Remember, it is said that an idle man is the devil’s workshop. So because these young ones were idle, they became veritable instruments in the hands of terrorists. So it is high time our leaders did the necessary things – good governance, employment for youths and provision for the poor.
The political atmosphere in Rivers State has been anything but calm in 2025. Yet, a rare moment of unity was witnessed on Saturday, June 28, when Governor Siminalayi Fubara and Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Chief Nyesom Wike, appeared side by side at the funeral of Elder Temple Omezurike Onuoha, Wike’s late uncle. What could have passed for a routine condolence visit evolved into a significant political statement—a symbolic show of reconciliation in a state bruised by deep political strife.
The funeral, attended by dignitaries from across the nation, was more than a moment of shared grief. It became the public reflection of a private peace accord reached earlier at the Presidential Villa in Abuja. There, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu brought together Governor Fubara, Minister Wike, the suspended Speaker of the Rivers State House of Assembly, Martin Amaewhule, and other lawmakers to chart a new path forward.
For Rivers people, that truce is a beacon of hope. But they are not content with photo opportunities and promises. What they demand now is the immediate lifting of the state of emergency declared in March 2025, and the unconditional reinstatement of Governor Fubara, Deputy Governor Dr. Ngozi Odu, and all suspended lawmakers. They insist on the restoration of their democratic mandate.
President Tinubu’s decision to suspend the entire structure of Rivers State’s elected leadership and appoint a sole administrator was a drastic response to a deepening political crisis. While it may have prevented a complete breakdown in governance, it also robbed the people of their voice. That silence must now end.
The administrator, retired naval chief Ibok-Ette Ibas, has managed a caretaker role. But Rivers State cannot thrive under unelected stewardship. Democracy must return—not partially, not symbolically, but fully. President Tinubu has to ensure that the people’s will, expressed through the ballot, is restored in word and deed.
Governor Fubara, who will complete his six-month suspension by September, was elected to serve the people of Rivers, not to be sidelined by political intrigues. His return should not be ceremonial. It should come with the full powers and authority vested in him by the constitution and the mandate of Rivers citizens.
The people’s frustration is understandable. At the heart of the political crisis was a power tussle between loyalists of Fubara and those of Wike. Institutions, particularly the State House of Assembly, became battlegrounds. Attempts were made to impeach Fubara. The situation deteriorated into a full-blown crisis, and governance was nearly brought to its knees.
But the tide must now turn. With the Senate’s approval of a record ?1.485 trillion budget for Rivers State for 2025, a new opportunity has emerged. This budget is not just a fiscal document—it is a blueprint for transformation, allocating ?1.077 trillion for capital projects alone. Yet, without the governor’s reinstatement, its execution remains in doubt.
It is Governor Fubara, and only him, who possesses the people’s mandate to execute this ambitious budget. It is time for him to return to duty with vigor, responsibility, and a renewed sense of urgency. The people expect delivery—on roads, hospitals, schools, and job creation.
Rivers civil servants, recovering from neglect and under appreciation, should also continue to be a top priority. Fubara should continue to ensure timely payment of salaries, address pension issues, and create a more effective, motivated public workforce. This is how governance becomes real in people’s lives.
The “Rivers First” mantra with which Fubara campaigned is now being tested. That slogan should become policy. It must inform every appointment, every contract, every budget decision, and every reform. It must reflect the needs and aspirations of the ordinary Rivers person—not political patrons or vested interests.
Beyond infrastructure and administration, political healing is essential. Governor Fubara and Minister Wike must go beyond temporary peace. They should actively unite their camps and followers to form one strong political family. The future of Rivers cannot be built on division.
Political appointments, both at the Federal and State levels, must reflect a spirit of fairness, tolerance, and inclusivity. The days of political vendettas and exclusive lists must end. Every ethnic group, every gender, and every generation must feel included in the new Rivers project.
Rivers is too diverse to be governed by one faction. Lasting peace can only be built on concessions, maturity, and equity. The people are watching to see if the peace deal will lead to deeper understanding or simply paper over cracks in an already fragile political arrangement.
Wike, now a national figure as Minister of the FCT, has a responsibility to rise above the local fray and support the development of Rivers State. His influence should bring federal attention and investment to the state, not political interference or division.
Likewise, Fubara should lead with restraint, humility, and a focus on service delivery. His return should not be marked by revenge or political purges but by inclusive leadership that welcomes even former adversaries into the process of rebuilding the state.
“The people are no longer interested in power struggles. They want light in their streets, drugs in their hospitals, teachers in their classrooms, and jobs for their children. The politics of ego and entitlement have to give way to governance with purpose.
The appearance of both leaders at the funeral was a glimpse of what unity could look like. That moment should now evolve into a movement-one that prioritizes Rivers State over every personal ambition. Let it be the beginning of true reconciliation and progress.
As September draws near, the Federal government should act decisively to end the state of emergency and reinstate all suspended officials. Rivers State must return to constitutional order and normal democratic processes. This is the minimum requirement of good governance.
The crisis in Rivers has dragged on for too long. The truce is a step forward, but much more is needed. Reinstating Governor Fubara, implementing the ?1.485 trillion budget, and uniting political factions are now the urgent tasks ahead. Rivers people have suffered enough. It is time to restore leadership, rebuild trust, and finally put Rivers first.
By: Amieyeofori Ibim
Amieyeofori Ibim is former Editor of The Tide Newspapers, political analyst and public affairs commentator
Do the Fulani herdsmen have an expansionists agenda, like their progenitor, Uthman Dan Fodio? Why are they everywhere even the remotest part of other areas in Nigeria harassing, maiming, raping and killing the owners of the land?”
In a swift reaction, The Movement for the Survival of the Ogoni People (MOSOP) decried and strongly condemned the invasion by suspected Fulani herdsmen.
In his denunciation, MOSOP President Fegalo Nsuke described the incident as very unfortunate and deeply troubling, warning against a recurrence of the violence experienced in Benue State. “The killing of yesterday is bad and very unfortunate. We are getting preliminary information about how the herders gained access to the farmland, and it appears some hoodlums may be collecting money and granting access illegally.”
He called on the Hausa community in Rivers State to intervene swiftly to prevent further attacks.
“We want the Hausa community in Rivers State to take urgent action to ensure these issues are resolved”.
But will such appeal and requests end the violent disposition of the Fulani herdsmen? It is not saying something new that the escalating threat and breach of peace across the country by the Fulani herdsmen or those suspected to be Fulani herdsmen, leaves much to be desired in a country that is bedevilled by multi-dimensional challenges and hydra-headed problems.
Some upland Local Government Areas of Rivers State, such as Etche, Omuma, Emohua, Ikwerre, Oyigbo, Abua, Ogba/Egbema/Ndoni, have severally recounted their ordeals, as herdsmen invaded farmlands, destroyed crops, raped female farmers and killed protestant residents.
Again the wanton destruction of lives and properties which no doubt has overwhelmed the Nigerian Police, makes the clamour for State Police, indispensable. The National Assembly should consider the amendment of the Constitution to allow States to have their Statutory policing agencies.
As insurgency has risen to an all time high in the country were killings has now grown to be a normal daily activity in some part of the nation it may not be safe to say that Nigeria still practices democracy.
Several massacres coming from the Boko Haram and the herdsmen amongst all other insurgencies which have led to the destruction of homes and killing, burning of communities especially in the northern part of the country. All these put together are result of the ethnic battles that are fought between the tribes of Nigeria and this can be witnessed in Benue State where herders and farmers have been in constant clashes for ages. They have experienced nothing but casualties and unrest.
In the month of June 13-14, the Yelwata attack at the Guma Local Government Area by suspected gunmen or herdsmen who stormed the houses of innocent IDPs (Internally Displaced Persons) claiming the lives of families, both adults and children estimated to be 200 victims. They were all burnt alive by these unknown gunmen.
This has been recorded as one of the deadliest insurgencies that had happened in recent years. Some security personnel that were trying to fight the unknown gunmen also lost their lives.
Prior to the Yelewata attack, two days before the happening, similar conflict took place in Makurdi on June 11, 2025. 25 people were killed in the State. Even in Plateau State and the Southern Kaduna an attack also took place in the month of June.
All other states that make up the Middle Belt have been experiencing the farmers/herders clash for years now and it has persisted up till recent times, claiming lives of families and children, homes and lands, escalating in 2025 with coordinated assaults.
Various authorities and other villagers who fled for safety also blamed the herdsmen in the State for the attack that happened in Yelwata community.
Ehebha God’stime is an Intern with The Tide.