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Incessant Abduction Of Female Students: Time For Action

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News of abduction of
innocent school girls have become a recurrent decimal in Nigeria and worst still in Borno State.
Ordinarily, one would have expected that having happened for a consecutive two times within a very short interval and within same locality, measures would have been put in place to forestall any recurrence.
Unfortunately, it is still the same old tune of the masters, our usual fire brigade approach, that is not even with exception to sensitive issues as life.
Borno State now serves as heaven of sort for men of the underworld to carry out their evil antics after all, “we are on top of the situation” and “we are winning  the terrorism war” even with our whole body almost entirely dismembered.
Kudos! the Defence Headquarters said last Wednesday, that only eight of the 129 students abducted by the Boko Haram from the Government Girls Secondary School, Chibok in Borno State were still missing, meaning the rest have been released from their abductors. Otherwise, all the calls by Labour, Republic of China, the United Nations Children’s Education Fund (UNICEF), the first Lady, Dame Patience Jonathan to security operatives for urgent action would have still been considered one of those old songs of distraction.
All the same, with President Goodluck Jonathan’s summon of members of the National Security Council to a meeting at the Presidential Villa on the development  in the country which will be followed by an enlarged meeting still on security developments in the country. With  the State governors, one hopes it does not turn out the same old songs we are used to.
After the meetings and resolutions taken, how these resolutions applied, what happened to the resolutions of previous meetings after previous attacks? remains the concern of many.
Before now attention was on business moguls and relatives of politicians from whom they get some ransome now, who pays for the school  girls whose sponsors may not be known? Is their intention still to make money out of the business?
This act of extremism as a means to an end has left so much to be desired.
Earlier in the week, the BBC have quoted parents to have told its Hausa Service that at least 200 girls were abducted by suspected Boko Haram insurgents on Tuesday, April 15, 2014 at the Senior Secondary School, Chibok, Borno State, following a violent attack in the town.
The local news had it that no fewer than 100 girls were abducted at the same school by the same sect.
In spite of the discrepancy in the two reports, one fact that is not in contention is that scores of young female students were abducted by the suspected Boko Haram insurgents at a Senior Secondary School, Chibok, Borno State the third of its kind in same state.
Barely a month ago, the second version of this abduction of female students was recorded in the same state of Borno, involoving over 70 school girls, a situation that took women and mothers to the streets on black, in protest against what they described as an heinous act that must be condemned intoto.
According to a report by PM News on Thursday, February 13, 2014, the Boko Haram gunmen invaded the village of Konduga in Borno on Tuesday evening February 11, 2014, killing over 40 people and abducting 20 females.
“Gunmen from Islamic sect, Boko Haram are certainly not waiting for the reward of Martyrdom  in heaven: the reward of 72 virgins by their creator, they are claiming the reward right here in Nigeria.” (PM News).
It would be recalled that in their attack on Konduga, Borno State, on Tuesday February 11, 2014, the menacing armed men did not just kill between 43 and 51 people, they also abducted 20 young girls from a local school, which the Borno State Governor, Kashim Shettima, described not only as barbaric, but unfortunate.
Fejiro Oliver, a writer says it is not clear why they were abducted but that a source familiar with the actions of the group has revealed that they may have been kidnapped as sex toys for the terrorists.
“You know most of the Secondary School girls in the north are virgins and Boko Haram need  virgins to sleep with to quench their sex hunger,” the source said.
For whatever reasons that could be adduced for the perpetration of this dastardly act, it is a slight on the dignity of womanhood and lack of respect for the sanctity of life.
Can any sane mind justify any of the duo: ritual and sex toy purposes for the abduction of these innocent young minds?
Intermitently, schools especially in the north east zone of Nigeria are being closed down due to the activities of the evil men. Even when these schools are not officially closed down, it is not possible that students of these affected schools could be at ease to attend classes in their school in the face of all the dangers and risk? Even where the males summon courage to go to classes perhaps with the understanding that they are not the target, what becomes of the females?
What then is the hope for our children’s edcuation, life and future?
It is quite worrisome that the number of victims keeps increasing with each subsequent attack. From 20 girls in the February 11th attack, to 70 girls in the March 2nd attack and now over 100 girls in the April 15th attack. Who knows what the rate would be in the next attack should there be no obvious intervention by the government.
Much as the Boko Haram members are being suspected for every terrorist attack in Nigeria, it is important not to lose sight of the fact that “armed robbers and other criminals are fast abandoning their trades for the more lucrative business of kidnapping. Behind the abduction gangs springing up across the country are young smart and intelligent university graduates who are being lured into crime by growing unemployment.” (Olaolu Olusina and Anayo Okolie).
Criminals and men of the underworld are surely beating the law enforcement and security officers to the game by changing their tactics. The criminals, no doubt, are putting their guns to use for another business considered “less cumbersome but more rewarding”.
At a summit held in Lagos two years ago, the Regional Vice President, Africa American Society for Industrial Security, Mr Dennis Amachree, disclosed that, of the top 10 countries with high kidnapping records in 2007, Nigeria occupied the 6th position. But Nigeria ever since, has moved up to the third position, behind Mexico and Columbia.
Nigeria could remain in any position it so wishes in crime, the question in everyone’s lip is, will the security agents ever be on top of this ugly monster as always claimed?
It is so unfortunate that in the face of obvious and devastating consequences, the  federal and state governments have still not proven to the citizenry that there is any form of counter-check especially in Bornu State, even when the constitution is so glaring on matters of security and welfare of the people as the primary purpose of government.

 

Women protesting against the activities of evil men in Port Harcourt, Rivers State recently.

Women protesting against the activities of evil men in Port Harcourt, Rivers State recently.

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The Wise Woman

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The wise woman builds her home. Mothers are supposed to live exemplary lives. The roles of mothers in the building of the modern Christian home cannot be overemphasized.
The function of the mother is to help the man build the home. She is a helper. A helper to the husband when the man is not doing well. It is important for the wise woman to assist when the man is not able to meet up with the items needed in the home.
A wise woman needs to reference God first and then the husband. Also the wise woman should respect her husband.
Caring for her own children as well as others is very crucial.
Do not despise children from other mothers. Discipline the child who is going the wrong way.
Ensure family bonding, show love and don’t discriminate. Connection with children is very important, especially the females. Find out who is her friend. Also find out the kind of lives they live. Caution, counsel and guide so that they make good partners.
Teaching children the dos and donts should start from birth. Inculcate the word of God in them so that when they grow, will not depart from it.
From the Scripture, some women influenced their families positively. Virgin Mary influenced the world, she never destroyed herself hence she gave birth to Jesus Christ.
Elizabeth, despite her age, God blessed her as she waited patiently.
A wise should curb favouritism in the family and love children equally. Whether a child is your biological child or not, it is necessary to show love equally. Reprimanding the children should be the function of both man and wife.

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The Desire Of Every Woman In Marriage

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Marriage is beautiful when there is love. Before and after marriage, couples show love to themselves. But you discover that after some years, that same love turn to be something else. A lot of people start going through emotional trauma in the hands of their loved spouses.
There are many things the woman desires to keep the love on as far as marriage is concerned.
Women are blesssed with feminine abilities that can be used for good in husbands lives. With your abilities, you can create a marriage that will last till couples get old.
A woman needs
man that is honest,  trustworthy,  nice,  loving and financially stable.
There are no two ways about finance in marriage. No matter the level of love, if there is no reasonable finance,  it is always difficult to manage the home.
Referring to the Biblical belief in Genesis 3: “Your desire  shall be unto you…….. “
What this means is that whatever the woman desires in life shall be provided as far as she performs her role in her home. There are many things  the woman expects her husband to take care of.
A woman wants a husband that is not lazy,  at least helping to do one or two things when he is at home.
A man that is educated and intelligent so that they will transfer such traits to their children.
Knowing that there are traits that her husband has,  traits of taking care of people,  giving freely to people and caring for her family. She expects him to exhibit them.
A woman wants to love a husband that has family interest at heart. A man that spends time with his family,  remembering his family even as he is away from home.
No matter where he finds himself, he is not destracted by external influence. He returns home to his loved ones.
A woman should not antagonise her husband because of one error or the other. No matter the level of offence he may have committed, you still show some love.
According to the Scripture, it is with wisdom that a woman builds her home. As far as he rreturns home, you accept him as your own.
It is not as if the woman will not monitor her husband, but to certain limit.  Don’t be a monitoring spirit.  Don’t allow anything to take your joy.
Don’t loose trust in your husband. The idea of checking your husband’s phone should be discouraged. The more you check your husband and his phone, the more you loose your joy.
You can show some form of jealousy, but to an extent. Cooperation, respect and being honoured from time to time is what the woman desires.
The home should not be a battle ground for a woman and man.  A woman should be able to ask herself if the check on her husband will pay her any good.
Draw a line to a point where you checkmate your husband’s activities.
A woman wants a man that will love her and telling her you love her will be all she desires.

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The Desire Of Every Woman In Marriage

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A woman needs a man that is honest,  trustworthy,  nice,  loving and financially stable.
There are no two ways about finance in marriage. No matter the level of love, If there is no money,  it is always difficult.


Referring to the Biblical belief in Genesis 3:Your desire  shall be unto you……..
That is one aspect  the woman expects her husband to take care of.
A woman wants a husband that is not lazy,  at least helping to do one or two things.   A man that is educated and intelligent.
She knows that there is a trait that her husband has.  Traits of taking care of people,  giving freely to people and caring for her family.
A woman wants to love a husband that has family interest at heart. A man that spends time with his family,  remembering his family even as he is away from home.
A woman should not antagonise her husband because of one error or the other. No matter the level of offence he may have committed, you still show some love.


According to the Scripture, it is with wisdom that the women builds her home.
It is not as if the woman will not monitor her husband, but to certain limit.  Don’t be a monitoring spirit.  Don’t allow anything to take your joy.
Don’t loose trust in your husband.
The idea of checking your husband’s phone should be discouraged. The more you check your husband and his phone, the more you loose your joy.


The home should not be a battle ground for a woman and man.  A woman should be able to ask herself if the check on her husband will pay her any good.
Draw a line to a point where you checkmate your husband’s activities.
A woman wants a man that will love her and telling her you love her will be all she desires.

Eunice Choko-Kayode

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