Opinion
The Family As Endangered Specie (II)
This is the conclusion of the article published last Wednesday.
Women today want to shape the outside after killing the inside. Now that they want to come out to do what men have not been able to do, which tools are they going to use?
They have not prepared the greater tomorrow as to have good working partners and they want to repair the society. This does not make any sense. It is a truism that our characters are formed at the family level before they are brought to the public domain. You will agree with us that the few people who have good moral standing are less corrupt and are doing great, but their efforts are dampened by the unbred and unbridled among them.
The family is the best office for women because when they, as a matter of expediency and patriotism, stay with the children, the society will change for better.
The duty of the woman in the family is more honourable and more important than their long throat for public office. When women run out the house in droves, only God shall save us.
The worrisome aspect of it is how men who should themselves know better are pushing their wives outside, hoping the women would perform magic which they can’t. Men like that should look at it closely and see that the women are asking to destroy all that men have built over time. It is easy to see that unisexation will put paid to our culture and tradition. Cant we see that unisexation, like other things we copy from the West do not favour us? God intended mothers to be close to their children hence her biogrammer was designed to be so.
The women we are talking about are some women that we have as wives in our houses. These are women who hardly allow anything to pass without argument. These are women who have cheating in their minds and who are deliberately drawing home foreign cultures to achieve mere inordinate ambitions. These are women who were used by the devil to chase man out from the garden which God made for him. If you must see unisexation and feminism with the eyes which we are seeing them, then, we will observe that women are carrying a revolution which shall be worse to what they did in the Garden of Eden.
Those who are fanning the embres of women agitation for unisexation, for feminism and gender equality may be doing so for economic reasons, but this is not enough because we are seeing it as unpatriotic.
When a man is blessed with the source of income to take care of his family, projecting his wife for more money is greed. The original arrangement between man and his wife is so that the woman shall serve the man and for the man to love and protect her. So, how can a man be husband when she is what he is?
Our lawmakers should be careful of those bills which women are presenting to make them men.
Nigeria women should be realistic in their demand for equality with their husbands. Let’s stop making bad references to the West because their environment that seems to be fertile soil for unisexation is entirely different from ours. We have emulated many things from them which never worked and it is because the environments are different.
Every man has the interest and welfare of his wife on his mind and his ambition everyday is to meet them. Some women argue that they want gender equality so as to take care of women’s interests which as it were shall be best understood by women. This is not true. Their interests and welfare can only be taken care of by their husbands. Women’s interests should be reported to men who should expediently grant them if they are necessary.
Women who are basking in the euporia of unconstitutional privileges should not use it to cause trouble by pushing fellow women to come all out and kill the family. If they continue their onslaught as they are bent on doing, then they will be seen as agents of confusion.
In conclusion therefore, unisexation and gender equality being demanded by women are to blame for all the vices we have in the society today. Should the women go back to the family and do well their duties, everything shall naturally fall into place.
Sir Eddy writes from Port Harcourt.
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Restoring Order, Delivering Good Governance
The political atmosphere in Rivers State has been anything but calm in 2025. Yet, a rare moment of unity was witnessed on Saturday, June 28, when Governor Siminalayi Fubara and Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Chief Nyesom Wike, appeared side by side at the funeral of Elder Temple Omezurike Onuoha, Wike’s late uncle. What could have passed for a routine condolence visit evolved into a significant political statement—a symbolic show of reconciliation in a state bruised by deep political strife.
The funeral, attended by dignitaries from across the nation, was more than a moment of shared grief. It became the public reflection of a private peace accord reached earlier at the Presidential Villa in Abuja. There, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu brought together Governor Fubara, Minister Wike, the suspended Speaker of the Rivers State House of Assembly, Martin Amaewhule, and other lawmakers to chart a new path forward.
For Rivers people, that truce is a beacon of hope. But they are not content with photo opportunities and promises. What they demand now is the immediate lifting of the state of emergency declared in March 2025, and the unconditional reinstatement of Governor Fubara, Deputy Governor Dr. Ngozi Odu, and all suspended lawmakers. They insist on the restoration of their democratic mandate.
President Tinubu’s decision to suspend the entire structure of Rivers State’s elected leadership and appoint a sole administrator was a drastic response to a deepening political crisis. While it may have prevented a complete breakdown in governance, it also robbed the people of their voice. That silence must now end.
The administrator, retired naval chief Ibok-Ette Ibas, has managed a caretaker role. But Rivers State cannot thrive under unelected stewardship. Democracy must return—not partially, not symbolically, but fully. President Tinubu has to ensure that the people’s will, expressed through the ballot, is restored in word and deed.
Governor Fubara, who will complete his six-month suspension by September, was elected to serve the people of Rivers, not to be sidelined by political intrigues. His return should not be ceremonial. It should come with the full powers and authority vested in him by the constitution and the mandate of Rivers citizens.
The people’s frustration is understandable. At the heart of the political crisis was a power tussle between loyalists of Fubara and those of Wike. Institutions, particularly the State House of Assembly, became battlegrounds. Attempts were made to impeach Fubara. The situation deteriorated into a full-blown crisis, and governance was nearly brought to its knees.
But the tide must now turn. With the Senate’s approval of a record ?1.485 trillion budget for Rivers State for 2025, a new opportunity has emerged. This budget is not just a fiscal document—it is a blueprint for transformation, allocating ?1.077 trillion for capital projects alone. Yet, without the governor’s reinstatement, its execution remains in doubt.
It is Governor Fubara, and only him, who possesses the people’s mandate to execute this ambitious budget. It is time for him to return to duty with vigor, responsibility, and a renewed sense of urgency. The people expect delivery—on roads, hospitals, schools, and job creation.
Rivers civil servants, recovering from neglect and under appreciation, should also continue to be a top priority. Fubara should continue to ensure timely payment of salaries, address pension issues, and create a more effective, motivated public workforce. This is how governance becomes real in people’s lives.
The “Rivers First” mantra with which Fubara campaigned is now being tested. That slogan should become policy. It must inform every appointment, every contract, every budget decision, and every reform. It must reflect the needs and aspirations of the ordinary Rivers person—not political patrons or vested interests.
Beyond infrastructure and administration, political healing is essential. Governor Fubara and Minister Wike must go beyond temporary peace. They should actively unite their camps and followers to form one strong political family. The future of Rivers cannot be built on division.
Political appointments, both at the Federal and State levels, must reflect a spirit of fairness, tolerance, and inclusivity. The days of political vendettas and exclusive lists must end. Every ethnic group, every gender, and every generation must feel included in the new Rivers project.
Rivers is too diverse to be governed by one faction. Lasting peace can only be built on concessions, maturity, and equity. The people are watching to see if the peace deal will lead to deeper understanding or simply paper over cracks in an already fragile political arrangement.
Wike, now a national figure as Minister of the FCT, has a responsibility to rise above the local fray and support the development of Rivers State. His influence should bring federal attention and investment to the state, not political interference or division.
Likewise, Fubara should lead with restraint, humility, and a focus on service delivery. His return should not be marked by revenge or political purges but by inclusive leadership that welcomes even former adversaries into the process of rebuilding the state.
“The people are no longer interested in power struggles. They want light in their streets, drugs in their hospitals, teachers in their classrooms, and jobs for their children. The politics of ego and entitlement have to give way to governance with purpose.
The appearance of both leaders at the funeral was a glimpse of what unity could look like. That moment should now evolve into a movement-one that prioritizes Rivers State over every personal ambition. Let it be the beginning of true reconciliation and progress.
As September draws near, the Federal government should act decisively to end the state of emergency and reinstate all suspended officials. Rivers State must return to constitutional order and normal democratic processes. This is the minimum requirement of good governance.
The crisis in Rivers has dragged on for too long. The truce is a step forward, but much more is needed. Reinstating Governor Fubara, implementing the ?1.485 trillion budget, and uniting political factions are now the urgent tasks ahead. Rivers people have suffered enough. It is time to restore leadership, rebuild trust, and finally put Rivers first.
By: Amieyeofori Ibim
Amieyeofori Ibim is former Editor of The Tide Newspapers, political analyst and public affairs commentator
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