Opinion
Celebrating Valentine’s Day
February 14, which Pope Gelasius declared St. Valentine’s Day around 498 A.D. has become a remarkable date many people across the world recharge themselves with love, God’s priceless gift to all life. It has become a special day for celebrating love, that divine quality which binds God’s creation together. In spite of it being removed from the Church’s Calendar in 1969, St Valentine’s Day is even being celebrated as festival in many countries, including Scotland, Japan, Korea, and Taiwan.
Many legends have been woven around St Valentine and the genesis of the Lovers’ Day. One affirms that St Valentine, a Roman priest, was put to death on February 14 for secretly performing marriages among young ones contrary to Emperor Claudius II’s decision that young men, his potential soldiers, should not get married. The story has it that Emperor Claudius II, who ordered that St. Valentine be killed, believed that single men were more effective and efficient as soldiers than the married ones with children. Another legend contends that there was a clergyman known as Valentine too who was also presented and killed on February 14 for preaching the love of Christ.
Love lives forever. Many years after their death, many people still remember the peace their acts of love brought to humanity.
Since the beginning of the month, the air has been filled with the fragrance of felicitations and cheers among loved ones. More than it was in the beginning of St Valentine’s Day, spouses, friends, colleagues, and others have been exchanging love notes, tokens of affection, goodwill messages, and gifts. Perhaps, this goes to further buttress the ancient belief that February is a season of love and romance not only among humans but also among animals. During the Middle Ages in France and England, it was believed that birds began their mating on February 14.
But love is not a seasonal vocation. It is God. It is life. And in the language of the spiritual leader of Eckankar, Sri Harold Klemp, “Love is a graceful thing. Love is always sharing, telling people who need to know God’s love in a way they can understand”. In his book Love the Keystone of Life, he says that the real reason for man’s existence in this world is to open himself more to the love of God.
Many people find it difficult to open themselves up to love. They may speak volumes about love, but may not seek to give it. In the book Stranger by the River, Paul Twitchell writes: “Love is not a matter of belief. It is a matter of demonstration. It is not a question of authority, but one of perception and action. .. therefore, if you desire love, try to realize that the only way to get love is by giving love. That the more you give, the more you get; and the only way in which you can give is to fill yourself with it, until you become a magnet of love”.
Love makes everything beautiful. It knows hidden paths, and will always find a way. True love has no bounds, knows no restrictions, and as the sages say, it is like its source, God-Omnipresent, Omnipotent and Omniscient. Chastity, contentment, detachment, forgiveness, trust, happiness, justice, patience, sincerity, and other virtues find their true home in the heart in which love dwells. Conversely, lust, anger, greed, attachment, vanity, evil gossip, fault finding, irritability, malice, and other negative passions dwell in a perverse mind.
If wave of love can rise in one’s heart this season of love; if one can send good news; joy, thought, and feelings to one’s loved ones on a Valentine’s Day, and if one’s love is not limited by condition on February 14, then I suppose that one has the capacity to give love endlessly.
In giving love, we may not need to look too high, searching for naira and kobo and other material things to share with our spouses, friends, siblings, parents and others. We can simply offer our shoulders to one in pains and sorrow to lean on. What about a smile, a kind word, a little helping hand, hearty greetings, goodwill messages, and other expressions of concern and care? They can uplift the heart of the receiver and give him more living out of life.
And as Maxwell Maltze said: “Let us not be too proud to accept help from others, nor too callous to give it. Let us not say “unclean” just because the form of gift may not coincide with our prejudices or our ideas of self importance”. There is so much that life has in stock for us but our prejudices, intolerance, vanity, and some personal principles restrict us, in the wrong way, from having and enjoying the gifts that are offered us on a platter of gold.
Yes, in this season of love, we are propelled to show love and give selfless service to others. But what about ourselves? Do we really love ourselves? Are we kind to ourselves? To love others, we must be kind and loving to ourselves too. In Ask the Master, Sri Harold Klemp said: “You are a special person who has a lot to give others, but you’ve got to learn to be kinder to yourself. There is no school that teaches that, of course, but you can strike an attitude of openness as to how that can come to be.
If you have quiet conversation with yourself, ask, how can I be kinder to myself? Asking will open a door. Watch for people who have a life of kindness to themselves and others. For now, don’t try to copy them-just watch?”
Love imparts strength to one’s thoughts, words, feelings, and actions. It turns sorrow to joy, weakness to strength, and darkness to light. Happy Val.
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Restoring Order, Delivering Good Governance
The political atmosphere in Rivers State has been anything but calm in 2025. Yet, a rare moment of unity was witnessed on Saturday, June 28, when Governor Siminalayi Fubara and Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Chief Nyesom Wike, appeared side by side at the funeral of Elder Temple Omezurike Onuoha, Wike’s late uncle. What could have passed for a routine condolence visit evolved into a significant political statement—a symbolic show of reconciliation in a state bruised by deep political strife.
The funeral, attended by dignitaries from across the nation, was more than a moment of shared grief. It became the public reflection of a private peace accord reached earlier at the Presidential Villa in Abuja. There, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu brought together Governor Fubara, Minister Wike, the suspended Speaker of the Rivers State House of Assembly, Martin Amaewhule, and other lawmakers to chart a new path forward.
For Rivers people, that truce is a beacon of hope. But they are not content with photo opportunities and promises. What they demand now is the immediate lifting of the state of emergency declared in March 2025, and the unconditional reinstatement of Governor Fubara, Deputy Governor Dr. Ngozi Odu, and all suspended lawmakers. They insist on the restoration of their democratic mandate.
President Tinubu’s decision to suspend the entire structure of Rivers State’s elected leadership and appoint a sole administrator was a drastic response to a deepening political crisis. While it may have prevented a complete breakdown in governance, it also robbed the people of their voice. That silence must now end.
The administrator, retired naval chief Ibok-Ette Ibas, has managed a caretaker role. But Rivers State cannot thrive under unelected stewardship. Democracy must return—not partially, not symbolically, but fully. President Tinubu has to ensure that the people’s will, expressed through the ballot, is restored in word and deed.
Governor Fubara, who will complete his six-month suspension by September, was elected to serve the people of Rivers, not to be sidelined by political intrigues. His return should not be ceremonial. It should come with the full powers and authority vested in him by the constitution and the mandate of Rivers citizens.
The people’s frustration is understandable. At the heart of the political crisis was a power tussle between loyalists of Fubara and those of Wike. Institutions, particularly the State House of Assembly, became battlegrounds. Attempts were made to impeach Fubara. The situation deteriorated into a full-blown crisis, and governance was nearly brought to its knees.
But the tide must now turn. With the Senate’s approval of a record ?1.485 trillion budget for Rivers State for 2025, a new opportunity has emerged. This budget is not just a fiscal document—it is a blueprint for transformation, allocating ?1.077 trillion for capital projects alone. Yet, without the governor’s reinstatement, its execution remains in doubt.
It is Governor Fubara, and only him, who possesses the people’s mandate to execute this ambitious budget. It is time for him to return to duty with vigor, responsibility, and a renewed sense of urgency. The people expect delivery—on roads, hospitals, schools, and job creation.
Rivers civil servants, recovering from neglect and under appreciation, should also continue to be a top priority. Fubara should continue to ensure timely payment of salaries, address pension issues, and create a more effective, motivated public workforce. This is how governance becomes real in people’s lives.
The “Rivers First” mantra with which Fubara campaigned is now being tested. That slogan should become policy. It must inform every appointment, every contract, every budget decision, and every reform. It must reflect the needs and aspirations of the ordinary Rivers person—not political patrons or vested interests.
Beyond infrastructure and administration, political healing is essential. Governor Fubara and Minister Wike must go beyond temporary peace. They should actively unite their camps and followers to form one strong political family. The future of Rivers cannot be built on division.
Political appointments, both at the Federal and State levels, must reflect a spirit of fairness, tolerance, and inclusivity. The days of political vendettas and exclusive lists must end. Every ethnic group, every gender, and every generation must feel included in the new Rivers project.
Rivers is too diverse to be governed by one faction. Lasting peace can only be built on concessions, maturity, and equity. The people are watching to see if the peace deal will lead to deeper understanding or simply paper over cracks in an already fragile political arrangement.
Wike, now a national figure as Minister of the FCT, has a responsibility to rise above the local fray and support the development of Rivers State. His influence should bring federal attention and investment to the state, not political interference or division.
Likewise, Fubara should lead with restraint, humility, and a focus on service delivery. His return should not be marked by revenge or political purges but by inclusive leadership that welcomes even former adversaries into the process of rebuilding the state.
“The people are no longer interested in power struggles. They want light in their streets, drugs in their hospitals, teachers in their classrooms, and jobs for their children. The politics of ego and entitlement have to give way to governance with purpose.
The appearance of both leaders at the funeral was a glimpse of what unity could look like. That moment should now evolve into a movement-one that prioritizes Rivers State over every personal ambition. Let it be the beginning of true reconciliation and progress.
As September draws near, the Federal government should act decisively to end the state of emergency and reinstate all suspended officials. Rivers State must return to constitutional order and normal democratic processes. This is the minimum requirement of good governance.
The crisis in Rivers has dragged on for too long. The truce is a step forward, but much more is needed. Reinstating Governor Fubara, implementing the ?1.485 trillion budget, and uniting political factions are now the urgent tasks ahead. Rivers people have suffered enough. It is time to restore leadership, rebuild trust, and finally put Rivers first.
By: Amieyeofori Ibim
Amieyeofori Ibim is former Editor of The Tide Newspapers, political analyst and public affairs commentator
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