Women

What Men Want In Relationship

Published

7 years ago

October 6, 2017

Every relationship has its own little secret of what keeps it going and rocking. Today, we are going to look at what every man wants in relationship, it will help us get rid of some troubles we encounter in our relationships and put to an end , some avoidable misunderstandings .
Men in general, no matter how big or small, love to be praised; they love to be appreciated. When a man accomplishes a task, he likes to be noticed by his woman, he wants his woman at that point to praise him, using every sweet word at him, then you see his pride come all out. The more you praise his positive doings, the more you see the better man in him.
Men see respect as love. A man wants to be respected all round, no man wants a woman that will talk back at him, instead, when he says a thing, he wants to be supported and accepted just the way it is, without argument. Also, when a man feels his partner disapproves of him, his career, or the things he holds in high esteem, he develops a hard time trusting and loving her. If a man’s partner doesn’t respect his dreams and desires in life, he finds it difficult to love her.
Men connect through sex and communication, but mostly through sex. This does not mean that a man needs to have sex every time with his partner to feel connected, No! just that sometimes a man will initiate sex in order to make sure that the woman is still sexually available for him.
Emotional Intimacy: Men can be emotional sometimes, but they are thought at a very young age not to appear weak no matter what they come across in life. This type of weakness includes, complaining, opening up their fears and concerns and showing doubt or worry. A man’s partner is his safe space to fall. He tells her his trouble and expects her to help him. He needs to make sure that when he cries in front of her, she must have to elicit the right response. If he is pushed away or unable to be nurtured when he needs it the most, he will eventually lose trust and emotions.
Within all relationships, men want more time apart. Every man needs space, he needs some time alone. Suffocating a man by being around him all the time or putting up over-jealous behavior is the fastest way to end a relationship. Men need a breathing room in their relationship. They don’t like to be stuffed up, men don’t like it when their partner looks into their privacy, like their phones. Tony once said that he doesn’t like to beat women but the first girl he beat in his life is the girl he is dating presently.
She is always going through his phone, checking who calls him and whom he calls. She takes the numbers of Tony’s female callers and calls them back, warning them to desist from calling him again. One day he couldn’t take it any longer. The result was a fight and he beat her badly. Although he apologized to her and promised never to beat her again, that almost ended their relationship.
Men are always attracted to something in a relationship. When a man is in a very serious relationship he tends to open up about himself to his partner and he wouldn’t like her to use the things he told her against him. He feels secure when he is allowed to have his guy’s nights away from his partner unperturbed.
He also feels secure with the partner who takes steps to love him in the way that he most cherishes.
Most importantly, men want to be fed not only at the right time, but with the right meal that suits their appetite. This is why women who understand this, walk straight into their guys’ hert by getting them fed in the first place.
Men seek a care giver in every woman. They want their clothings laundered, their house kept.
Therefore, and their meal made if you are a man reading this, do you feel like all your needs are being met? Is there something your partner does differently, then send this article to her, if you are someone who is in a relationship with a man and you are reading this, how could you love him more and fully? Which of these can you put in more into your relationship? This isn’t about blame or fault-finding, or anybody doing anything wrong. This is about loving people in the best way that they could possibly be loved.

Sylvia ThankGod-Amadi/Chinasa Azodoh

Women

The Wise Woman

Published

7 days ago

April 26, 2024

The Tide

The wise woman builds her home. Mothers are supposed to live exemplary lives. The roles of mothers in the building of the modern Christian home cannot be overemphasized.
The function of the mother is to help the man build the home. She is a helper. A helper to the husband when the man is not doing well. It is important for the wise woman to assist when the man is not able to meet up with the items needed in the home.
A wise woman needs to reference God first and then the husband. Also the wise woman should respect her husband.
Caring for her own children as well as others is very crucial.
Do not despise children from other mothers. Discipline the child who is going the wrong way.
Ensure family bonding, show love and don’t discriminate. Connection with children is very important, especially the females. Find out who is her friend. Also find out the kind of lives they live. Caution, counsel and guide so that they make good partners.
Teaching children the dos and donts should start from birth. Inculcate the word of God in them so that when they grow, will not depart from it.
From the Scripture, some women influenced their families positively. Virgin Mary influenced the world, she never destroyed herself hence she gave birth to Jesus Christ.
Elizabeth, despite her age, God blessed her as she waited patiently.
A wise should curb favouritism in the family and love children equally. Whether a child is your biological child or not, it is necessary to show love equally. Reprimanding the children should be the function of both man and wife.

Women

The Desire Of Every Woman In Marriage

Published

7 days ago

April 26, 2024

The Tide

Marriage is beautiful when there is love. Before and after marriage, couples show love to themselves. But you discover that after some years, that same love turn to be something else. A lot of people start going through emotional trauma in the hands of their loved spouses.
There are many things the woman desires to keep the love on as far as marriage is concerned.
Women are blesssed with feminine abilities that can be used for good in husbands lives. With your abilities, you can create a marriage that will last till couples get old.
A woman needs
man that is honest, trustworthy, nice, loving and financially stable.
There are no two ways about finance in marriage. No matter the level of love, if there is no reasonable finance, it is always difficult to manage the home.
Referring to the Biblical belief in Genesis 3: “Your desire shall be unto you…….. “
What this means is that whatever the woman desires in life shall be provided as far as she performs her role in her home. There are many things the woman expects her husband to take care of.
A woman wants a husband that is not lazy, at least helping to do one or two things when he is at home.
A man that is educated and intelligent so that they will transfer such traits to their children.
Knowing that there are traits that her husband has, traits of taking care of people, giving freely to people and caring for her family. She expects him to exhibit them.
A woman wants to love a husband that has family interest at heart. A man that spends time with his family, remembering his family even as he is away from home.
No matter where he finds himself, he is not destracted by external influence. He returns home to his loved ones.
A woman should not antagonise her husband because of one error or the other. No matter the level of offence he may have committed, you still show some love.
According to the Scripture, it is with wisdom that a woman builds her home. As far as he rreturns home, you accept him as your own.
It is not as if the woman will not monitor her husband, but to certain limit. Don’t be a monitoring spirit. Don’t allow anything to take your joy.
Don’t loose trust in your husband. The idea of checking your husband’s phone should be discouraged. The more you check your husband and his phone, the more you loose your joy.
You can show some form of jealousy, but to an extent. Cooperation, respect and being honoured from time to time is what the woman desires.
The home should not be a battle ground for a woman and man. A woman should be able to ask herself if the check on her husband will pay her any good.
Draw a line to a point where you checkmate your husband’s activities.
A woman wants a man that will love her and telling her you love her will be all she desires.

Women

The Desire Of Every Woman In Marriage

Published

4 weeks ago

April 5, 2024

The Tide

A woman needs a man that is honest, trustworthy, nice, loving and financially stable.
There are no two ways about finance in marriage. No matter the level of love, If there is no money, it is always difficult.

Referring to the Biblical belief in Genesis 3:Your desire shall be unto you……..
That is one aspect the woman expects her husband to take care of.
A woman wants a husband that is not lazy, at least helping to do one or two things. A man that is educated and intelligent.
She knows that there is a trait that her husband has. Traits of taking care of people, giving freely to people and caring for her family.
A woman wants to love a husband that has family interest at heart. A man that spends time with his family, remembering his family even as he is away from home.
A woman should not antagonise her husband because of one error or the other. No matter the level of offence he may have committed, you still show some love.

According to the Scripture, it is with wisdom that the women builds her home.
It is not as if the woman will not monitor her husband, but to certain limit. Don’t be a monitoring spirit. Don’t allow anything to take your joy.
Don’t loose trust in your husband.
The idea of checking your husband’s phone should be discouraged. The more you check your husband and his phone, the more you loose your joy.

The home should not be a battle ground for a woman and man. A woman should be able to ask herself if the check on her husband will pay her any good.
Draw a line to a point where you checkmate your husband’s activities.
A woman wants a man that will love her and telling her you love her will be all she desires.