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Igwuruta Fire: One Incident, Many Tragedies

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Amidst pandemonium and tears, a family of five was burnt to ashes penultimate Saturday. Their bones were found on what remained of their bed. Two others were also roasted to death, while many sustained various degree of injuries. Property worth N150 million were destroyed, among which were over 25 buildings, electrical appliances, cash and other valuables.

At one end of the Igwuruta Roundabout was a petrol tanker roasting in flames. At the other end were sympathizers and men and women who struggled to quell the fire that had spread as far as about 150 meters away.

All these happened in one full swoop in an inferno that rocked Igwuruta in Ikwerre Local Government Area of Rivers State.

According to reports, the fire incident was caused by a petrol tanker that skidded off the road and fell on its side, spilling over 33,000 litres of fuel that burst into flames. The incident which occurred at about 4.30am when most people were still on bed caused outbreak that claimed six lives including a pregnant woman, her husband and two children. It was a mourning weekend for the people and residents of Igwuruta community.

The incident was so pathetic such that when Rivers State governor, Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi visited the scene some hours later, he almost burst into tears.

“It is so disastrous. I hear an entire family is gone, husband, wife and their children. Now, look at the level of damage”, Amaechi who was accompanied by his wife, Dame Judith Amaechi, Deputy Governor, Engr Tele Ikuru and Commissioner for Health, Dr Sampson Parker, lamented in an emotion ladened voice.

Eye witnesses said the death toll might be higher as scores of people sustained serious burns and were rushed to nearby hospitals.

An eyewitness, Mr Blessing Amadi who was one of the people that helped quell the fire with buckets of water and detergent said “I don’t believe that the number of people that died is just six as reported. With what happened that day, the number would be more than that”.

Investigation shows that but for the timely intervention of the youth in the area, former member of Rivers State House of Assembly, Hon Emmanuel Okata would probably have lost his life and that of his household.

Hon Okata who resides in the area said “the youths of Igwuruta saved me, my household and property”.

The buildings of the former lawmaker, according to sources, were about to be touched when Igwuruta youth quickly saved the situation by putting off the fire with water, sand and other materials. Although the entrance gate to the main building and parts of the fence were touched, Hon Okata was full of gratitude to God and the youth for saving his life and that of his entire household and property.

To this effect, Hon Okata and his family have scheduled a thanksgiving ceremony for April 8 in appreciation of what God has done for him.

“What if my building and properties that are parts of my life were destroyed? I can’t thank God enough”, he said.

Mr Clifford Umegbu, a landlord in the community was not that lucky. The man, according to reports, lost 20 houses with about 150 rooms and a cash of N250,000 to the inferno. Same for a butcher, Mr Samuel Iwuchukwu who reportedly lost N800,000 to the blaze.

Residents believe that the situation would have been put under control if the fire-fighting service had responded urgently.

According to a female resident who pleaded anonymity, the non-response of the fire service at the Port Harcourt International Airport, Omagwa, which was close to the scene, was disappointing. The fire service was said to have complained of not having enough capacity to respond to the situation.

Investigation also shows that it took two fire-fighting vehicles from the State government fire service more than two hours to respond. This, according to sources, provoked angry reactions from the Igwuruta youth. The irate youths allegedly vandalized the fire-fighting vehicles when they discovered that the fire-fighters came without water. Six of the fire-fighters were said to have been injured in the process.

The State Commissioner for Special Duties, Mr Emeka Worgu who described the fire incident as very painful, however condemned the attack on the fire-fighters. According to him, the attack on the fire-fighters from the State government fire service that tried to rescue the situation was unnecessary.

The Peoples Democratic Party in a statement signed by its Publicity Secretary, Mr George Ukwuofa-Nwogba, also condemned what it described as the “irrational reaction” of some youths who had prevented fire-fighters from the Rivers State Fire Service from rendering their legitimate service.

“Had the fire men on duty been allowed by the youths to perform their work, the level of destruction would have been arrested,” the statement said.

Shell Petroleum Development Company (SPDC) has come under heavy criticism for not responding to the situation. The company was being accused of insensitivity to the welfare and lives of its host.

The paramount ruler of Umuohia community in Igwuruta, Chief Samuel Amadi told The Tide in an interview that when the incident occurred, the SPDC was called upon to make available its fire-fighting service at Agbada II flow station, which is a few metres away from the scene; but the company refused to respond.

“If the company (SPDC) had responded, those who died and the properties that were lost would have been saved”, Chief Amadi said.

The paramount ruler who was visibly angry described the SPDC’s attitude as the height of insensitivity to the plight of its host community which it claims to enjoy harmonious relationship with.

“If the State Fire Service that is far away from the area (Igwuruta) could make an attempt, what excuse does the SPDC that resides in the area have?

“This act portrays Shell as a bad, insensitive and wicked neighbour. Igwuruta, particularly Umuoha Community, has taken serious note of SPDC’s wickedness”, he said.

All efforts to get the SPDC’s response to this allegation proved abortive.

The Nye-We-Ali of Igwuruta, HRH Eze Samuel Wekhe (Prof) who also spoke with our correspondent, described the fire incident as an unfortunate one that has left victims in sorrow.

While commending the Rivers State Governor, Rt. Hon Amaechi and his wife for personally visiting the scene for first hand assessment, the royal father also appealed to the State government to look at the remote and immediate causes of the accident, and as well assist in rehabilitating the victims.

“Probably as the tanker driver was driving in the night, he might have slept off; he might also have been over-speeding or the vehicle might have had some problems. Government can take a general look and may be decide that tankers do not drive (ply the roads) at night”.

The royal father also argued that the Igwuruta Roundabout was not wide and conducive enough for long vehicles to maneuver. This, according to him, should make the State government think of expanding the roundabout or construct a new one that can serve the growing population of Igwuruta for the next 20 to 30 years.

Besides the Igwuruta Roundabout which is said to be difficult for long vehicles to maneuver, the Igwuruta road has been in a state of disrepair for the past two years. This, according to sources, has led to about four accidents in recent times.

A community leader, Chief Ernest Wosu who confirmed that the Igwuruta Round-About had witnessed many accidents in the past, appealed to the State government to expand the roundabout and possibly construct a fly-over around the place to reduce regular accidents.

In view of this incident and others before it, Governor Amaechi has promised to reconstruct the road around the Igwuruta roundabout, which is a federal road. This, according to him, would ensure free flow of traffic and avert similar tragic accidents in future.

While pledging his government’s readiness to provide necessary assistance to the families of those affected by the fire incident, the Rivers State Chief Executive also expressed his administration’s determination to reduce drivers’ recklessness on the roads.

“We must reduce the level of irresponsibility of some road users. I have just directed the commissioner for Special Duties to identify the families and let us see how much we can assist them”, he stated.

Since the tragic event 10 days ago, many people have paid sympathy visits to the Nye-We-Ali Igwuruta and his Council of Chiefs. Among the sympathizers were the Ikwerre Development Association (IDA) led by its President, Mr Chris Chinwo and the Chairman of Ikwerre Local Government, Hon. Welendu Amadi who pledged his council’s readiness to assist the surviving victims and the families of the dead.

 

Boye Salau with reports from Chris Oluoh

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Farmers/Herders Clash:  Livestock Ministry As Solution

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The persistent clash between farmers and herders in Nigeria has been a longstanding issue. These conflicts, often, over resources like land and water, have led to loss of lives, destruction of property, displacement of large numbers of people, deep-seated mistrust between communities and insecurity. Herders, traditionally nomadic, move their livestock in search of grazing land and water. Farmers, on the other hand, require the same resources for their crops. This competition often leads to clashes, especially in areas where land is becoming increasingly scarce due to population growth, climate change, and environmental degradation. As these clashes intensify, there has been a growing call for sustainable solutions. Two weeks ago, President Bola Tinubu took a bold step towards tackling the issue by inaugurating the Presidential Committee on Implementation of Livestock Reforms and creating the Ministry of Livestock Development.
The committee which has the president as the chairman and the former Chairman of the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC), Professor Attahiru Jega as the deputy chairman has the mandate to address obstacles to agricultural productivity and open up new opportunities which benefit farmers, herders, processors, and distributors in the livestock-farming value chain as well as propose recommendations aimed at fostering a peaceful co-existence between herders and farmers, ensuring the security and economic well-being of Nigerians.The establishment of the Ministry of Livestock Development was part of the recommendations of the National Livestock Reforms Committee. Part of the 21 recommendations submitted to the president include: “This agenda should include the establishment and resuscitation of grazing reserves as suggested by many experts and well-meaning Nigerians and other methods of land utilisation.
“Create the Ministry of Livestock Resources in line with practice in many other West African countries. In the alternative, Federal and State Governments should expand the scope of existing Departments of Livestock Production to address the broader needs of the industry,” among others. Experts in the agricultural sector have posited that the livestock industry can create millions of jobs directly in farming, processing, and distribution, and indirectly in related sectors like feed production, veterinary services, and marketing. It provides livelihoods for rural populations, helping to reduce poverty and improve the quality of life in rural areas. It also increases the Gross Domestic Product (GDP) and foreign exchange earnings through the exports of livestock and livestock products such as meat, dairy, wool and leather.
According to them, a well-funded livestock industry supports the growth of agro-processing sectors, such as meat packing, dairy processing, and leather manufacturing, adds value to raw products and creates additional economic activity as well as stimulates the development of supply chains, including logistics, packaging, and retail, contributing to broader economic growth. It enhances economic resilience by diversifying the agricultural sector and providing a buffer against crop failures or other agricultural shocks and many more. Some other agriculturists have also opined that the livestock industry in Nigeria is currently underdeveloped and that by the creation of the ministry of livestock development will open up the industry which will be a huge money spinner for Nigeria.
Reports have shown that a Livestock Ministry can play a pivotal role in mitigating  conflicts between farmers and herders by implementing policies and programmes aimed at fostering coexistence and sustainable resource management. The Ministry can work towards clearly demarcating grazing routes and farming areas. This would reduce instances of trespassing and accidental crop destruction, a common flashpoint for conflict. While introducing rotational grazing systems can ensure that land is used sustainably, preventing overgrazing and land degradation, establishing water points and boreholes specifically for livestock can reduce competition for water resources. Similarly, promoting the development of pasturelands through reseeding and controlled burns can improve grazing conditions.
According to a veterinary doctor, Dr Andrew Obadiah, by providing training for herders on sustainable livestock practices and for farmers on conflict resolution, both parties can understand the importance of coexistence. He said that extension services of the ministry can offer advice on improving livestock health and productivity, reducing the need for large herds and extensive grazing. “Setting up local committees involving both farmers and herders to mediate disputes can provide a platform for dialogue and peaceful resolution. Encouraging community-based conflict early warning systems can help prevent clashes before they escalate”, he emphasised.For Mrs. Stella Ugwu, a farmer, having a ministry dedicated to the development of the livestock industry can help in diversifying income sources for both farmers and herders and in turn reduce dependence on land.
”For instance, promoting agro-pastoralism can provide farmers with livestock and herders with agricultural produce”, she explained, adding that providing incentives for adopting sustainable practices, such as subsidies for fodder production or crop insurance, can ease economic pressures. Ugwu was however of the opinion that the creation of a new ministry to handle livestock affairs was uncalled for, since the job can effectively be done by the Technical and Service Department of the Federal Ministry of Agriculture and food security and its equivalent on the states level.In some countries, the establishment of a Livestock Ministry or similar bodies has shown promising results. For example, Ethiopia’s Ministry of Agriculture includes a dedicated department for livestock which has successfully implemented programmes to improve pastoral livelihoods and reduce conflicts.
In Kenya, the establishment of the National Drought Management Authority has helped manage resources better, thus reducing clashes between herders and farmers during dry seasons.The president of Miyetti Allah Cattle Breeders Association of Nigeria (MACBAN), Othman Ngelzarma, sees the Ministry of Livestock Development achieving the same feat for Nigeria in the near future. He told newsmen that, “MACBAN expresses its deepest appreciation to the Federal Government for creating a ministry of livestock to unlock the trillion-naira livestock economy and create qualitative and productive jobs across the value chain to improve the Nigerian economy. With this development, MACBAN believes the hope of the Nigerian pastoralists is now achieved under the Renewed Hope Agenda.
However, the Middle Belt Forum took a different view of the proposed Ministry of Livestock Development, saying it was not enough to sustainably resolve the decades-long farmers-herders crisis in the country. According to the National President of the association, Mr. Bitrus Pogu, what is needed to end the perennial farmers/herders clashes is a deliberate action by regulatory bodies and the government to stop criminal elements from carrying out deadly attacks on innocent Nigerians, mainly farmers. Hear him: “If the reason for creating the Ministry is to stop clashes, I think it is wrong because all of these attacks and killings that are happening have nothing to do with conflicts between farmers and herders. “Farmers have never connived at any given time to go and attack herders, but rather, criminals who happen to be Fulani gang up and attack farmers, kill, maim and chase them out of their ancestral homes.
“Then, the Fulani will come and occupy them. So, it is more about invasion, criminality, and terrorism. And the majority of those they hire to do these evils are not even those who have cattle. So, a deliberate action has to be taken by the government against the perpetrators, which will address the criminality.” Mr. Pogu suggested that the government should adopt ranching for productivity and enduring peace between the pastoralists and farmers in particular and the entire country in general.While the establishment of a Livestock Ministry presents a viable solution, it is not without challenges. Funding constraints, bureaucratic inefficiencies, and corruption can hamper its effectiveness. Additionally, deeply ingrained cultural practices and mistrust between farmers and herders can be difficult to overcome.
Critics argue that without a holistic approach that includes land reform, climate change adaptation, and broader economic development, a Livestock Ministry alone may not be sufficient. Therefore, it must work in tandem with other governmental and non-governmental bodies to ensure comprehensive solutions. “A dedicated Livestock Ministry, with its focus on sustainable resource management, conflict resolution, and economic incentives, offers a promising avenue to address the root causes of these clashes. However, its success depends on effective implementation, adequate funding, and the cooperation of all stakeholders involved. With the right strategies and commitment, devoid of any political or selfish interest, it can play a crucial role in fostering peace and prosperity in affected regions”, they advised.

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Developments In Rivers’ Health Sector  …A Leap To Greater Height

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Quote:”In all of  these, politics was put aside while governance and care for the people rented the air”.
The Holy Scriptures was apt when it recorded in the Book of Proverbs Chapter 29 verses 2 that “when the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice”. This became evident in our dear state under the visionary leadership of Governor Siminalayi Fubara CON, GSSRS anchored by our amiable Commissioner for Health, Dr. Adaeze Chidinma Oreh. In the year under review, the implementation of Rivers State Health Insurance with 20,000 lives enrolled between April and August 2024 was made possible. This is not a paper work, but something on record for everyone to see.  Another point to note was that of Lassa Fever Outbreak. The swift containment of the Lassa Fever outbreak was greeted with superior attention by the State Government under the supervision of the Honorable Commissioner. Going down the lane, proactive emergency preparedness and response against Cholera outbreak was also recorded. One may be tempted to imagine, what would have been the fate of Rivers people and its residents, if Fubara did not become the Governor, or had  Oreh  not  been nominated as the Health Commissioner.
The reactivation of 24/7 Rivers State Emergency Ambulance Service and accreditation of Rivers State School of Nursing to College of Nursing Sciences by Nursing and Midwifery Council of Nigeria are another issues to ponder on. In all of  these, politics was put aside while governance and care for the people rented the air. Increase in quota for admissions at the Rivers State College of Nursing Sciences by 142 percent  , completion of 400 Capacity Classroom Block for College of Nursing Sciences  and the current recruitment of 1000 healthcare workers for the Rivers State University Teaching Hospital (RSUTH) and Rivers State Hospitals Management Board are another set of invaluable feat for the Health under the supervision of Dr. Ureh.There are further the issues of increase in scholarship recipients at Pamo University of Medical Sciences by 50 percent ( 50%),  ongoing construction of Drug Rehabilitation Centre,  and renovation of Zonal Hospitals and General Hospitals across the street.
Before now, most General Hospitals in the State were just a shadow of itself. They were better recognized by some paintings and photo portraits hunged on their respective receptions. Things are actually fell apart in the governance of the Hospital cum Health Management in the state, because of what health pundits viewed as mediocrity. It did not take long after the advent of the present administration, things like construction of Staff Quarters, Laundry, and Mortuary at Zonal Hospitals,  and  new General Hospital in Obio/Akpor Local Government Area begin to crop up.These were what many in the state have viewed as impossible. But those with fore sight and whose firm believe are anchored in God Almighty, know that things will naturally get fixed in the state.The upgrading of Neuropsychiatric Hospital, inaugurations of Taskforce against Substandard Hospitals, Clinics & Diagnostic Facilities ,  Taskforce against Fake and Adulterated Medicines are another great achievement of the Government in the Health Sector.
There is this local adage that says that ” That the best way to hold or control rain was to first and foremost, control the lightening”,. This of course, was what the Governor via the Health Commissioner considered in the attempt to give the Health Sector a facelift.Without given attention to things like fake and adulterated drugs control, the system would not have been brushed off counterfeits. Though, drug adulteration and counterfeits are a sort of global concern, but could be brought under control when a good mercenary is in place.We also recorded the renovation of 35 Primary Healthcare centres across the 3 Senatorial Districts of the state and hosting of Team from the Royal Salford Hospital United Kingdom for Advanced Specialist Training in Renal Care  (Nephrology) at Rivers State University Teaching Hospital. Establishment of six (6) Integrated Management of Acute Malnutrition (IMAM) Sites across the three (3) senatorial districts of Rivers State to address childhood malnutrition and reduce the burden of underweight, stunted, and acutely malnourished children in the state. These were tagged as the first of its kind in Southern Nigeria.
The  State-wide Master Training in Safe Blood Surveillance (Haemovigilance) to enhance blood safety ,  developed and circulated a user-friendly specialised tool to begin formal reporting of blood transfusion reactions to enhance blood safety in Rivers State are among the many achievements at instant of the present Government in the Health Sector under the supervision of the Commissioner. The introductions  of Eye Care Services into the portfolio of healthcare services at the primary care level, Mental Health Services into the portfolio of healthcare services at the primary care level and that of the Obstetric Imaging/Uktrasound for Pregnant women into the portfolio of healthcare services at the primary care level are other things worthy to noted.The  implementation of the Community Health Influencers, Promoters and Services Programme (CHIPS), introduction of Midwives Services Programme in Rivers State, introduction of Oxygen programme in Primary Healthcare and the introduction of Gender Integration in Primary Healthcare are still among the credits recorded in the Health Sector.
One would not forget in a hurry the inauguration of Rivers State Health Committee for the Southern Religious and Traditional Rulers Engagement Project (SORTLE). I can beat my chest that the state never had it this way before now. These are clear testimonies that one can leverage on to make good defense for the present administration.  The development of Minimum Service Package for the provision of quality PHC services , Free Malaria rapid diagnosis, Antimalarial treatment across State Healthcare facilities  and improved maternal morbidity  mortality and improved child immunisation coverage, all came with the Fubara Government.Opening of Burns Treatment and Care Unit ,  Modular Surgical Theatre, construction and  Pathology Laboratory for diagnostics and training purposes in RSUTH are second to none. The reconstitution of Boards – Rivers State University Teaching Hospital, Rivers StateHospitals Management Board ,  the unblocking of the promotion of Healthcare workers, harmonisation of Doctors Salaries to align with Consolidated Salary Scheme of Federal Government  and payment of Hazard Allowances for Doctors are all witnessed under Fubara.
Others include, payment of Residency Training Grants 2023-2024 for 379 doctors in Rivers State, accreditation of Paediatrics Training Programme in Rivers State University Teaching Hospital by National Poatgraduate Medical College of Nigeria and the opening of 12 ICU bed spaces at Rivers State University Teaching Hospital.One can go on and on without exhausting the achievements of the present administration. These are the things that gladden the hearts of the governed ( the people). Things that will make them feel the impact of the government around them. Most of the people are not chanced enough to even visit the Government House or attend any state function, but will rejoice, if the afore stated developments are at their reach. The expansions of bed spaces in Orthopedics and Trauma and  bed spaces in Rivers State University Teaching Hospital by 163 beds are also good developments. The South-South Award for Primary Healthcare Leadership (UNICEF, Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, Aliko Dangote  Foundation & Nigeria Governors’ Forum), Public Health Excellence Award by United States Centre for Disease Control and Prevention and  National Award in Tuberculosis control implementation abstract writing for the Public Health Department at the Rivers State Ministry of Health are further support and prove of the good deeds of the Governor Sim Fubara -led administration.
The recent commissioning and Commencement of Medical Oxygen Plant donated to RSG by UNICEF, Canadian Government, and IHS Towers at Eleme Generally Hospital, which did not in anyway, suggest a kind of End- of-Discussion for the Government in Health Sector, brought or open new page of challenge for the Government in the sector under review. Indeed, when”  The Righteous Rule, The Peopleby Rejoice “
By: Leslie  Eke
Leslie Ekeis the Eze Oha Evo III of Evo Kingdom Nyerisi Eli Woji ( Eze Woji XII), Chairman Ikwerre Government Recognized Traditional Rulers, Eze Gbakagbaka and a Public Affairs Analyst.
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Infertility And Family Stability

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Mrs Tamunobarabiye (not her real name) is an indigene  of one of the riverine Local Government Areas of the oil-rich Rivers State of Nigeria, She was happily married to a man whom she described as her heartthrob. And the marriage thrived peacefully for ten years when suddenly there was a twist of events in the marital relationship. The relationship turned sour because of the absence of the fruit of the womb. The marriage was characterised by accusations and counter accusations compounded by pressures from external influences especially the husband’s relatives who blamed their son’s wife for not giving a child to their son. They described the woman as “another man in the house”, The union which started well with the Bible at the centre, was cat and rat, until medical procedures vindicated the woman. Such is the fate of many marriages and the unfortunate condition of many homes in Nigeria with the woman  disproportionately blamed for lack of child bearing in marriage.
It is not saying something new that In most countries of the world, especially the African countries,  infertility has posed great challenge to stability of marriage. Some marriages have failed because of inability of couple to have children. In a typical African tradition, where misguided myth and superstition  hold sway, more often than not,  women are speculatively and presumptuously blamed for the lack of procreation in the marital relationship  while the husband is saintly in disposition and in the biased evaluation of his relatives. Gynaecologists however, have proven that either husband or wife or the both could be responsible for infertile challenges encountered in marriages. It is not exclusively an act of witchcraft as many African homes are prone to, and captivated  by such superstitious belief. Gynaecologists and other medical experts have cited ignorance and the lack of awareness as major contributory factors to the rising incidence of infertility in marriages.
The specialists in women challenges spoke at the 2024 Fertility Conference, held recently in Lagos. The annual event, themed, “Infertility – Need for Knowledge and Early Intervention,” was organised by the Parah Family Foundation(PFF). The Lead Speaker, Preye Fiebai, a Professor and Specialist Obstetrician and Gynaecologist from the University of Port Harcourt, also noted that Nigerian men were unaware that the ability to ejaculate did not equate to being fertile. According to Fiebai, research has shown that 20-45 percent of women in Nigeria are infertile, but often, the cause of infertility in marriages is not the women.
The Specialist Obstetrician said research breakdown shows that 40 percent of infertility cases are due to male factors, 40 percent to female factors, 15 percent to combined male and female factors, and five percent are unexplained.
Fiebai listed causes of infertility in men to include: erectile dysfunction, impotence, decreased libido, psychogenic issues, endocrinopathies, age, and over weight, among others. For women, the medical expert pointed to cervical factors, uterine factors, diseases of the fallopian tubes, and problems with ovulation. Also,  a professor of Surgery from the University of Lagos, Kehinde  Habeeb Tijani, added factors such as age, weight, stress, excessive alcohol consumption, exposure to radiation, and constant exposure of the testicles to high temperatures as contributors to infertility. For his part, Managing Director, Lifeline Fertility Clinic, Kemi Alioje and Tony Akinyemi, while affirming the submission of the other speakers, offered various remedies to overcome infertility. They also advised women over the age of 54 to avoid aspiring for pregnancy due to the associated risks.
Also speaking, the Conference Convener, Dayo Odukoya described the infertility rates and causes as “alarming.” She emphasised the need for ongoing awareness  to encourage couples experiencing infertility to seek solutions early in their marriages rather than delaying. According to her, “The foundation’s primary objective is to share vital information, enlighten and  provide the relevant support system for families undergoing fertility challenges to eradicate ignorance, the misguided myths and social stigma associated with delayed fertility in our society. “The choice of the theme for this year’s conference; infertility- needs for knowledge and early intervention; is to further reiterate the importance of continued awareness, and knowledge about the challenges of infertility and more importantly, action to be taken as early as possible if not, it may cause further delays, especially in late marriage and aged women.
“The journey to parenthood is lonely and must not be treaded alone. There is a need for a support system on this journey and that is where the Parah Family comes in,” she said. The effects of infertility is better imagined than experienced. It is daunting, overwhelming and emotionally devastating. It triggers uneasy calm, quarrels, fighting, accusations, and divorce. The effects defy religious membership as some Christian marriages are not free from the attendant challenges caused by infertility..
Mrs Veronica, a victim of infertility induced crisis said infertility in marriage is a nightmare that a woman should not wish her enemy. According to her, it is stigmatizing, and leads to exclusiveness in a matrimonial home.”You know this thing called infertility is a bad thing that one should not even wish it happens to her enemy. It is a very bad experience. You are not free in your marital home.
Almost every member of your husband’s extended family sees you as the cause of their brother not having a child”. For Mrs. Beauty, infertility is a challenge that some women brought on themselves ignorantly when they were young. According to her, abortion may cause infertility. “You know that no woman knows her fertility status – that is the number of children a woman can give birth to, in a normal condition. Some women might have several pregnancy abortion and may still have a child or children. But some may abort only once, yet may not have any child”. She warned against the temptation of abortion of pregnancy. She said no pregnancy is “unwanted”. Rather than trading blames and accusations, married men and women should undergo medical checks to ascertain their fertility status even before marriage. Those who are medically deficient should access medical facility to solve the problem.

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