The Summary Of Love

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.but what is most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person Know how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right ones, so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful for the gift. Love is when you take away the feeling,the passion and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go. When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so longer to the closed doors that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can just be with, never say a word,and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had. It is true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they love you back.
Don’t expect Love in return, just wait for it to grow in their hearts. But if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours. There are things you love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from, but do not be so deaf as not hear it from the one who says” it is from their hearts” . Never say goodbye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can’t go on, never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go.
Love comes to those who still hope, although they have been those who still hope, although they have been disappointed. To those who still believe although they have been betrayed. To those who still love , although they have been hurt before.
Sir Councillor Onyeama would always say “and to those who have the courage and faith to build trust again, it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to love someone and a day to love someone”.
But it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Do not go for looks, physique, they can decieve, all that glitters are not gold.
Do not go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile. Because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Hope you find someone that makes you smile, do not cheat, lie, kill but keep loving, love again.
Love is unique, divine, beautiful and it is from God, just as the popular saying goes “God is love, love is God and love is life’s. Love isn’t about sex, it is about understanding, trust and true agreement. Do you not get jealous when you see someone you love or admire, admiring someone else?
It’s high time you had started laying potentials and enviable standards for yourself, so that not just anyone around would speak to you in any way, state a standard for yourself and believe me you would love what you will become in the nearest future. Love yourself and be happy you did yourself a great deal. Don’t cheat, don’t lie. But keep loving yourself.
Right from the beginning of creation, our heavenly father had loved us so dearly and he says Love your friends and enemies and pray for their success. We all should endeavor that the term LOVE leads!
Miracle Peters is an intern with The Tide; a student of Abia State University.

By: Miracle Peters