Opinion
Educating The Girl-Child
Educating the girl-child has been a problem right from the time immemorial. Sadly enough, the tradition persists till today, especially in developing countries.
In Nigeria for example, many parents do not believe in educating the female child. Instead, they give them out in marriage at a very tender age. Some of them believe in the slogan that woman’s education ends in the kitchen. Interestingly, some Nigerian parents do not know that when you educate a female child, you educate the whole world. Educating a female child is never a waste of time and money, rather it’s a way of making the child useful and responsible in the society.
Due to poor attention, many parents paid to the education of their female children, many children have run into prostitution due to improper training, while some others ended up in early marriages, thus becoming liabilities not only to their husbands but to the society in general.
It needs to be stressed that marriage before education makes the female child to be liability to the husband and it leads to suffering and destruction. She will never be respected by her husband because her husband perceives her to be a burden to him. But when she is educated, she becomes an asset to the family, husband and society in general.
Today, females are playing more and better roles in the world even in our country Nigeria. The first Nigerian National Anthem was written by Mrs E.J. Williams in 1960 while the music that accompanied it was composed by Mrs Francica Brenda in that same year.
There are many female pioneers in Nigeria such as Prof. Grace Alele Williams who was the first female Vice Chancellor, University of Benin (UNIBEN); Mary Slessor who was the female missionary that stopped the killing of twins in Calabar the first female commissioner in Nigeria-Dorathy Miller. Mrs Elizabeth Abimbola, the first female medical doctor in Nigeria, Mrs. Flora Nwapa, the first female novelist in Nigeria, Mrs. Ranke Kale, the first Briigadier in the Nigerian Army, the first female lawyer to be honored as the Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN), Mrs Folake Solate and the female Deputy Governor in Nigeria from Lagos State, Mrs. L. Okunu.
Others include Mrs. Funmilayo Ransome Kuti, the first woman to drive a car in Nigeria, Mrs. Chinyere Onyemaucheya, the first female pilot in Nigeria; Mrs. Modupe Ome Eboh, the first female judge, Bisi Ugowe, the first female commissioner of police and Deputy Inspector-General of Police, Dr. Toyin Abimbola as the first female editor of a national newspaper while the current Chief Justice of Nigeria, Mrs Aloma Mukhtar is the first female CJN.
There are other female pioneers in Nigeria too many to remember. They were able to accomplish this task due to education. Had it been that their parents abandoned them to their fate or gave them out to early marriage without education, their stories would probably have been different today.
This goes to suggest that parents should make positive and useful contributions to the lives of their female children by educating them. Rather than enslaving them through early marriage they should invest in their education. It is certain that whatever investment they make in their education today will yield profit tomorrow. Education brings total liberation to every female child. It prepares them to be able to tackle the challenges that life presents and helps them to contribute maximally to the society.
When you are educated, you are equipped to make better decisions in life. Likewise, when a female child is educated, it enables her to secure a well-paid job to take care of the family in the absence of a man.
Now, Nigeria has 14 highest paid actresses, there is no gainsaying that they are useful to the country and their families as well. According to observers, Omotola Jolade has turned down scripts worth N3m and recently turned down scripts worth N2.5m.
Omotola’s take home fee is no longer N1.7m, she now collects N5m per script to be involved in any movie. The same applies to Genevieve Nnaji who collects N2m per script, and Ini Edo, 1.8m per script.
In the same vein, the Minsiter for Finance, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala who is also the Coordinating Minister of the Economy is a role model to Nigerian women. Likewise Dr. Oby Ezekwesili who was former Vice-President of the World Bank. These are women who rose to the pinnacle of their careers through education. Parents should therefore, make their female children leaders of tomorrow because female education does not end in kitchen. Whatever a man can do, a woman can do, even better.
Nwanne, a student of Heritage Polytechnic, Eket, Akwa-Ibom State, is an intern with The Tide.