Learn To Love Without Mistake

Love is one emotion that seems to have a strong grip on almost all human beings. Some have fallen in and out of love. Inspite of the tiny pinches, punches and hurts that are part of love, many would rather stay in anaemia love relationship than stay alone.

There are so many people, especially women, who rush into relationships, stay like caged animals, asking no questions until the love bubble bursts, and the tears start flowing.

An undergraduate from the University of Uyo, Miss Aniete Obong, stated that when starting a relationship, questions must be asked by both parties so that no one operates on assumption or takes the other person for granted.

Really, many do not find it easy to ask questions. For those who ask, they want or like to know how things are, while others are scared of the answer.  Of course, when in any relationship, it is good to keep your eyes and ears wide open when your loved one starts exhibiting funny behaviours, you need to be at alert.

Your lover craves to know where you are and what you are doing at any point in time in order not to play the second best.

If your lover is far away from the family, he/she will lack emotions and a mechanical life will step in.

Gone are the days when alcohol helped-men by putting them in a frame of mind to make advances to a woman.

This 21st century, men are bold enough to make advances without cigarette, alcohol or what have you.

Women, be very careful, beware of Mr  X coming  back to you, this type of lover believes in eating his cake and having it: a fake steady affair with  X is feeding you with half truth. This lover needs to be closely watched.

Suffocating love, the idea is that some lovers cannot resist smouldering others with love. Their love is clingy and suffocating, it can hardly  give you a breakthrough space.

They want to be with you all the time rather than let you off for a couple of minutes.

In a relationship like that, you hardly have time to unwind and may easily become irritable.

The lover is suffering from deep seated insecurity and may stifle you.

It has been noticed that a couple of lovers have problems in the management of cash (money).

They are capable of spending huge amount of money in a couple of seconds. They believe in let’s eat today, tomorrow will take care of itself.

Lovers, who use money this way often resort to borrowing money for things they ought not to.  At the end of the day, you may have no peace as people may come in daily to demand for their funds.

Honestly speaking, people in this category can never be reformed. If you try to, they may end up feeding you with loads of lies.